The 20 Minute Man Hour
The 20 Minute Man Hour
Scott Frazier and David Papa
Man, it can be strange being a guy today. Sometimes It seems women want you to become one of them. TV's heros are all nerds or wimps with an occasional muscle bound dude thrown in who looks like he spends all day doing curls while staring at himself in the mirror. None of those guys are like us and we bet they aren't like you either. We're two men talking about how to be a man in a relationship, how to build a business that fits you like your own skin, and how to make life so fun and easy that every day feels like a holiday. We'll tackle anything else that comes our way in a purely manly way. We're figuring this life out, going through our challenges, and sharing it all so you can figure it out too. Our man hour only takes 20 minutes because we are that efficient. Find Scott and his Men's Coaching at scottfrazier.com and find David the Business Strategist at loveandprofit.com
And...We're Back!
Welcome back! It's been two years since we recorded an episode and we missed you. This one is a long catchup that was long overdue! Listen in as we talk about how our lives have evolved and perhaps most importantly, how we now understand a bit more of what Michael Singer was talking about in that book The Surrender Experiment.
Feb 4, 2019
Surrender to Art
We're not talking about a guy named Art who is forcing you to surrender. Nope. We are talking today about an amazing experience Scott had inside a piece of art by James Turrell. The confusion of what he was seeing forced his brain to abandon logic, aka the operating system of the ego. Instead he had to surrender to the confusion and enjoy the experience. David had a similar experience battling the ego before finally being beat into submission. Funny thing, while surrender seems unenviable, we both felt an amazing release of tension that left peace and joy in its place. Tap into trust. Just try it. We won't force you to surrender but you just might enjoy it if you give it a try!
Feb 1, 2017
29 min
The Easy Life
Life is easy. So fucking easy. It wasn't always this way for us. Listen in today as we talk about how we learned a different approach to life that accelerated change. Now instead of manipulating the external world to get some results to make us happy we go to the blueprint level of reality and kick ass there. Makes life so easy!
Nov 21, 2016
24 min
Weird Science
Everyone seems to love hacking lately. This week we talk about hacking the nonconscious mind to create a new physical reality around you. Which of course just means hack your mind to get hot chicks. Cause that's what we are into.
Nov 16, 2016
29 min
Permission to Have Bad Sex
David shares some really great affirmations in today's pod that he has been using in his life. Things like "I allow myself to be hated and made fun of," "I allow myself to be unattractive" and "I allow myself to have awkward, weird, disappointing sex." Tune in to hear what he is doing with these really uplifting affirmations.
Nov 2, 2016
28 min
Scott's First Period
Hello! We wanted to take some time to update you dear listener on all kinds of stuff going on in our lives. Following your excitement can change things quickly sometimes! Scott quit his job, got neutered, and spent a week in Sedona. David's still fertile and in Prague...for the moment. Watch out ladies cause he doesn't know where he'll end up next!
Oct 11, 2016
29 min
I Quit!
Today Scott talks about upgrading his life. He had a sweet arrangement on a corporate job but it wasn't fully in alignment with who he is. So he quit. And in the process of this upgrade his fear voice started a war that was fascinating to watch. Listen in to hear if he survives this mental ambush.
Oct 5, 2016
47 min
Divorced
David's divorce is final. To celebrate, the guys talk about the arc of his relationship through marriage and divorce. Tune in to hear how one guy follows his resonance even when that means making some tough decisions others might not like.
Sep 28, 2016
30 min
Vaginas on TV
David caught an interesting show on TV the other day called Naked Attraction. He flipped on the channel and saw 6 vaginas, and two guys talking about what the differences were. What David took away was the reminder that different people are into different things. The guys talk about how you can quit judging yourself because other people aren't even going to see the same 'faults' you see in yourself. Be the authentic you. Accept and love yourself by doing what excites you - that is authentically you! And let attraction sort itself out along the way which is a great way to find someone who really loves you.
Aug 31, 2016
26 min
Reality?
This time we go deep, fast. What if we each experience a unique, subjective reality that operates by it's own rules? That would mean so many of our disagreements are moot because we are assuming there is an objective world to argue over. Instead we can choose to look at our experience as a unique world, where we can create however we choose. And the awesome thing with this theory is that we can share our unique experience with other people and listen to theirs...without thinking they are wrong or their different experience means something about our experience. Instead we can just take it as inspiration, seeing new possibilities, new things we can create in our experience. Shrink your world, take full responsibility, create what you want...if that resonates for you. If not, then you are obviously wrong. And we should fight over that.
Jul 25, 2016
29 min
Load more