Where is the line? If children can carry a block to the dramatic play area, can they bring the paint to the blocks? What about pom pom balls in the kitchen? Are children showing creativity or destroying materials? Mike works to help us process what to do when you get that "uh oh" feeling with children's unexpected uses of classroom materials. (Within this conversation, Tom refers to Episode 250: Accoutrements. Find it here.)  

Tom warns against being a "definer" of children. Teacher definitions can limit how children view their own capabilities and how others view them--sometimes for years to come. Mike points out that basing our interactions on predetermined labels takes us out of attunement. Joey suggests using "I wonder" phrasing to hold more possibilities open. 

IF we reflect on our rules and why we have them, what do we discover? Are some rules outdated? Do we know where they came from? Mike and Tom share skepticism about the practice of having children co-create the rules. Long lists of specific rules can lead to tattling and power struggles. Joey points out that rules have their place in helping children understand social expectations. Everyone agrees that following a set of guidelines meets the need for flexibility and allows for success along a spectrum of developmental levels.

Mike has a front row seat to observe teachers (and children) taking their first steps to create an environment that allows for all kinds of learning and play--even running after bears in the classroom. No matter how many days--or years--of experience we have, taking baby steps and reflection are the keys to success. Tom recalls children successfully navigating a full classroom at high speeds and Mike thinks back to a big bad wolf who never toppled anyone's art projects.

What does it mean to be in control when teaching and caring for children? We often think it means we can control children's actions when in reality we can only control ourselves.

Looking for relief from cabin fever? Ross leads a discussion about how we can do big things in small spaces. What kinds of activities alleviate the stress of being cooped up when we're not able to go outside? How can we use our spaces differently to allow for the movement we crave? How can we plan ahead for success?

Who wouldn't want a room full of happiness? From the early days of the show, the group reflects on how to read happiness in children. From running free in a big open space to contentedly sitting in someone's lap, we can see children's joy in their physical actions. Can we create places where every child can feel happy?  

Travel back in time to the early days of the show for a conversation about materials and limit setting. How do we decide where to set limits when children are experimenting with squeezing (lots of) glue, pouring (lots of) water or stapling (lots of) paper into books? We may not get it right in the moment, but reflection is key. How can we involve children in the process of setting limits and the impact of their actions on each other? 

Who does Batman call when he's scared? Ross wants to know. Does Batman get scared? Is he allowed to show fear? Maybe he should call his mom. Hopefully his teacher would help. How can we help children who wear the mask of superheroes manage uncomfortable feelings rather than fight them away?

Scary play is important for children's development, but why? What is it about imaginary bears, snakes, and monsters that keep children coming back for more? Tom shares his recent research about the distinction between fear and "scared." Perhaps, in play, children build their tolerance for the physiological sensations of scary feelings that might actually help keep fear away.