
Ever feel like singleness is holding you back? What if it’s actually your biggest opportunity?This episode dives into how rejection, heartbreak, and starting over can be the exact path to building the life you’ve been dreaming of. From quitting a job that felt soul-crushing to launching a business from scratch, this is for anyone who’s ready to bet on themselves and finally make that bold move.🎧 Listen if you’re:Over waiting for “the one”Feeling stuck or lost in your 20s or 30sReady to turn pain into purpose and power 💼💖Now is your time. Don’t waste it.#SingleAndThriving #WomenInBusiness #BuildYourDreamLife #BetOnYourself #SelfGrowth #SideHustleLife #PodcastForWomen #MontanaDoran #SingleBestiesPodcast
Mar 28, 2025
10 min

Friendship breakups hit different. They can hurt even more than romantic breakups sometimes. In this episode of The Single Besties Podcast, we’re diving into:✔️ Why losing friends in your 20s & beyond is so painful✔️ How to cope when friendships fade or end suddenly✔️ How to heal, grow, and attract better friendships📌 If you’re a single woman focusing on self-growth, empowerment, and embracing life on your terms, this one's for you!⏳ TIMESTAMPS:0:00 - Why friendship breakups hurt more than romantic ones2:10 - The slow fade: When friendships just stop without closure4:35 - Being ghosted by a friend vs. ghosted by a guy6:50 - Why female friendships feel permanent (but often aren’t)9:00 - Losing someone who knows EVERYTHING about you11:15 - How to move on & heal after losing a friend🚀 LET’S CONNECT!📸 Follow me on IG → https://www.instagram.com/singlebestiespodcast/
Feb 28, 2025
12 min

Ever wondered what it's like to travel solo as a single woman? In this episode, I spill ALL the tea on my recent solo trip to Europe—the highs, the lows, and the unexpected lessons I learned about self-love, independence, and female empowerment.Topics We Cover:✔️ Why I stopped waiting for friends & booked the trip ✈️✔️ Overcoming fear & traveling solo with confidence 👑✔️ Unexpected meet-cutes & friendships abroad 💕✔️ How this trip changed my mindset & dreams forever 💭🎧Listen in for a dose of inspiration, laughs, and single bestie energy!🔗 Mentioned in this episode:✨ Magic Mind (Get 48% off your first subscription!):magicmind.com/singleb20✨ Follow me for more solo travel & single bestie content: @singlebestiespodcast💕 #SingleBesties #SoloTravel #ThrivingSingleWomen
Feb 21, 2025
36 min

Bonjour, besties! 🇫🇷💋 How are we doing? This week on the Single Besties Podcast, I’m taking you along for my dating adventures in Paris! From dating apps abroad to romantic French kisses in the rain, I’m spilling all the details about what it’s really like to date in the City of Love. Did Parisian men live up to the hype? Were the conversations better? Did I fall in love and almost move to France? 👀 Spoiler alert: It was a journey.🌍 In This Episode:✅ My market research on dating culture outside the U.S.✅ The four French men I matched with (ranking them, obviously 💅)✅ A dreamy Parisian date that felt straight out of a movie✅ The unexpected toxic behavior that ruined my top pick 😬✅ The best and worst parts of dating in ParisThis was honestly one of my favorite dating experiences ever, and I can’t wait to share all the juicy details! 💕 Let’s chat in the comments—would you ever try dating apps abroad? 🌎👀📩 Let’s Connect!💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlebestiespodcast/💌 Business Inquiries: [email protected]🔥 Magic Mind – My go-to mental performance shot that helped me recover post-travel! Get 48% off your first subscription or 20% off a one-time purchase with code SINGLE20 at magicmind.com/singleb20. 🧠✨🛎 Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE & leave a review! It helps the podcast grow and keeps the Single Besties community thriving. 💕#DatingInParis #SoloTravel #DatingApps #ParisVlog #RomanceAbroadTIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Intro: Bonjour, Besties! 🇫🇷01:45 - Why I Went to Paris (And My Market Research for YOU)04:20 - Changing My Hinge Location to France – First Impressions 😏07:12 - The Four Men I Matched With: Ranking & First Conversations12:30 - My First Date: The Unexpected Realization About My "Type" 😳17:10 - Date #2: The Sweetest Frenchman & A Rainy Romance 🌧💋21:45 - My Birthday in Paris & A Surprise Call From Toxic Boy 🚩26:30 - Solo Exploring Paris: Shopping, McDonald’s & The Moulin Rouge 💃30:55 - Final Thoughts: Are Parisian Men Really Better?33:30 - Closing: Subscribe, Leave a Review & Join the Bestie Community!
Feb 14, 2025
35 min

Hey besties, I’m back! After a two-week break (because I was too busy living my best life in Europe), I’m finally here to share thefinal 15 lessons I learned before turning 30. Spoiler alert: You don’t magically wake up wiser, but some thingsdo shift in a big way.In this episode, I talk about:✅ The biggest mindset shift that changed everything✅ Why letting go of the wrong people is self-care✅ How I finally stopped overworking and started enjoying life✅ The power of solo travel and why every woman should do it✅ What society gets wrong about turning 30Plus, a sneak peek at my next episode:French vs. American dating apps—who does it better?Timestamps:0:00 - Intro & why I was MIA2:15 - Turning 30: Does anything actually change?5:45 - The hardest lesson about friendships9:20 - Confidence comes from action, not just thoughts12:30 - Burnout isn’t a badge of honor (why I fired a client)15:50 - Why rejection is actually redirection19:30 - You are the main character of your lifeStart your own 7 day challenge of MagicMind! Grab yours at magicmind.com/singleb20 and use codeSINGLE20 for a discount.What’s one lesson that changed your life?
Feb 7, 2025
21 min

Turning 30 is a huge milestone, and I’m sharing 30 lessons I learned before 30 that have completely changed my perspective on life, love, and success. From solo traveling to healing after heartbreak, I’m opening up about the challenges and wins of my 20s. Whether you're navigating relationships, pursuing your dreams, or just trying to figure it all out, these lessons are for you. In this episode, I discuss why trusting your gut is everything, how to build a life you love, and why being single isn’t just a waiting period. Join me for a heartfelt conversation and get ready to reflect on your own journey. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and drop your favorite lesson in the comments. I love you, besties! 💕
Timestamps:
00:00 – The Messy Room & Big Thank You ❤️
02:40 – The Power of Community
07:00 – 5 Years of Podcasting: What I’ve Learned
11:15 – Turning 30 & Embracing My Single Era
15:45 – Lesson #1: Trusting Your Instincts Always Pays Off
19:20 – Why I’m Traveling Solo
23:30 – Healing Isn’t Pretty, But It’s Worth It
Hashtags:
#EmpoweredWomen #Turning30 #SingleLife #SelfLoveJourney #PersonalGrowth ##IndependentWomen #HealingJourney #ConfidenceBoost #SoloTravel
Jan 23, 2025
28 min

Toxic relationships can leave lasting scars, but healing is possible—and you can thrive while single! In this episode of The Single Besties Podcast, host Montana Doran chats with author and poet Hanna Shebar about navigating singleness, self-love, and the lessons learned from toxic relationships.
Hanna shares her journey of turning heartbreak into art, her path to self-publishing success, and how journaling became a tool for healing. From breaking toxic cycles to building a fulfilling life as a single woman, this conversation is packed with insights and inspiration for anyone looking to embrace their season of singleness.
Whether you're dating, healing, or simply working on yourself, this episode is for you!
Don’t miss out on:
Tips for journaling and self-reflection
Why independence is key to self-love
How to build a community and find your people
Timestamps
0:00 – Introduction
1:30 – Meet the Guest: Hanna Shebar
4:05 – Hanna’s Last Date and Bumble Stories
7:15 – Toxic Relationships and Writing “Happily Never After”
10:45 – Healing Through Writing and the Journey of Self-Love
15:30 – Self-Publishing vs. Traditional Publishing: Hanna’s Experience
20:10 – The Power of Solitude and Building a Community
25:00 – Biggest Lessons Learned from Toxic Relationships
28:45 – Journaling for Healing: Tips and Advice
32:10 – The Emotional Journey Behind Hanna’s New Book
35:15 – The Single Bestie Question: Hanna’s Biggest “Ick”
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Dec 5, 2024
37 min

In this episode of the Single Besties Podcast, we’re diving deep into one of the toughest dating experiences: getting ghosted. If you've ever been left hanging by someone you thought was "the one," you're not alone. From how to process it emotionally to understanding why it happens (spoiler: it’s not your fault!), this episode is packed with advice to help you move forward after being ghosted. Whether you’ve just been ghosted or want to know how to handle it if it ever happens, I’m breaking down why it happens and how to heal. Plus, with spooky season upon us, this seems to be prime time for ghosting—so stay prepared!
Timestamps:0:00 - Welcome to Spooky Season!0:45 - How I Got Ghosted at a Concert (Storytime)3:00 - Why People Ghost: Emotional Immaturity & Conflict Avoidance4:20 - Step 1: Processing Your Feelings (It’s Okay to Feel Hurt)5:30 - Step 2: Resist the Urge to Stalk7:00 - Step 3: Accepting That Closure Isn’t Always an Option8:00 - Step 4: Focusing on Yourself and Moving On
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#Ghosted #DatingApps #SingleLife #OnlineDating #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #Breakups #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfCare #SpookySeason #HolidayBreakups
Nov 1, 2024
9 min

In this episode of the Single Besties Podcast, we dive into the unique challenges of dating with ADHD with licensed therapist Justin Gillespie (@adhdtherapist_jay). Justin shares his personal journey with ADHD, and together, we discuss the highs and lows that ADHD can bring to romantic relationships. From hyper-fixation on a new partner to navigating rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD), this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical strategies for managing emotions and communication while dating with ADHD.
We'll explore topics like impulse control, emotional regulation, and the "Pam Method," a simple three-step approach to handle overwhelming feelings. Justin also explains how ADHD can prolong that "honeymoon phase" and why some relationships feel more intense for people with ADHD. Plus, he shares tips for improving self-esteem and dealing with overthinking in early dating stages.
Whether you have ADHD or are dating someone who does, this episode provides a better understanding of how ADHD impacts love and relationships. Tune in to learn practical techniques to improve your dating experiences and take control of your emotional health.
Timestamps
0:00 - Welcome to the ADHD & Dating Episode
1:15 - Meet Justin Gillespie, ADHD Therapist
3:40 - How ADHD Affects Dating and Relationships
6:20 - Dealing with Hyper-Fixation in New Relationships
8:45 - Understanding Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD)
11:00 - How Impulse Control Impacts Emotional Regulation
13:20 - The "Pam Method" for Managing Emotional Responses
16:00 - Handling Overthinking in the Early Stages of Dating
19:10 - Boosting Self-Esteem for Better Dating Experiences
21:30 - Is There an ADHD-Friendly Diet?
23:00 - Justin's Book: "Hire a Coach, Not a Tutor"
23:40 - Final Thoughts and Where to Find Justin
Relevant Links
Guest's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adhdtherapist_jay/reels/
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Nov 1, 2024
24 min

In this solo episode of the Single Besties Podcast, we’re talking all things dating apps and why your profile might be holding you back from getting matches! From the dos and don’ts of picture selection to nailing the right prompts, this episode is packed with tough love and practical advice to help you level up your dating app game. If you’re stuck in a small town where dating apps are your main way to meet new people or just frustrated by the lack of matches, don’t worry—we’ve got you covered. We’ll break down the common profile mistakes, why certain photos aren’t doing you any favors (looking at you, fish pics), and how to show off your personality without giving too much away. Whether you’re on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge, this episode will help you create a profile that gets attention and real connections. Plus, learn how you can get a personalized dating app audit to improve your chances of matching!
Timestamps:
0:00 - Welcome Back, Let’s Talk Dating Apps!
1:25 - Why You’re Not Getting Matches (Tough Love Time!)
3:10 - Being Intentional on Dating Apps
4:45 - Picture Mistakes: No Fish, No Blurry Photos!
6:30 - Guys: How to Improve Your Dating Profile Photos
8:15 - Girls: Choosing the Right Photos to Show Your Personality
10:00 - The Importance of Prompts (Don’t Skip Them!)
11:30 - Final Tips for Revamping Your Profile
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Oct 11, 2024
12 min
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