Do you say to yourself, I have a lot going on? A full plate? 

I'm not here to contradict that reality of yours; however, this episode confronts the individual who willfully places everyone else's everything on their "To Do" list.  Although we deem this personality type as reliable, trustworthy and the cornerstone of their communities, how many take these responsibilities on while dismissing the importance of Self Responsibility.

I know the signs, because I've done it.  In this episode, I acknowledge that this mindset was how I believed care and love for others had to be demonstrated.  Meanwhile, I observed that those who I desired to "Help" the most often resented by devotion in micro-aggressive ways. There was no way I could be responsible for their lack of momentum, critical thinking and motivation, right? Why couldn't they just get it together? 

Sometimes - it's because we are in the way.  In the way of another persons growth, progress, defining moment, self-awareness.  We can stand in the way of these things for the people around us, and those we love while calling it something completely different.

My hope is that if you see yourself in this episode, you find the strength to adjust how you honor the responsibility that comes with being you.  That perhaps you'll be a bit more devoted and loyal to yourself.  No more misplaced responsibility, focus on bettering You.