Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 Do you ever feel like you are forced to do with people because you HAVE too? Yet, they are toxic in your life, they feel like Energy Vampires, and really are unhealthy for you mentally, emotionally, and physically, I know that feeling all too well. You are not alone. 

Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 It has never been adapting to changes, but they can also be viewed as growing pains. We grow, we evolve, we learn, and that leaves us with changes. Don't be so afraid of change, instead be afraid of comfort. That fear can sometimes prevents you from experiences that can change your life. 

Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 Everyone has an opinion, of course! We are all different so we have different points of view, experiences, etc. A perspective is not one version, it is many. We shouldn't allow  people to make us feel bad for having a different perspective or decisions on anything we do in OUR lives. 

Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 Moving forward as an adult with our own inner child trauma is hard. We are working on healing, growing,&  evolving into better versions of ourselves. Sometimes, we go into autopilot and have to pause and re-evaluate, especially as parents. Fall is here & that means transition is here, not just in seasons but within ourselves. 

Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 How did we get to this in 2022? Women's Uterus vs. Men's beliefs. I don't understand how we have to even debate this. How is this okay?  I don't see any one advocate for the discontinued use of viagra, which has no life or death conditions. Why is that medically an option for men? Yet, a pregnancy is not an option for women when it can kill her. Vasectomy should be more common and should be offered to young men the same way they offer women birth control pills at a teenage age. 

Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 Planning a vacation is always a fun idea. How do you go about deciding where to go? The details of transportation, activities, food, hotel accommodations, etc. There is a lot that goes into it. Take a guess where I normally default to. This summer I want to be able to explore new cities, locally that I can drive to.

Instagram: talkovercoffee_    TikTok: daniahda0 Working on ourselves is not an easy thing to do. That's why they are called journeys. Doing the work of self-love is part of it, and not allowing the world to label and make you believe that you are somebody else. Believe who you think you are. Those labels are made to put us in a box a category, a expectation, and when not in it, you feel like you failed those who labeled you. On the other hand, you may also feel like, thanks for trying to make it seem terrible, but the negative label I will flip it and make it my one of my strengths.

Instagram: talkovercoffee_  TikTok: daniahda0 I know I missed some weekly episodes, Sorry. I am back and have so much to say! I thank you for following & listening, simply supporting me. I realized a Ah-Ha moment,  I want to share with you. That moment when you finally are aware of the self-work in becoming who you really want to be, and see the results. I had that moment, pretty amazing to see my own growth. I share some new hobbies, I mentioned previously on finding those. Follow along on my socials to see how those are working out. 

We don’t give ourselves credit to our creativity. We have so much to offer in what our creations are. I’m also wondering what happened to “hobbies”. Do people still have those?

Connect with me on Instagram:@talkovercoffee_ I continue on this topic because I feel so much about how some things make no sense! We need to talk to about it to unlearn a lot of our way of thinking and that will eliminate so much worry and anxiety. Perspective on something like birth control, we should change the way it’s expected to be the women’s responsibility.