Send a text **Jess - Don't hate me for using this line from Mean Girls!** In this episode, Jess joins me to discuss what it looked like growing up gay in the midwest, when she realized she was gay, and why she prefers to use the term "gay" to "lesbian". We discuss the imposter syndrome that sets in when she doesn't feel "gay enough" even though she is married to a woman and has 2 kids. This is a common feeling amongst the LGBTQ+ community - even more common for people who are bisexual. She d...