Send a text Divorce can be amicable or one sided and blind sided. Divorce can come up for many different reasons. Unfortunately, when kids are involved, not only is a lot more at stake, but now you have to decide if it's worth it or if it would be best to stay and fight for the marriage. Even if you are ready and willing to fight, the other person might not be, and it isn't within your control whether or not divorce is your fate. Realizing the loss of control on the matter can be frustrating ...