Submission - In today's world this is what you are doing when you "Tap-Out". You can't take being beat any longer so you "tap-out" or submit to the more dominant fighter. In the Christian life we are called to "tap-out" to Christ!  We are called to submit to His authority.  Why would I ever want to do this?  The simple reason is that when you are fighting and you no longer can do anything else to defend yourself, you offer yourself up through an act of submission.  The act is done not to show the other person that they are dominate, but rather, to SAVE YOUR LIFE!  If you allow them to keep doing what they are doing, they will likely kill you.  This is not a particularly useful outcome if you have an interest in living.  We are called to submit our ways to God's ways.  Our culture and our pride, which is encouraged by Satan, tells us to never submit to anyone or anything.  We are all powerful and can do all things.  This great lie can be so ingrained in our fabric that we think of submission as a weakness rather than a strength.  In this show, Hutch and Kyle discuss the question, Why submit to God's Word?  You would never submit to anyone if you thought you could do it on your own.  This is exactly the piont of Christianity, you can not do this human life on your own.  It is only through Christ that we win eternal life.  So we should take the strong decision and submit to the one that will save our lives.  Jesus Christ and His Word!  http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

In our last episode we demonstrated the final product of a long time dream.  The Kettle Bar.  We had fun beating Kyle up with a great workout and getting a few laughs in the process.  But, in this second part we discuss the actual process of developing the dream of the Kettle Bar.  Ideas have a starting point and to some degree, an ending point.  Most ideas start and end within a short time of each other.  But ideas that begin to grab a little traction can have a lifespan that goes into significantly longer periods.  As we discuss the idea/dream of the Kettle Bar we unpack this lifespan.  The journey is where we truly learn the good, bad and ugly of our initial idea.  Often times when someone starts a business or invents a product you will hear the founder refer to it as their "baby" or "child".  This gives you an idea of the stages and processes that you will be going through.  Dreaming about having a child is one thing. Actually having a child and raising them to adulthood is an entirely different endeavor.  Check out this weeks show if you are thinking about your dreams or maybe you have already opened the door to your dream.  See if we share anything that hits a chord with you.  Maybe you have experienced something in your dream pursuit that you would be willing to share.  Please do! http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

Chasing your dreams is no easy matter.  It's the stuff movies and books are made of.  But, the romance often ends in the actual reality.  Chasing your dreams is can be incredible, but it can also be difficult.  In this show Hutch introduces the Kettle Bar®.  A dream of his for the past 5 years.  It has been a long journey, but there are so many lessons learned and still to be learned.  This show is actually broke into two separate parts.  The first one is the Hutch and Kyle actually working out with the Kettle Bar®.  Taking the opportunity to actually demonstrate what it is and how it is used.  The second part is the story of chasing the dream.  Check out the Kettle Bar® at www.kettlebarfitness.comrocksolidfamilies.comSupport the show

What's your inner voice telling you?  Does it beat you down or build you up?  As if life is not already tough enough, why do we add to our own demise by beating ourselves down?During this show Hutch and Kyle take on the inner critic.  Yes, there is definitley a time to be hard on yourself and drive to make yourself better. But, if we don't recognize how our mind works we may be digging ourselves into a deep hole of depression.  We may be kicking ourselves even when we are down.  Hutch and Kyle walk through a step by step process to recognize your inner voice and begin to use it wisely and even help direct it to make you better.  http://rocksolidfamilies.org#Rocksolidfamilies #familytherapy  #marriagecounseling  #parenting  #faithbasedcounseling #counseling #Strongdads #coaching #lifecoach #lifecoaching #marriagecoaching #marriageandfamily #control #security #Respect #affection #love #purpose #faithSupport the show

Strong Dads - How to Deal with Mr. Know it All - Episode - 184Have you ever found yourself stuck in the presence of Mr. Know it All?  Everything you seem to talk about he happens to be the resident expert on.  While a little dose of this goes a long way, what happens when you are getting more than your little dose?  During this show Hutch and Kyle discuss this challenge.  But before we get too judgmental about Mr. Know it All, it helps to know a little background.  You see, Mr. Know it All is not much different than Mr. Angry, Mr. Showoff, Mr. Gaslighter, or even Mr. Perfect.  All of these character descriptions come from a fear.  A fear of being rejected, not feeling valued, not being in control, or failing in the front of others.  Frequently men that struggle in these fears also have a lower EQ.  In other words, they don't realize how they are coming off to others.  This show helps us understand what's behind these behaviors and how we can do better to handle our time while in their presence.  And, maybe even how we may be able to help them a little in the process. http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

As Strong Dads we would like to say that this little test was easy, but not so fast.  You might be surprised how often you act like a boy rather than the man God desires us to be.  In this show we discuss how our thinking leads to our behaviors.  If you behave a like a boy it's only because you allow yourself to think like boy.  If we truly to be the "man of the house", then it's time to think like a man.  The questions below are common representatives of the type of thinking that are characteristic of boys vs men.  Read the questions and see how you fare. Boy Questions:How can I get laid tonight?How can I arrange my schedule so I can do what I want today?How can I get rich quick?How can I flirt with the lady at work or the store to see if I can get her attention?How can I get away from my family to go hang out with the guys?How can I impress others so they think more highly of me? What if I fail or something doesn’t go my way?Why does this crap always happen to me? How can I get more personal attention on social media? What will it cost me monthly? Let’s Try Man Questions: How can I make the team better?Who do I need to check on today? What do I need to make sure gets covered on the family calendar?What needs to be fixed around the house?How are my wife and kids doing?  What is the next training or educational opportunity to improve my function, job, or relationships?How did I recognize God in my life today?What kind of role model was I to my kids today? How am I leading my family? Spiritually, Morally, Emotionally, Physically?What are the weaknesses I have? What am I doing with them?How does my wife desire to be loved by me?Am I creating financial freedom for myself and those around me?What will my legacy to my family and friends be? http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

I'm so busy, I'm so busy!  Have you ever felt this way or even made this statement?  The truth is, you probably are so busy, but the question is, "are you being lazy?"  During this show,  Hutch and Kyle challenge each other and Strong Dads with just how busy they are.  What the research shows is that most of us are busy doing things that simply occupy time, but have little to do with what we really want in our lives.  The question is, how did we get so busy?  The answer may not be as pleasant as you want it to be.  We often get so busy because we are just being lazy.  We look for or accept to do the things that take up our day, but they really may not be that important.  They tend to be easier and require less work or focus on our part, but they still take up time.  The problem is that a lifestyle of this leads us to a place of regret down the road.  10, 15, or 20 years from now we look back and wonder why we are not in the place in life that we dreamed about.  During this show, we take an honest look at what we do with our time.  How we can decide more precisely how we want to use our time, and finally, the actions to take to protect our time.http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

Would your kids say your are mean?  That's a loaded question!  Maybe we could help clarify by defining words such as mean, strict, or permissive.  These are often ways that our kids perceive us.  The question then might be, which one is best?  Or, is there even a better approach to your parenting?  This week Strong Dads dives into what effective parenting looks like especially from the dad.  Research has revealed that our kids do not always know what is best for them.  In fact, what they may think would be best for them in a given moment may be one of the most harmful things they could ever have in their lives.  This is why we must understand what we, as Strong Dads, bring to the table of parenting.  Extremes towards any one of the three mentioned above is not longterm effective.  But, a combination along with specific timing can go a long way towards raising strong and healthy adults.  Here's a thought to consider.  Think about the things you are most proud of in your life.  Did you receive them easily or did you have to work and sacrifice for them?  Human nature is such that we value the things we work hard for.  Things that cost us something are going to be treated differently than freebies.  Your kids will greatly benefit if you can teach them the value of sweat equity, work ethic, and perseverance.  http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

Are you in the Fight?  Whether you realize it or not, you are!  The fight is something that every man finds themselves in.  It is the fight for your marriage, the fight for your family, the fight for leading your home and protecting the ones you love against all that is seeking to destroy the good in your life.  In today's show Strong Dads interviews TC Eckstein from The Fight. TC along with a group of common-minded men have formed the men's movement called The Fight.  The mission is simple in words, but difficult in reality.  Striving to equip, support, and teach every man about the fight they are in and how to win it!  The Fight and Strong Dads share many common aspects to their purpose.  They have joined forces in order to reach even more men.  When one man loses, we all lose.  The man is the strength of the family.  He is the vision-caster and protector of all that is good with his family.  If a man loses his vision or has no vision, his family will suffer.  This is not acceptable if you want to win.TC introduces our audience to The Fight Camp.  A weekend in which life gets simple and hard all at the same time.  Camping on a cold winter weekend with only the basics.  The idea is to eliminate all the so called comforts of life and simplify to what is important.  Refocusing your strength in who you are as a man in God's wilderness.  Learning to survive with a group of men where authenticity is the key to your growth.  No more masks!Men learn to connect and build a band of brothers.  A team where everyone understands who the real enemy is and how to overcome the enemy and bring victory into your life. Sign-up for The Fight Camp today: https://bit.ly/TheFightCamphttps://www.facebook.com/thefight414http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show

Why were you even born?  Wow, what kind of question is that?  Well, that's the kind of question that I sometimes hear men ask themselves in the middle of a coaching session; "Why was I even born?" The question comes from the idea that many of us wander around through life never quite knowing what our purpose or place in life is.  During this show we talk about how as dads, we can help our kids move through this process with greater clarity and vision for their future.  Hutch introduces his GPM - Guided Purpose Map process.  A 12 point process that every person should go through in order to discover and build their purpose in life.  Before you begin this process with your kids, practice it on yourself.  You may be surprised at the areas that you have not developed very clearly in your life.  http://rocksolidfamilies.orgSupport the show