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Not all relationships are supposed to last forever. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit taquita.substack.com

In this episode of To Stop Getting into the Car with Strangers, host Lotus continues the "Heart Work” mini-series by exploring love as a teacher and guide. Lotus discusses the challenges of trusting oneself and others, especially after experiencing emotional pain or betrayal. Emphasizing self-trust, boundaries, and healing, Lotus encourages listeners to reflect on their own trust issues, the safety they feel in relationships, and ways to build stronger trust. The episode offers practical insights and reflection questions, fostering vulnerability and personal growth in a relaxed, supportive tone. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit taquita.substack.com

In this episode, Lotus explores the importance of self-love as the foundation for happiness, prosperity, and healthy relationships. Released around Valentine’s Day, she challenges misconceptions about self-love, encourages listeners to celebrate small wins, and shares practical ways to “romanticize” daily life—like journaling, mindful walks, and beauty routines. Lois emphasizes setting personal boundaries and building trust with oneself, setting the stage for future episodes on love and relationships. She reminds listeners that self-love is essential, not selfish, and invites them to nurture themselves with kindness and intentional moments. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit taquita.substack.com

It is okay if no one really knows you, as long as you know you. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit taquita.substack.com

In this episode, host Lotus and guest Natalie, joined by friends, explore the theme of fear and its impact on personal growth, relationships, and cultural identity. Natalie shares her experiences with anxiety, community organizing in Chicago’s gothic scene, and navigating generational fear from her immigrant family. The conversation covers vulnerability, cultural expectations, and the importance of confronting fears to build resilience. They also discuss honoring ancestry, self-care rituals, and the challenges of maintaining community projects.Nathali Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/longnuts.39?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Gothic page: https://www.instagram.com/chicagogothicscene?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Instagram for podcast: https://www.instagram.com/stopgettingintothecar_ws?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit taquita.substack.com