This episode, we ask whether voting rights in the United States are progressing or regressing — from the historic Voting Rights Act of 1965 to today’s SAVE Act. We unpack what was fought for, what was gained, and why those rights may be challenged once again. Together, we reflect on what this moment means, what’s truly at stake, and what we’re still unlearning about freedom, power, and democracy.Join the Cousin Kickback⁠: Our private Patreon community, a safe place for you to gather and grow with others that are unlearning and deconstructing.Deconstruction Resources ⁠HERE!⁠Watch our Short Film “Progress” HEREShare your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected]’s CONNECT:TikTok: ⁠⁠@stevevonandbritt⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠SteveVon and Britt

This episode, we unpack major cultural moments — Kendrick Lamar’s historic Grammys, Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl impact, and Becoming outperforming Melania’s documentary. We explore what these shifts reveal about influence, representation, and why it feels like the culture is winning — while reflecting on the perfectionism many of us inherited from Christianity and what it means to actively unlearn it today.Join the Cousin Kickback⁠⁠: Our private Patreon community, a safe place for you to gather and grow with others that are unlearning and deconstructing.Deconstruction Resources ⁠⁠HERE!⁠⁠Share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected]’s CONNECT:TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@stevevonandbritt⁠⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠⁠SteveVon and Britt

In this episode, we unpack the murder of Alex Pretti alongside the ongoing Bethel Church and Shawn Bolz controversy to explore how authority operates when it’s left unchecked. We reflect on what it means when institutions — both spiritual and non spiritual — fail to answer for harm. Join us as we dig into accountability, responsibility, and what we are unlearning about power, trust, and leadership.Join the Cousin Kickback⁠: Our private Patreon community, a safe place for you to gather and grow with others that are unlearning and deconstructing.Deconstruction Resources ⁠HERE!⁠Share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected]’s CONNECT:TikTok: ⁠⁠@stevevonandbritt⁠⁠YouTube: ⁠SteveVon and Britt

The church was viral this week... but what does it mean? We talk Don Lemon's church protest coverage, Druski’s megachurch skit, plus Mike Todd’s response. We also discuss the uncomfortable truth about how money, branding, and influence have reshaped the modern church.Join the Cousin Kickback: Our private Patreon community, a safe place for you to gather and grow with others that are unlearning and deconstructing. Deconstruction Resources HERE!Share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected]’s CONNECT:TikTok: ⁠@stevevonandbritt⁠YouTube: SteveVon and Britt

This episode, we’re collectively asking: Are we in the Upside Down? Between viral clips, national headlines, and tense moments that just don’t feel normal, we break down what’s been dominating our feeds and our minds. From peace walks being interrupted to tragedy at the hands of ICE agents. We reflect on what we're processing and unlearning in real time to engage with a world that often feels like it's upside down. Tune in as we make sense of the chaos, ground ourselves in honest conversation, and explore the deeper lessons beneath the headlines.Welcome back to Season 3, Episode 11!Resources to help on your Deconstruction Journey HERE! When you use our link you help to support the work we do to create a safe space for those deconstructing. Thank you!Following this recording Keith's daughter clarified via TikTok that the GoFundMe in our video is not their official GoFundMe. We have listed the correct link below that goes directly to their family. Please give what you can as they still need help to reach their goal!https://gofund.me/dd5b09226To share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected]’s CONNECT:TikTok: @stevevonandbrittYouTube: SteveVon and Britt

Have you ever had questions about the Bible? Like everything isn’t quite adding up and you’re unsure of what’s even true. In today’s episode we go into Part 2 of our Deconstruction 101 Series called “All About the Bible”. Join us as we discuss the nuances and challenges of the Bible. We’re SteveVon Lamar and Britt Tashay, a married couple with over 20 years of ministry experience here to explore the tough questions and UNLEARN EVERYTHING to RELEARN what we now believe. Welcome to Season 2, Episode 6! Use code: USBPODCAST for 15% OFF your cart  “Conversations with Your Inner Self" Cards or use or link: https://zenfulnote.com/usbpodcast  Thank you for supporting our podcast by using our codes and/or links! GO OFF and give us your take by leaving us a voice message HERE: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stevevonandbritt/message To share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected] Let’s CONNECT: Instagram: @stevevonandbritt TikTok: @stevevonandbritt YouTube: SteveVon And Britt

Have you ever felt boxed in by binary thinking? Like everything isn’t as black and white as you were led to believe but more like shades of gray. In today’s episode we begin our Deconstruction 101 Series, where we discuss how we first navigated our deconstruction process by Unlearning Binary Thinking. Join us as we talk about the importance of going beyond right and wrong thinking. We’re SteveVon Lamar and Britt Tashay, a married couple with over 20 years of ministry experience here to explore the tough questions and UNLEARN EVERYTHING to RELEARN what we now believe. Welcome to Season 2, Episode 5! GO OFF and give us your take by leaving us a voice message HERE: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stevevonandbritt/message To share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected] Let’s CONNECT: Instagram: @stevevonandbritt TikTok: @stevevonandbritt YouTube: SteveVon And Britt

Have you ever met someone that was overly spiritual? Someone that uses being “spiritual” as a way to avoid facing problems… In today’s episode we close out the “I’m tired of this church” series and talk about how being churchy and overly spiritual can be unhealthy and even harmful. We’re SteveVon Lamar and Britt Tashay, a married couple with over 20 years of ministry experience here to explore the tough questions and UNLEARN EVERYTHING to RELEARN what we now believe. Welcome to Season 2, Episode 4! GO OFF and give us your take by leaving us a voice message HERE: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stevevonandbritt/message To share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected] Let’s CONNECT: Instagram: @stevevonandbritt TikTok: @stevevonandbritt YouTube: SteveVon And Britt

Have you ever felt like religion has stolen moments from your life? Moments where if you could go back in time to do it differently, you would… In today’s episode we continue Part 2 of the “I’m tired of this church” series and share experiences where we felt religion robbed us. We’re SteveVon Lamar and Britt Tashay, a married couple with over 20 years of ministry experience here to explore the tough questions and UNLEARN EVERYTHING to RELEARN what we now believe. Welcome to Season 2, Episode 3! GO OFF and give us your take by leaving us a voice message HERE: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/stevevonandbritt/message To share your story or advertise with us, email: [email protected] Let’s CONNECT: Instagram: @stevevonandbritt TikTok: @stevevonandbritt YouTube: SteveVon And Britt

Have you ever questioned if someone is truly hearing from God? They use statements like, “God said or the Lord told me…” and you wonder but did God really? In today's episode we begin our series called, “I’m tired of this church” where we deconstruct the “God said” moments.  Welcome to Season 2, Episode 2! GO OFF and give us your take by leaving us a voice message HERE. Don't want to leave a voice message... Email us: [email protected] Let’s CONNECT: Instagram: @stevevonandbritt TikTok: @stevevonandbritt YouTube: SteveVon And Britt