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Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code MANIFESTELLE to get 10% off your first order. (featured in the video: Vanilla Glazed Donut) Get more content like this in your inbox 💌 : https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle explores the rise of "female unaliver" books in contemporary literature. Starting with Gone Girl as a pivotal example, she delves into how these narratives challenge traditional depictions of women in media. Through analysis of works like Bunny, A Certain Hunger, and Boy Parts, Elle examines whether the glorification of “such” female acts truly serves women. While acknowledging these books' cathartic appeal, she implores the viewer to rethink what power truly means and if it is at all related to dominance.

Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code MANIFESTELLE to get 10% off your first order. (featured in the video: Vanilla Glazed Donut) Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this powerful episode, Elle tackles the complex topic of developing healthy self-esteem and boundaries for women who grew up without a positive father figure. She introduces the concept of the "Home Depot Dad" - an archetype of the supportive, present, and loving father who treats his daughter like a princess and sets high standards for how she should be treated. Elle challenges the misogynistic notion of "fatherless behavior" and emphasizes that women are not responsible for the actions of absent fathers. Through her signature "spoiled girlie philosophy," she explains how women can reclaim their worth and value regardless of their upbringing. The episode concludes with an empowering message about women's ability to shape the future by recognizing their inherent worth.

Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code MANIFESTELLE to get 10% off your first order. (featured in the video: Brown Sugar Glazed Donut) Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle Join Elle as she explores the disappearance of "the village" in modern motherhood. In this thought-provoking episode, Elle delves into why mothers in the United States are facing an unprecedented social support crisis, contrasting today's isolated parenting with traditional communal child-rearing practices. Drawing from personal experience growing up in a village-style community and backed by research on collective parenting across cultures, Elle examines how industrialization and shifting social values have contributed to the dissolution of supportive networks for mothers. She challenges the modern emphasis on rugged individualism and advocates for rebuilding meaningful community connections to support mothers in their parenting journey.

Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code MANIFESTELLE to get 10% off your first order. (featured in the video: Brown Sugar Glazed Donut) Get more content like this in your inbox 💌 : https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle breaks down the viral TikTok trend "telling my husband I can't pay the mortgage" and what it reveals about modern relationships. The trend features wives playfully telling their provider husbands they can't pay the mortgage, despite never being responsible for it, leading to confused and sometimes offended reactions. Elle analyzes how this trend sparked discussions about 50-50 relationships versus provider dynamics, pattern recognition in women's experiences, and the ongoing challenges of financial equity in relationships. She also shares practical advice for women seeking provider relationships, including maintaining financial independence and properly managing family finances.

Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code MANIFESTELLE to get 10% off your first order. (featured in the video: Ruby Cat Eye) Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In today's episode, Elle dives deep into the phenomenon of "304Tok" and its rising popularity, particularly focusing on content creator Blue Eyed Kayla Jade. The discussion explores how this TikTok subculture, where “such” workers share lifestyle content and personal stories, has gained widespread appreciation among women viewers. Elle examines the complex dynamics at play regarding “such” work while highlighting how this cultural shift represents a breaking down of traditional stigmas and social divisions. The episode thoughtfully balances celebrating individual agency while acknowledging the broader systemic issues and varying experiences within the industry.

Show your nails some love with https://iloveislashop.com Use code MANIFESTELLE to get 10% off your first order. (featured in the video: Ruby Cat Eye) Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In today's episode, Elle explores the fascinating question of why women tend to live longer than men. From biological factors like chromosomal differences to social behaviors and the intriguing "grandmother hypothesis," she delves into the science behind women's greater longevity. She also examines how factors like the "young male syndrome" and different lifestyle choices contribute to this gap in life expectancy, making this episode both informative and thought-provoking.

Help end child SA. Donate here: https://youtu.be/wEmP9cg1Z9s Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In today's episode, Elle discusses the shocking case of a mother who recently shared her heartbreaking story on social media about discovering her husband's [bad] behavior towards their young daughters. The episode focuses on raising awareness about child safety and prevention, while also exploring the complex societal issues surrounding these cases. Elle is running a fundraiser through the Youtube Giving Platform for Darkness to Light, a leading organization in preventing child abuse through education and community action. The discussion includes important statistics about these cases, socioeconomic factors, and the critical importance of financial independence for women's safety.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In today's episode, Elle delves into the often-overlooked burden of holiday preparations that disproportionately falls on women. As we approach Thanksgiving, Elle explores how women become the unsung architects of holiday magic, managing everything from cognitive and emotional labor to the physical demands of hosting. Through historical context and modern examples, she discusses how this traditionally wasn't "women's work", but evolved into a gendered responsibility that impacts women's mental and physical well-being. Elle emphasizes the importance of recognizing and redistributing this invisible labor, challenging listeners to raise their expectations and break free from exhausting holiday traditions that leave women overworked and underappreciated.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Learn The Business of Content Creation: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle This episode explores the complex dynamics of female competition, particularly focusing on how beauty is used as a means of rivalry among women. Elle discusses the concept of "beauty olympics," explaining how society has framed beauty as a competitive endeavor with winners and losers. The episode delves into the historical and psychological reasons behind this phenomenon, including the idea of beauty as survival, status symbol, and social currency. It examines how women's historical reliance on men for resources has led to internalized competition, and how modern media perpetuates these dynamics. Elle also touches on the concept of "pretty privilege" and how beauty standards have become intertwined with wealth and status. Throughout the episode, the host cites various studies, articles, and social media content to support these ideas, ultimately aiming to provide a nuanced understanding of female rivalry and encourage more cooperative relationships among women.

Become a Paid Subscriber and get Uninterrupted Episodes: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manifestelle/subscribe Get more content like this in your inbox 💌: https://manifestelle.substack.com Buy merch to support this channel: https://shopisla.co Copy my creator journey: https://manifestelle.thrivecart.com/the-business-of-content-creation/?coupon=CREATOR100 Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this thought-provoking episode, Elle delves into the complex relationship between women and politics in the aftermath of a recent US national election. She explores the concept of decentering men, patriarchy, and politics, encouraging listeners to expand their minds beyond the two-party system and the cycle of fear and anxiety. She discusses the 4B movement, its expansion, and criticisms, while emphasizing the importance of making politicians "pickmes" for the people they serve. Throughout the episode, Elle challenges listeners to center themselves and their communities' needs, rather than being manipulated by political structures.