Sorry To Hear That
Sorry To Hear That
CJ Williams
Join CJ Williams for her biweekly podcast exploring life after a loved one dies. The grief that follows isn’t so easy, but guests on the show are making it through. Guests tell stories about themselves, the loved one they lost, and how they have managed the business of death. These are their stories told to you about sadness, grief, and the small victories that help them move forward. Sorry To Hear That is published bi-weekly on Wednesdays.
Las Dos Reinas with Crystal AC Salas
This week on Sorry To Hear That, Crystal AC Salas - poet, writer, and teacher - reflects on her Abuelito aka ‘Ito, Serafin, and her Uncle/Tío, Miguel aka Mike. Their passings were similar but different - needing family to advocate for stays in the hospital - but one was in the hospital during COVID and the other was not. Their treatment by health professionals and the ability to show them love by the family also was different. Grief is complicated, disorienting and confusing. Crystal’s discussion with CJ definitely shows that.Learn more on the website - sorrytohearpodcast.com
Mar 17, 2021
36 min
What is Grief Like?
CJ Williams comes back with Season 2 of Sorry To Hear That. In the first episode of the season, CJ explores how to be curious, curiosity in grief, and what grief might be like if we put ourselves in other's shoes to better learn about ourselves on the grief journey.Learn more about the episode at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Mar 3, 2021
9 min
Best of Ep 8 Chris and Derrick
Welcome to the Best Of Sorry To Hear That. While on hiatus, once a month an old episode that was most listened to will be put back in your feed to catch you up in case you missed it. This month is Chris and Derrick.Listen to his story.Chris’ brother, Derrick, was just 53 years old when he suffered a sudden stroke. While scary and unexpected, Derrick seemed to be on the mend in the hospital. Then suddenly, while still in the hospital, Derrick suffered a heart attack. Seven days later, Chris and his mom made the decision to take Derrick off of life support. Learn more at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Dec 16, 2020
30 min
Best of Ep 5 Pam and Hollis
Welcome to the Best Of Sorry To Hear That. While on hiatus, once a month an old episode that was most listened to will be put back in your feed to catch you up in case you missed it. This month is Pam and Hollis.Listen to her story.CJ Williams speaks with Pam who lost her father, Hollis, in February. Pam discusses the relationship that she has with Hollis and how they were able to more fully develop their relationship before he died. Even though Hollis wanted a more casual memorial service, Pam and her siblings decided to have a Scottish wake. Grief has surprised Pam as she adjusts to living without her father present.Learn more at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Nov 18, 2020
16 min
Best of Ep 10 Halle and Lilah
Welcome to the Best Of Sorry To Hear That. While on hiatus, once a month an old episode that was most listened to will be put back in your feed to catch you up in case you missed it. This month is Halle and Lilah, also honoring October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. Listen to her story. CJ Williams speaks with Halle Marenger as she talks about her infant daughter, Lilah. While Halle had a young son at home, she and her husband were over the moon to be expecting a little girl. She would make their little family complete, especially after 3 previous miscarriages. After many challenges and seven weeks of bed rest in the hospital, little Lilah was born December 9, 2018, in an emergency C-section after she had stopped moving in utero. Barely 48 hours later, little Lilah had died, but only after a lot of love given to her from family near and far. In the wake of Lilah’s death, Halle has made advocacy around infertility, baby loss, and miscarriage a part of her mission as she shares her story with others by becoming a writer, speaker, and leader around this issue. Halle’s most recent article shares her thoughts about what Mother’s Day feels like after having experienced loss and miscarriage. Learn more at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Oct 14, 2020
47 min
See You In 2021
As a podcaster, business owner, and wife, CJ Williams reflects on what this season of Sorry To Hear That has brought to enrich her life. The next season of Sorry To Hear That will have more stories and a revamp of the format to better showcase the guests and what the overall goals of the show are. Sorry To Hear That will return in early 2021. Until then, a “Best of” will be released each month - a replay of some of the best episodes. See you in 2021.Learn more about the show at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Sep 2, 2020
3 min
Ep 17: Reflections on Netflix's "After Life"
This week CJ Williams reflects on the first and second seasons of After Life, a show on Netflix that stars Ricky Gervais. He plays a character named Tony that has lost his wife, Lisa, to breast cancer. Each episode begins with Tony watching a video of Lisa where she tells him something important or gives him a reminder. The show may reflect some lived experiences in the community of grievers and those that support them. CJ discusses therapy, feelings of anger that may come out of nowhere, being spoken to by random strangers, and developing a superpower. Learn more at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Jul 23, 2020
24 min
CJ's Diary - Grief in COVID
In this bonus episode, CJ Williams gets to speak with Jules from the blog GotGuts08 about what it is like to lose her grandparents, not even 60 days apart, during COVID. Learn more about her story on the website, sorrytohearpodcast.com
Jul 15, 2020
24 min
Ep 15: Darcy & WilliMo - He did a lot to stay with us.
Darcy, a huge Harry Potter fan, speaks with CJ Williams about her dad, William, who passed away from complications with prostate cancer. William, or now known as WilliMo because of an old email address, passed away and July 2020 marks 10 years. Learning what grief is and what it is not has been a large part of what Darcy has learned in the last decade.Learn more about Darcy and her story at sorrytohearpodcast.com
Jul 9, 2020
49 min
Ep 14: Cindy's Family - I am who I am because of them.
Cindy has experienced a lot of loss in her life as she discusses with CJ Williams, her mother and father, Larry and Audrey, her husband, Michael, sister, Holly, and dear friend, Ellen. With the number of losses that Cindy discussed with CJ, she showed a rather philosophical point of view where even though they were gone, she could appreciate each of them - her father, mother, sister, husband, and friend - as vehicles of long-lasting memories while still acknowledging that their deaths made an important impact. Find out more on the website - sorrytohearpodcast.com
Jun 25, 2020
55 min