Sophisticated Mess
Sophisticated Mess
Nicole Bolar
As a photographer, Nicole knows how to perfect a sophisticated image on social media. Welcome to the place where all of those picture perfect walls come crashing down and she opens up about the difficulties of transitioning from a teen into a young adult. She explores topics like self doubt, making money, life after college, and holding on to friendships, often talking with other college students about some of the most transformative moments in their late teens and early twenties. No one shows the deepest darkest secrets that make them who they are, but truthfully, we're all a little messy.
Who's in Your Corner with Trevor Carmona
In today’s rollercoaster of an episode, my good friend Trevor Carmona joins me on the podcast to discuss losing friends, gaining followers, and being a true ally! Not only is he an extremely strong powerlifter, but he’s also a talented TikTok dancer, fellow podcaster, and YouTuber! We have a lot of fun talking about social blades, high school twitter beef, and getting banned from twitter (oops) only to switch gears and get serious about his experience with digital friendships, the realities of meeting people with large social media followings, separating business from personal feelings, and most importantly, social justice and the Black Lives Matter movement. Thanks for listening! Watch on Youtube  Trevor's Podcast // Trevor's Youtube // Follow him on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter - @trevorjc116 Follow me on Instagram Tweet Me
Oct 2, 2020
1 hr 13 min
Graduating with a Generic College Degree
Hi guyssss in another episode today where I contemplate my life decisions, I talk about majoring in Communication studies, the pros and cons of having a generic bachelor's degree, and what that means for getting a job after graduation. I ALSO talk a little bit about the job market now that little miss Corona and quarantine has made everyone and their mom into social media stars. Stick around till the end to hear my tips and advice for overcoming the anxiety of graduating without any clear plans for the future !! Thanks for listening :) *Also I do know what PR and HR jobs are now :))) I actually looked it up after 2 years of being in my major lol Watch on YouTube Follow me on Instagram Tweet Me To see some of the powerlifting video work I did for Cassy, check out Cassy's Youtube channel!
Sep 25, 2020
47 min
Always Tell Your Friends You Love Them with Jake Bolar
In today's episode, I sit down with my brother Jake (the cooler sibling in my opinion) who seems to have life all figured out even though he's only 20 years old! In the 3 years I've been away at college he somehow learned the secret to saving money (!!) and the key to gaining followers on Instagram (!!!) which he kindly shared with the class. We also talk a little bit about his go-to music artists, working on cars, photography, how to network and build relationships, and the importance of good friendships :) Thanks for listening!  Follow Jake on Instagram  Watch on Youtube! Follow me on Instagram Tweet Me: @thereal_niko
Sep 18, 2020
1 hr 3 min
Overcoming Self-Doubt and Insecurity
Hello boys and girls, welcome to therapy :) In today's episode, I give you my secret to super-fast cold brew coffee, tell a story where a woman literally tried to RECRUIT ME for her business by approaching me in the gym, and casually mention that I may have run across a potential serial killer at Walmart. BUT most importantly, I share my take on the topics of self-doubt, insecurity, and breaking out of your shell, especially as it relates to sharing your work with others online. Enjoy this mixed bag of emotions!! Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/K3y41ip-IEE Tweet Me: @thereal_niko Instagram: @nicolebolar.blog
Sep 11, 2020
55 min
Should Small Girls Lift Big Weights?
Today I'm so excited to bring a USA National Powerlifting Champion (and more importantly one of my best friends), Cassy Carlton, onto the podcast! In this episode, we talk about fitness in college, the stigma surrounding females in weightlifting, and how to change the narrative around feminine and masculine physiques in the media. We also share some personal stories about gaining confidence in the weights section of the gym, and what it's like to be small girls who lift big weights as powerlifters at the University of Texas!  Make sure to watch us over on YouTube! Video coming soon, subscribe and turn on the bell to make sure you don't miss it! :) @therealniko Check out my Instagram @nicolebolar.blog Follow Cassy!  Instagram: @casslyfts  tiktok: @casslyfts  Twitter: @Cassy_Carlton  YouTube: Cassy Carlton
Aug 27, 2020
1 hr 3 min
Answering Your Questions about Relationships
Ahh a good old relationship Q/A. Tried and true...who's in the mood for some advice? Dating in college, AND in quarantine is HARD so in this episode, I give my two cents on dealing with a player, becoming more than "just friends," meeting new people, and taking things too personally -- Along with other fun little topics sprinkled in between. If you've ever had dating troubles, this one is for you! Youtube video coming soon! Make sure to check @therealniko to hang out with me on video :) Instagram: @nicolebolar.blog
Aug 27, 2020
40 min
But 1st - HoW DiD i eNd Up hEre?
WELCOME to the first episode of Sophisticated Mess! Started out with a bang and released 3 episodes at once -- how's that for a first time podcaster??? In this truly messy first episode, I (Nicole) give a little back story on myself and the path that led me to start a podcast in the middle of 2020. Learn a little bit about my dream jobs from childhood to present and strap in for future episodes where I'll be diving deeper into topics helping me better understand myself and life as a legal adult. Follow along with the video version on YouTube @therealniko and feel free to leave questions and feedback in the comments! Stay messy, stay cute, stay healthy friends :) Watch on YouTube! therealniko  Tweet me: @thereal_niko Instagram: @nicolebolar.blog 
Aug 27, 2020
28 min