
00:00:00 Improve your people skills00:02:38 The Triangle Eye Contact Technique00:06:53 Using Proxemics00:09:27 Personal Space00:14:23 Perceptual Positions For Empathy And Awareness00:23:45 Three-Step Active ListeningImprove Your People Skills: How to Build Relationships Anywhere, with Anyone, in Any Situation By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0Nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2P6YCS2Become the ultimate people person and social butterfly.Your qualifications and intelligence aren’t what will move you forward in life. People skills (soft skills, interpersonal skills, social skills, and likability) are. They allow you to effortlessly glide through life and roll with the punches, as well as maximize the situations you’ll find yourself in. When your relationships are harmonious and authentic, the whole world opens up.Understand people's psychological drives.Improve Your People Skills is a book of action that allows you to truly understand others and speak their language, no matter what it is. It will fundamentally change your approach to others and you’ll instantly understand where you’ve gone wrong. It goes beyond social intelligence and gives you a blueprint to the psychology of people.People skills open the doors for your life in a way that literally nothing else can.Become a captivating, comforting, and desired presence.Whether it’s winning at work politics, making new friends, or strengthening current relationships, people skills are your quickest and surest route to success – no matter the situation. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and sought-after social skills coach and trainer. He knows firsthand the value of people skills because they rescued him from lackluster grades and jumpstarted his career – the value of “just fitting in anywhere” cannot be understated.Build trust, create emotional depth, and cultivate intimacy. How to use empathy on a daily basis What proxemics are and how to use them The types of humor that you should and shouldn’t use Navigating tense situations and conflict How to argue better How to respond to people to make them feel heard and valuedLearn how to fit in anywhere, and make any interpersonal situation pleasurable.#PatrickKing #PeopleSkills #Relationship #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #ImproveYourPeopleSkills #MasterSocialSkills:EyeContact #BodyLanguage&ActiveListening
Jun 3, 2024
5 min

Establishing Boundaries: How to Protect Yourself, Become Assertive, Take Back Control, and Set Yourself Free (Be Confident and Fearless Book 6) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/establishboundariesking00:07:47.640 Drawing The Line00:13:00.440 Types Of Boundaries00:21:53.960 Are You In Need?00:28:09.515 Your Relationship With Boundaries00:33:02.040 The Conditional Statement00:38:01.480 An Important Definition00:58:21.120 Self Assessinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CV1V7HLHow to Establish Boundaries: Protect Yourself, Become Assertive, Take Back Control, and Set Yourself Free (Be Confident and Fearless Book 3) Kindle Editionby Patrick King (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
May 29, 2024
1 hr 7 min

Unlock the Secret to Better Relationships! People skills aren't just about what you say – they begin with how you think about others. 00:00:00 Improve your people skills00:03:20 Members of the Belief Police00:12:35 For instance, take the story of Clever Hans00:17:02 Hanlon’s RazorIn this video, we explore the power of: Hanlon's Razor: Why assuming good intentions strengthens connections. Curiosity Factor: How genuine interest unlocks fascinating conversations. Walking a Mile in Their Shoes: The power of empathy for understanding others. Discover how these simple mindset shifts can transform your interactions and build meaningful relationships. Ready to become a people magnet? Watch Now!
May 22, 2024
47 min

How to Listen, Hear, and Validate: Break Through Invisible Barriers and Transform Your Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 11) By Patrick King00:00:00 How to listen, hear, and validate00:10:37 Why Validation Is So Important00:16:53 Isn’t Validation The Same As Empathy?00:19:57 Validation—One Of The Clearest Ways To Express Care00:25:52 Validating The Right Way And In The Right MomentHear it Here - https://bit.ly/listenhearvalidatekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08WLBD418Cultivate deep connections wherever you go. Prevent 100% of conflict, misunderstanding, and loneliness.Healthy relationships involve our feelings being heard, understood, and validated. Unfortunately, this is the exception rather than the rule. Are you doing it wrong, and alienating people versus comforting them? Find out how to walk this fine line.Uncover the biggest obstacle to the intimate, healthy relationships that we desire and deserve.How to Listen, Hear, and Validate is all about our top communication struggle - our tendency to react instead of respond, and forget that our goal is to build bridges rather than walls. You’ll learn what you’ve been doing wrong, and why your efforts at getting closer to people - in deep or light manners - have failed. You’ll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are. Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator.No more unresolved issues, struggles to get close, or failures from ineffective communication.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful, reciprocative interactions.Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships.•The big mistakes when we ‘listen’ to others•How to structure a style for effective validation and empathy•Scripts to validate others, to know exactly what to say•Simple tactics to make others feel loved and seen•How to use empathetic communication and active listening techniquesDid you know? Most communication problems come from a lack of validation.Are we truly paying attention to the messages others are conveying, or are we just waiting for our turn to speak? Are we listening to reply, or listening to hear? After applying the proven techniques from this book, you’ll be able to increase love, respect and satisfaction to your relationship. You’ll become the person everyone wants in their life.Connect deeper and better. Raise the standard for your relationships.#A #Aggressive #All #Are #ASo #AWell #AYeah #B #BNo #BOh #Brisini #ExpressCare #Narcissist #TianSolomon #Validate #Validating #Validation #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #HowtoListen #Hear #andValidate #ValidationAsACommunicationSkill
May 15, 2024
33 min

Do you wish you were the life of the party, someone who effortlessly commands attention and connects with others? 00:00:00 Massive Charisma00:02:40 A Practical Definition00:05:47 Being More Influential00:16:39 Being More Affable00:28:14 Emotional Expressiveness00:33:50 Emotional Control00:36:10 Social Expressiveness00:38:34 Social Sensitivity00:41:51 Social ControlCharisma might seem like a magical gift, but it's actually a set of learnable skills! This video dives deep into the psychology of charisma, breaking it down into practical steps you can take to become more charming and influential. Learn how to project confidence, have captivating conversations, and leave a lasting impression. Discover the 3 key elements of charisma according to Dr. Ronald Riggio, and practical tips for improving your expressiveness, emotional intelligence, and social awareness. Plus, uncover the surprising benefits of acting and improv for boosting your social skills! Watch now and unlock your inner charm!
May 8, 2024
51 min

00:00:00 Better Small Talk00:02:15 A Life of Stories00:09:34 The 1 -1 -1 Method00:16:04 The Story Spine00:25:32 Inside StoriesStruggling with awkward small talk? Discover how to turn those fleeting interactions into meaningful connections with actionable tips from Patrick King's "Better Small Talk." This video dives into the book's key points, including:The power of storytelling to build rapport and create lasting memories.The 1-1-1 method to effortlessly transition from small talk to deeper conversations.The Story Spine framework for crafting captivating narratives that engage others.And much more!Learn how to navigate social situations with confidence, leave a lasting impression, and build stronger relationships through the art of better small talk.
May 1, 2024
43 min

Feeling awkward in conversations? Don't worry, charm isn't about you - it's about making others feel heard!00:00:00 Hello listeners00:01:28 Talk WITH people and not TO them00:17:18 Sustain Conversations with Conversational Threading and Useful AcronymsThis video dives into Chapter 2 of "Tools of the Charming" and unveils powerful techniques to keep conversations flowing and engaging.Discover the "Rule of Three" that prevents you from rambling, and learn the magic of "Conversational Threading" to effortlessly navigate discussions. ✨You'll learn: The secret to charm: It's not about you! (Spoiler: It's all about making them feel good!) The "Rule of Three": Stop information overload and keep conversations interesting. Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say! Why content is secondary to emotional connection.Become a master conversationalist today!P.S. Being open-minded, spontaneous, and genuine are key to everyday conversational success!
Apr 24, 2024
30 min

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-homeHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI• “Cooperative overlapping” is different from interrupting. It’s about talking along with the speaker, not to undermine or cut them off, but to validate what they’re saying, give encouragement, and show that they’re paying close attention. It can vary across cultures; neither way is right, but try to acknowledge and accommodate differences.00:00:00 Hello listeners00:04:29 Try to be alert of the different kinds of interrupting/overlapping00:08:49 Mastering Turn-Taking00:13:08 When They’re the Conversational Narcissist00:21:27 Summary• Turn-taking rules can be complex and culture-bound, but a big part of learning to be charming, likeable, and a good communicator is to constantly be appraising the situation and adapting and adjusting yourself accordingly.• When dealing with a conversational narcissist, don’t try to rescue the conversation by being more attentive, understanding, and charming yourself, or you’ll be taken advantage of. Instead use the gray rock technique and be aloof and unresponsive until they lose interest, and minimize contact as much as possible. Tighten up boundaries.
Apr 17, 2024
24 min

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-homeHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjI• People generally talk about things for a specific reason. If you can hear between the lines and find out what that reason is, you can have deeper conversations with others that are enjoyable for both of you. • Doing this isn’t especially hard; all you need to do is pay attention to what is being said. People organically bring up topics they are interested in, and their body language will very obviously indicate excitement or happiness while talking about that subject. With practice, you’ll be able to spot these telltale signs better and use them to have more fun and engaging conversations. • When someone is telling you something, try to determine what emotion is being conveyed. People are generally looking for some specific emotional reaction from you when they say something. It could be anger, a smile, amazement, curiosity, or something else. If you can figure out what emotion they’re trying to convey and what they’re expecting in return, you’ll make the other person feel understood and appreciated. Remember that conversations aren’t all about you. It’s an activity that involves mutual sharing and listening. Reacting to the other person’s emotions appropriately shows that you’re paying attention and actually care about what they’re saying. This is why you should react to everything. don’t ignore or let comments or nonverbal gestures just pass with no response.
Apr 10, 2024
17 min

Easily listen to Social Skills Coaching in your podcast app of choice at https://bit.ly/social-skills-home00:00:00 Hello listeners. Welcome to Social Skills Coaching.00:01:00.070 Match and Mirror Internal Communication Cues00:05:23.610 Match on Content 00:10:46.720 Expressing Without Speaking00:16:22.630 Posture and Body Orientation00:20:28.560 Eye Contact00:24:38.790 Paralinguistics00:26:09.440 The Four Ps of VoiceHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3N9lsjIFeeling lost in conversation? This video is your one-stop guide to mastering the fundamentals of communication! We'll break down Chapter 1 of [Book Title] by [Author Name], diving deep into: Identifying Your Communication Style: Discover your strengths and weaknesses as a communicator. Psychological Barriers: Learn how to overcome common hurdles that block effective communication. The Rapport Game: Unlock the secrets of building trust and connection with anyone. Expressing Without Speaking: The power of nonverbal communication - understand body language and paralinguistics. Summary Guide: Recap the key takeaways from Chapter 1 for easy reference.Bonus: We'll provide actionable tips to help you immediately improve your communication skills!Ready to become a communication master? Watch now!
Apr 3, 2024
35 min
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