In this episode of Slightly Shook, Dean & Nickko dive into the different types of people we fall for, even if they may be really detrimental to our mental health and quality of life. It’s fall, but we aren’t falling for no toxic people. NOT THIS CUDDLING SEASON. Bestie, the type of people we fall in love with is extremely telling of what we may be going through, what we WENT through, and what we are afraid of. We dive into the five different lovers we are drawn to–or the so called ‘lovers.’

We dive into the five types from our perspective:

1) THE RICH B*TCH – Falling for someone's wealth and material possessions rather than their personality and character

2) LOVER TO ALL – Falling for someone who is available to EVERYONE 

3) THE SKATER BOY/GIRL – Falling for the allure of a rebellious or 'bad boy/girl' persona

4) STOP DOING CARDIO - Falling for someone who you are constantly chasing…but they’re clearly emotionally unavailable or uninterested in a committed relationship.

5) BOB THE BUILDER MENTALITY – Trying to 'fix' or change someone else rather than focusing on yourself and your needs

6) CODEPENDENCY – Falling for someone where you are not dealing with your own self-loathing. Bestie, this is when you start becoming overly reliant on others for your happiness and self-worth.

We hope you found some solace and could relate to this list as both of us has been dragged through the trenches in our past experiences and how we navigated getting out of these delusionships… WE LOVE YOU and hope you’re reflecting after listening to this episode. Thanks for always pressing play <3. 

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