Skilling It!
Skilling It!
Dr. Chris Wilson
Episode 15 – Impression Management: Intentionally attempting to enhance what others think of us
18 minutes Posted Jun 19, 2021 at 7:18 pm.
“I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”
“A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who speaks lies will not escape.”
“It is honorable for a man to stop striving, since any fool can start a quarrel.”
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In this episode we’ll learn signs we’re engaging in impression management and the consequences of this behavior. Next, we’ll explore if Christians are exempt from it. Finally, we’ll discuss some ideas and reasons to change these behaviors and a practice to help impression management awareness.
Links:
Insecure? Remember Whose You Are a devotion by Rick Warren
https://pastorrick.com/insecure-remember-whose-you-are/
Impression Management: Considering Cultural, Social, and Spiritual Factors
By Ashley R. Norris
http://www.inquiriesjournal.com/amp/553/impression-management-considering-cultural-social-and-spiritual-factors#header1page1
Abundant Simplicity: Discovering the unhurried rhythms of graceby Jan Johnson
InterVarsity Press, 2011
The Dangerous Art of Impression Management by Ronald E. Riggio, Ph.D.
PsychologyToday.com
Bible verses:
John
Proverbs
Proverbs
Mindful listening hints – because it’s in conversation when we do the most impression management work
· When listening – Make it your single point of focus
· No multi-tasking
o Don’t consider your responses. Just listen
· Listen openly – Non-judgmentally
o Practice deep listening
o Perspective taking – theirs
· Speak with awareness
o Pause before speaking
o Monitor your thoughts
o Consider the effects of your words
o Allow the other time to respond
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