Sorry not sorry, but your New Years Resolutions are pointless. That is because, you are either setting unrealistic goals or lying to yourself about the goals. Stop making resolutions that get no where because you are just continuously wasting not only your time, but the time of the other around you. Keeping it short and sweet today. That's it, that's all. HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYBODY!

Love is used so casually. It's like it means nothing to say it or to express it all. We have created a toxic world surrounding love that it doesn't even look and sound like what it was intended to be. It's not something we just say, it's something you act on, something you create, and a connection to be made between each other. God is love and that is what we should be basing things on. Does God abuse you, does he lie to you, does he hurt you? No, because he genuinely loves us. We are not perfect and we are not meant to be, but the least we can do is to try to love as God loves us. It won't be easy, but it will be pure and that's all that matters. 

Sometimes, things just come to you and today, this topic was one that just fell in my lap. I want people to become more self aware about what is going on around them and what they say to others. Sometimes our experiences cause us to say and do crazy things, but it could also lead to signs that there is a greater situation occurring. Today, I want us to uncover whether or not if we are selfish because we allow our world to revolve around us. Is that such a bad thing? Also, why do people think that by saying that, they are putting a dagger in your back?  FYI, you really aren't hurting anyone by saying that and feeling that way. Maybe, you need to take a hard look in the mirror and see why you feel that way. Does your world not revolve around you? If it doesn't why not? Only you can answer those questions my friends and I hope today's discussion helps you to figure out why you may be feeling that way if you do? 

Self-Love is a concept that needs to be discussed more. There are a lot of people out there who were like me wearing masks and not knowing how to really love themselves. A lot of us think we do, but we don't. This podcast shares a bit about my experience and some tips that we can use to start our journey. Once you master this and unlock the door to self-love, you will notice how everything else falls into place for you. 

There is a time and place for everything. There are times in our life where validation and what people think about us is important; jobs. But in our everyday normal life when we are not catering the masses, we are free spirits and should act as such. What others may think of you doesn't define you and does not shape your future. They are looking at the glass half full. You know your capabilities, so do you and stop caring so much. If you make a mistake, so what? Everyone does. And if you are being judged for it, screw them. You do not need the around.  Fix your crowns my Kings and Queens. 

In order to teach others how to respect you, you need to know how to respect yourself. Some people will take advantage of that and slip through the cracks. Do not leave spaces open for people to think they can disrespect you. Set boundaries with others and stand 10 toes down on them. If you do not know what your boundaries are, then you can not set them with others. You need to take the time out to know what respect is to you and what things needs to be done for you to feel respected. Let's work on this and take back the respect we deserve and if we can't let us work together to walk away. 

I've seen so many people trying to live in a purpose that is not meant for them. It may be because they don't know how to find their purpose or it could be because they feel they are taking a short cut in life to get to the bag faster. Knowing your purpose or discovering it has nothing to do with getting to the bag or doing it because you seen people reap benefits from living in their purpose.  I was there once thinking I needed to be going into a particular aspect of healthcare and only realizing that I could make my own way in the industry and how I was meant to contribute in that space. It is still a battle everyday constantly asking myself if I am doing the right thing, but God gave me his stamp of approval. I am going to share a little of my journey and share some tips on how you can begin to discover your purpose and see what the plan is that God has for you. 

I have created this space to encourage you to reset and erase your problems away. This is a safe space where we not only can reset for the week, but learn how we can reset in life experiences that may come our way, learn to better love ourselves and see what all we can do to enhance our lives. So... let's get comfy, take a deep breath and SIP!