
I didn't want to leave you hanging for the summer. I just wanted to do a quick life check. For you and for me. I'm hoping to return in the fall, but we'll just have to see what this season brings. I haven't shared much of my private life lately because I wanted to shine light on others who have experienced trauma in some way and have still become successful. They have also found their purpose. It is equally as important for you to find yours, too. I thank you for tuning in this season. I pray you learned something about strength, courage, forgiveness, hope, and love. Feel free to share this with anyone you know who might need some inspiration today. Whatever you choose, just know I support you in your healing journey, where ever that may be, I'm always here if you need help.
Love and hugs!
Music: Ipanema by kantubeats x Late Night Instrumental by episodicbeats
Jul 1, 2022
10 min

Born in Germany, raised in the Midwest, Jeanette began writing for pay at the age of 16. After high school she went on to college hoping to become a journalist but that didn’t work out due to being involved with an abusive man. This eventually made her decide to buy a one way train ticket to California.
She eventually married, had two beautiful daughters but, after twelve years, she divorced. In the years to follow she met a terrific man, and they married in 1993.
Along the way, she began a real estate career, worked for various marketing companies but never felt satisfied. A decision for them to move back to the Midwest, for family reasons, opened doors for her to begin her first love, writing, again. She wrote a weekly column in a newspaper, made regular contributions for two magazines, and even got her degree in Communications at 54. That is also the time she began writing her book, “You’re Not Crazy - You’re Codependent”.
In the midst of life, she continues her search to becoming her best self, healing from past hurts and living authentically.
In this episode, you guessed it, we talk about codependency. We delve into why it occurs, what happens when it goes unchecked, and how to move past it. Jeanette should be an inspiration for all of us to heal. There's absolutely no reason why you can't. We'll likely have codependent tendencies for the rest of our lives, but that doesn't mean we have to give in.
If you enjoyed this episode and you're ready to begin your journey to living a peace life, check out Jeanette's book on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Crazy-Codependent-Addiction/dp/0615533469/ref=asc_df_0615533469/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312695266310&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=8188502122676120413&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9016919&hvtargid=pla-570674447160&psc=1
Blog: https://codependencycentral.blogspot.com
Intro and Outro Music: Sleepless by Fame J
https://www.beatstars.com/beat/sleepless-lofi-x-jazzhop-type-beat-10640443
May 10, 2022
40 min

Caged is the true never-before-told other side of an international, headline story that captivated audiences around the world in 2015. From the Today Show, NBC News, small-town newspapers, to Al Jazeera, everyone told their own version of the events that left Lara and her daughters exiled, the Commanding Officer of Guantanamo Bay’s Naval Base dismissed, and her husband dead.
In today's episode we discuss Lara's experience with domestic violence. We talk about the difficulty of processing grief, the reality of intimate partner violence, the lack of resources women have to handle these situations, what it was like to live a double life, her career, and how her daughter's have flourished after living through rugged life circumstances.
Caged on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Caged-True-Story-Abuse-Betrayal/dp/163195539X
Caged at Barnes and Noble:
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/caged-lara-m-sabanosh/1139397763
Contact Lara:
https://www.larasabanosh.com
Facebook: @LaraSabanoshCaged (Lara Sabanosh)
InstaGram: larasabanosh
Twitter: @LaraSabanosh
Resources discussed:
https://www.womenslaw.org
Outro music: Pumpin\' by dhedbeats
https://www.beatstars.com/dhedbeats
Mar 12, 2022
48 min

In this episode I speak with life coach Leann Evans about her experience with narcissistic abuse. We discuss techniques she uses to cope, what she's learned about herself, how she's managed to go no contact with her mother, and how healing herself has had an amazingly, positive impact on her relationship with her children. Narcissism is often talked about in today's society, but it's hardly understood because most narcissists will never get diagnosed with the personality disorder. However, the more we share our experiences, the better we will understand. I hope you learn as much as I did!
Contact Ms. Leann:
Email: [email protected]
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/donm.isurvived/
IG: @donm.isurvived
Intro & Outro beat: Thinking of you by Zver https://www.beatstars.com/beat/thinking-of-you-6751174
Feb 11, 2022
41 min

In this episode I have survivor, Nakira Howard, a single mommy from Detroit who was at the mercy of her ex boyfriend's hands in January 2021, years after they had been separated. This time when the incident occurred their daughter was present. We discuss how she co-parents with her ex-abuser, how she's coped as a survivor, and how her life has been since escaping. There are so many good tips in this episode, be ready to take notes!
Article referenced : https://www.clickondetroit.com/news/local/2021/10/25/detroit-woman-shares-her-domestic-violence-experience-to-encourage-others-to-seek-the-help/
Michigan's Crime Victim Program:
https://www.michigan.gov/mdhhs/0,5885,7-339-71548_54783_54853_54855---,00.html
Jan 1, 2022
56 min

Hey yall! Just wanted to give you a little of my spiritual wisdom before my next interview drops. I'm laughing because I don't believe I possess any spiritual wisdom, but I might. Praise God, because I definitely have the Holy Ghost.
In this episode, I talk about how I've come to terms with my sin, how in the world I still remain calm co-parenting with my ex-abuser, and how I cope with the holidays after my family has been torn apart. Literally. Scripture is the only answer for me.
Co-parenting videos I reference in the episode:
Tips for Co-Parenting with a Narcissist or Difficult Person
Stephanie Lyn Coaching
https://youtu.be/yB66HZKWX_I
Co-parenting with a Narcissist Dr. Ramani Durvasula
https://youtu.be/AHL_A0kodlY
Online Support Groups:
Domestic Abuse Support Group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1032485490166320/
Domestic Violence Support Group for Women
https://www.facebook.com/groups/560772291129322
Single Parent Sanity
https://www.facebook.com/groups/SingleParentSanity
Music: Posthumous Production x Reyo Beats
Dec 25, 2021
14 min

In this episode I have the amazing Amy Butcher, the author of Mothertrucker and Visiting Hours, and award winning essayist. We discuss the release of her latest book, which discusses the uncertainties of intimate partner violence, the resilience of women, and how we are stronger together. Listen up as we honor one of her dear friends and remind women that abuse can occur in different forms. It's also not often visible at surface level.
How to connect with Amy:
https://www.amyebutcher.com
https://www.amazon.com/Mothertrucker-Finding-Loneliest-Road-America-ebook/dp/B08WWPZ85M/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?keywords=mother+trucker&qid=1638111372&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUE4M0pGN0xaMzc0UjMmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTAyMDMxNzNXSlhTWUgyM1RGMzkmZW5jcnlwdGVkQWRJZD1BMDYyMDY1NTJPTldZVUYyVVdFN1Imd2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGYmYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl
Dec 1, 2021
20 min

In this episode I talk with Behavioral Health Therapist from Oregon, Christy Collins, aka Trauma Queen Christy, about how life can be interesting yet difficult. I know everything happens for a reason, but your childhood can seriously mold the person you were called to be. We talk about the different kinds of therapy, how trauma can impact each person differently, why everyone needs therapy, and how to use your story to change the lives of others. This is such a great interview. I hope you love our conversation as much as I did!
Connect: @trauma.queen.christy
www.thetraumaqueenchristy.com
Books discussed:
https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748/ref=sr_1_1?gclid=Cj0KCQiA-K2MBhC-ARIsAMtLKRszMx8AY26UENXcbjnc3CgzWvMmYDiM8K75EDOsc1niefP4qkdWniIaAmHwEALw_wcB&hvadid=241620573485&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9053228&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=12366383304768172651&hvtargid=kwd-52082394281&hydadcr=15524_10340834&keywords the+body+keeps+the+score&qid=1636716863&sr=8-1
https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139/ref=asc_df_1585429139/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312403172530&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=10013280271402784708&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9053228&hvtargid=pla-436644332348&psc=1&tag=&ref=&adgrpid=60300244057&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvadid=312403172530&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=10013280271402784708&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9053228&hvtargid=pla-436644332348
Nov 14, 2021
37 min

If you don't follow me on social media, I went on a retreat at the beginning of this month to be with the Lord. I decided to do a 30 day detox upon return. I'm alive and well friends. This season will strictly be for interviews and I'll only be dropping on a monthly basis. ARE YOU READY!!??!?!
I also believe I misspoke, the correct term is missing white woman syndrome not missing person*
Episode inspiration: Gabby Petito and Aretha Franklin
Music: Falling by Nagoyaslim
Sep 30, 2021
11 min

What has unraveled in my life over the past year is almost indescribable. I should probably be the most bitter, most angry, most depressed human being out there right now. But I AM NOT. Here's what I've been holding back. I'm telling you, you never know what someone is going through or what they've been through. I somehow managed to make it out the other side. For that, I am forever grateful. I hope this gives you a true understanding of what it's like to self heal, and at the very least inspire you to keep going.
Stay in touch!
IG @sierraunraveledpodcast @greeneyedcurlyq
Email [email protected]
See you later gators!
Resources
Music: wyd? just chillin by SmolBeatzSource: https://soundcloud.com/smolbeatz/wyd-just-chillinLicense: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/Get music free for a link from https://starfrosch.com
Music: Pages by SilencydeSource: https://soundcloud.com/silencyde/pagesLicense: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/Get music free for a link from https://starfrosch.com
Articles:
https://www.familyjusticecenter.org/commentary-domestic-violence-how-trauma-impacts-the-brain-and-behavior/
https://www.verywellmind.com/financial-abuse-4155224
https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/the-deleterious-effects-of-child-abuse/#:~:text=The%20consequence%20is%20that%20many,depression%2C%20anxiety%20and%20marital%20problems.
https://aifs.gov.au/cfca/publications/effects-child-abuse-and-neglect-adult-survivors
Videos:
https://coercivecontrolcollective.org/news/2018/3/12/the-power-and-control-wheel-1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5609_5FRjhY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VB9-4kELT2k
Jun 13, 2021
14 min
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