This is a multi layered conversation. Here I discuss….What REALLY matters when it comes to our characterHow being a leader, is not necessarily the same thing as someone occupying a position of leadership.Being clearly dialed into what you yourself value (so you’re not pulled off track by the multitude of opinions in the outside worldThe internal boundaries we need to have a strong place to standI use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

I recorded this as a one off conversation, with the intention that it's useful.  As well as sharing the details of what happened, I also talk about....Moments of insight - how important these moments are and what to know about them.What I mean by 'one spoon at a time'What someone needs from us if they open up about a tough time they're havingWhat we need from ourselves when were going through a tough or darker seasonBeing compassionate to ourselvesLearning to forgive myselfIm thinking this could be useful to listen to if you're experiencing a darker moment in your life (whatever the context), or if someone you love is going through a darker time.  If you know someone who would find this useful to listen to, please share it with them.I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

 This is part two of a bigger conversation. Here I share my thoughts on creating new pathways forward, versus getting stuck at levels that are simply unworkable. Here I have a lot to say around unhealthy, self-sacrifice versus healthy thriving leadership… And what becomes available when we value the latter. Also, this is a bigger conversation around using the moments where we feel squeezed, or simply frustrated, to pop into new levels of thinking. Rather than, what can often happen, which is seeing stuckness rather than solution. I hope you find this useful… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Its finally time to share all of this including what happened leading up to our last event, in particular what we did in the backend that no one knew. I also have a lot to say about the personal development industry, plus some of our experiences over the last few years that brought us where we are now, and moving forward…I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

In this conversation I unpack some stuff around a private message I received on social media. There’s some key distinctions I want to draw here around…Developing X-ray vision to see through the outer skin, to the bones of someone’s communicationHow we are NOT entitled to people’s time.Sniper messages, wrapped in cotton candy.What someone is ACTUALLY purchasing when they purchase a service from you.WHO you are investing into when you’re purchase a serviceBoundaries boundaries boundariesI use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Henare and I are ending our marriage together in order to make space for something even more special. In this conversation, I'm sharing about this, as well as some comments around long-term relationships. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Are our men being catered for in the growth space? Are men actually way more vulnerable than we realise? Whats being provided so that we’re ALL thriving? It matters that we as women are growing, and becoming stronger and stronger within ourselves. Time and time however, there’s a growth gap felt in relationships where the woman out paces her partner in growth. The answer is not to hold ourselves back as women. The answer is to provide opportunities where we can BOTH be in the conversation. Which is exactly what Henare and I are doing…I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Ready for part 2 of ‘freeing up your mental bandwidth’?!Today I want to share with you some things I've figured out over time, that have made a big impact, including…All the various areas of efficiency in communication within my teamSmall tweaks I've made in communications and expectations around communications that have made HUGE impacts across the boardHow it matters to ask yourself ‘what do I need here, and then get clear on how to roll that out.“This is how we do things around here”I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Want to free up your mental bandwidth? Listen to this episode. We’re talking about:How our brain is NOT designed to store lots of information, and the huge impact when we try toWhy it matters to free up bandwidth in our brains!!!!What a ‘second brain’ is, and how it's used to ‘outsource’ the holding of our thoughtsWhat you can then use your thinking for, instead of ‘holding onto ideas’In NEXT week’s episode, we’re going to extend this conversation into a very different way to protect our mental bandwidth.I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

THINGS TALKED ABOUT:what I feel about having a ‘savings’ accountWhat I do instead of having ‘savings’Seeing happy little buckets of moneyA reminder that you can reshape anything in a way that feels more fun and lighter for youI use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here.Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyarohaWebsite: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha