She and I
She and I
Barrett and India
She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!
We Are Back - Episode 330
After taking about four months off, B~Love and his co-host Syd return to the mic to reconnect with the audience and pick up right where they left off. In this comeback episode, the duo catches listeners up on where they’ve been, what life’s been lifing, and why the break was needed—of course, all while telling hilarious, unfiltered stories along the way. This episode isn’t about heavy topics or deep debates—it’s about vibes, laughs, and reintroducing the energy that makes She & I Podcast feel like you’re kicking it with friends who always keep it real. If you’ve missed the humor, honesty, and chemistry, this one’s for you.
Feb 24
1 hr 4 min
Stop Liking Instragram Pics
B~Love and Syd kick things off with their usual weekend recap, including their first impressions of Cardi B’s new album. From there, the fellas dive into relationship dynamics that hit close to home. They debate whether showing support on Instagram can cross the line when it comes to liking someone else’s photos, and they tackle the tricky question of how to encourage your spouse to hit the gym without sounding critical. The conversation heats up as they explore what happens when friends can’t give you the right advice because you didn’t tell them the whole truth, and they break down the funny but frustrating reality of why your spouse always seems to look extra good right in the middle of an argument. As always, the show wraps with a round of relatable “Would You Rather” questions guaranteed to spark laughs and keep the conversation going long after the episode ends.
Sep 23, 2025
35 min
A Tongue Lashing
In this week’s episode, B~Love and Syd dive into what real support looks like in relationships—and how it feels when the people closest to us don’t show up the way we expect. From reposts on social media to showing love out loud, they break down why support matters and how to ask for it without sounding ungrateful. They also tackle a wild “What Would I Do?” story involving flowers, assumptions, and a heated back-and-forth that spiraled way too far. To keep things light, the two wrap up with some “Would You Ever” questions guaranteed to get couples thinking (and maybe side-eyeing each other).
Sep 16, 2025
49 min
Don't Go Messing Anybody Else's Happiness Up
This week, B~Love and Syd dive into the real dynamics of marriage—where joy meets seriousness, routines clash with spontaneity, and “rules” only apply when they’re convenient. From early-morning cleaning stand-offs to the gray area of household leadership, they unpack the tension between perception and reality: why men often feel unseen for the work they do, and why women sometimes feel like they’re carrying the visible load. With honesty, humor, and a few throw-blanket jokes, the fellas tackle how to protect joy, respect leadership, and give credit where it’s due—all while keeping love at the center.
Sep 9, 2025
58 min
Birthday Rules: What’s Expected vs. What’s Real
It’s a birthday celebration on the podcast this week, and Syd joins B~Love to get real about everything from birthday etiquette to work travel drama. They kick things off with Birthday + Relationship Vibes, diving into the contentious topic of birthday beef. Is forgetting your spouse’s birthday ever forgivable? They also tackle the age-old "Birthday Wars," questioning why women’s birthdays often feel like a national holiday while men’s are a simple text and a Cash App. The conversation continues with the ultimate "Birthday Test": If your partner planned it all, would they actually get it right? They also debate the merits of surprise parties and whether they’re a thoughtful gesture or a low-key selfish act. And for those who celebrate a "birthday month," they ask the hard-hitting question: Are you really celebrating or just holding the house hostage for 30 days?
Aug 19, 2025
54 min
Relationships are Partnerships
B~Love and Syd are back with another wild and relatable episode of the She & I Podcast. This week, B~Love kicks things off with the Parent Crash Out Basketball Game story — yes, a real-life sideline showdown. Then it’s JD’s flag football moment: when tempers flare, are you thinking clearly or just reacting? More importantly… would your spouse ride or die or grill you the whole car ride home? Next up: the Vacation Period Story. Every couple hits that stretch where everything feels like too much — work, school, sports, and side hustles. But what happens when both partners are burnt out? Who gets the grace when everyone’s running on fumes? As summer winds down, B~Love and Syd dive into cookouts, family reunions, and the chaos of unsolicited advice. How do you shield your marriage from shady comparisons and old-school opinions? Then it’s time for this week’s WOULD YOU RATHER. Tap in — because this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and the kind of moments every couple can relate to.
Aug 5, 2025
54 min
Family Vacations to Concerts - Jeezy to Backstreet, We Are Back!
Syd is back in the studio with B~Love, and they're ready to share all the details of where they've been! Tune in as they recount their recent adventures, from memorable family vacations that brought them closer to the electric energy of unforgettable concerts. Get ready for personal anecdotes, travel tales, and all the exciting highlights from their time away!
Jul 29, 2025
1 hr 7 min
Wives Should Date Their Husbands
India Marie is back this week, and the "Date-a-Thon" continues with B~Love! They kick things off by reminiscing about their favorite dates so far, sharing what made those moments truly special. This leads into a lively discussion: How many dates should wives take their husbands on? They explore the importance of intentional connection, and how all the time they've spent together has undoubtedly brought them closer. Get ready for some relatable banter as B~Love calls out India Marie's tendency to overuse alarm clocks, a conversation sure to resonate with anyone who's shared a bedside table. Finally, they tackle a tricky social etiquette question: Can you be complimentary of an ex in public? They dive into the nuances of past relationships and present boundaries.
Jun 17, 2025
59 min
Father's Day Gifting That Hits Different
This week, B~Love and Syd are back with a packed episode! They kick things off with a Jacob Latimore album review, giving their unfiltered thoughts on his latest work. Syd then provides a candid update on Cam's vasectomy, offering a glimpse into their personal journey. The "Barrett & India Dateathon" continues as they discuss how rekindling the flame has led to a newfound appreciation for stillness in marriage. They explore how rare these moments of pause are and the powerful reset they can provide. This naturally leads to a discussion on whether couples with kids should intentionally create these windows more often. And speaking of dates, you'll get the scoop on Syd and Cam's favorite local date spot! As Father's Day approaches, they shift gears to Father’s Day gifts that hit different. Forget the same old ties and tools—they share some thoughtful gift ideas that go beyond expensive presents, focusing on what truly resonates. The conversation then turns to the often-overlooked challenge of coexisting with different fitness goals in a relationship. They tackle what happens when health journeys aren't aligned, but the love is still strong. They also discuss the guilt that can come from mismatched energy—like when one partner wants to relax while the other is ready for a five-mile run—and the difficulty in syncing schedules. Finally, B~Love and Syd wrap up the episode with a fun and revealing round of "Would You Rather":
Jun 3, 2025
1 hr 2 min
Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships
Syd is back again with B~Love this week, and they kick things off by tackling a universally relatable query: Is "K" the most triggering text message you can receive? They dive into the nuances of short replies and the myriad of emotions a single letter can evoke. Following that, they share a Mother's Day recap, likely filled with personal anecdotes, reflections on the day, and perhaps some memorable moments. They then wrap up the episode with a lively game of "Would You Rather," promising some entertaining dilemmas and insights into their personalities.
May 20, 2025
53 min
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