Where do our ideas about sex, identity, and self come from—and what happens when those ideas were never ours to begin with?In this episode of Sex on the Table, MoAndra sits down with sexologist and researcher Jaali to unpack Black women’s sexuality through a historical and cultural lens. What starts as a conversation about research quickly becomes a deeper exploration of unlearning, self-definition, and the messages Black women have inherited about their bodies, desire, and identity.Together, they explore how stereotypes like the mammy, the workhorse, and the “sassy” archetype continue to shape how Black women are perceived—and how those narratives show up in media, relationships, and self-image. The conversation also dives into the process of unlearning, the emotional labor of redefining yourself, and why self-determination is essential to sexual and personal liberation.This episode is an honest, layered discussion about identity, history, and what it means to reclaim your story on your own terms.

Dating today feels harder than ever—and we’re talking about why. In this episode of Sex on the Table, MoAndra is joined by licensed therapist and founder of Therapy Is My J.A.M., Jordan Madison, LCMFT, for a deep and honest conversation about the emotional toll of modern dating. Inspired by How Not to Die Alone by Logan Ury, they explore gender socialization, singlehood stigma, and how generational patterns impact our ability to build meaningful relationships. Whether you're swiping, settling, or staying single on purpose, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a few tools to help you date differently.

Who really owns your body—and who taught you what consent means, and who gets left out of the conversationIn this episode of Sex on the Table, MoAndra sits down with writer and sexual health educator Lydia Collins to explore informed consent, self-pleasure, and the role self-love plays in reclaiming bodily autonomy.Lydia’s work focuses on HIV prevention and decolonial consent education in African, Caribbean, and Black communities. Together, we unpack how culture, history, and systemic inequities shape the way people understand consent, sexuality, and access to sexual health resources.The conversation also dives into the stigma surrounding self-pleasure, how exploring your own body can deepen self-love, and why pleasure can be a powerful part of healing—especially for survivors of trauma.From challenging myths about sex to discussing the realities of sexual health education in marginalized communities, this episode is an honest and thoughtful conversation about reclaiming agency over your body, your pleasure, and your choices.

Dating today feels harder than ever—and we’re talking about why. In this episode of Sex on the Table, MoAndra is joined by licensed therapist and founder of Therapy Is My J.A.M., Jordan Madison, LCMFT, for a deep and honest conversation about the emotional toll of modern dating. Inspired by How Not to Die Alone by Logan Ury, they explore gender socialization, singlehood stigma, and how generational patterns impact our ability to build meaningful relationships. Whether you're swiping, settling, or staying single on purpose, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a few tools to help you date differently.

What does it really mean to practice love without ownership?In this episode of Sex on the Table, MoAndra sits down with Cady Moore, MPH, CSE — a sex educator, coach, and consultant specializing in embodiment, sexual health, and relationship diversity — to unpack the truths and myths of non-monogamy.Together, they explore how patriarchy, capitalism, and ableism shape our understanding of commitment, desire, and power; how non-monogamy can serve as both personal practice and political resistance; and what accountability looks like in love when we move beyond traditional scripts.Cady opens up about her own journey through polyamory, what emotional sustainability looks like when holding multiple relationships, and how neurodivergence and disability shift the conversation around access and intimacy.This conversation invites listeners—monogamous or not—to reimagine what it means to love freely, ethically, and intentionally.

Your period isn’t just an inconvenience — it’s a roadmap. In this episode of Sex on the Table, holistic health coach and wellness entrepreneur Taelyr Blehm breaks down how understanding your cycle can improve your mood, sex life, relationships, and productivity.We get real about what’s actually happening during each phase of your cycle, how to spot signs of imbalance, and why cycle syncing can be a powerful tool for healing and empowerment. Taelyr also shares how the wellness industry’s obsession with “aesthetics” disconnects us from our bodies — and what it looks like to reclaim your health, on your own terms.Whether you bleed every month or love someone who does, this conversation will help you move with your body instead of fighting against it.

In this powerful episode of Sex on the Table, we sit down with Dr. Laurie Mintz—licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and bestselling author—to talk all things pleasure, power, and orgasm equality.We explore the cultural and historical erasure of the clitoris, the root causes of the orgasm gap, and why so many people still struggle with sexual satisfaction. Dr. Mintz offers research-backed insights from her books Becoming Cliterate and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex, including practical tools to reignite desire and close the pleasure gap once and for all.Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between—this episode will leave you more informed, more empowered, and ready to reclaim your pleasure.

What happens when centuries of sexual shame meet the rise of artificial intelligence? In this eye-opening episode, we’re joined by certified sexologist and SexTech expert Kaamna Bhojwani. Together, we unpack how cultural expectations around sexuality have shaped our shame—and how emerging technology is redefining what it means to connect, desire, and relate.Kaamna shares insights from her Psychology Today column “Becoming Technosexual” and her podcast Sex Tech and Spirituality, offering powerful reflections on the future of sex and the urgent need to normalize taboo topics. From cross-cultural healing to intimacy in the age of AI, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.

Tune into the Season 3 premiere of Sex on the Table with Dr. Clarissa Francis, aka The Real Hot Girl Doc! Dr. Francis is a sexuality educator, Hot Girl Movement scholar-activist, and health equity consultant who is redefining Black women’s sexual liberation.In this episode, we dive deep into the Hot Girl Movement, exploring how today’s music, societal influences, and generational norms shape Black women’s sexuality. We discuss how women—whether single, dating, or in a relationship—can tap into their Hot Girl energy while embracing healing and empowerment. Dr. Francis also gives us an exclusive preview of her upcoming book, breaking down the research behind pleasure activism and reclaiming sexual agency. 

In this thought-provoking episode, we are joined by a special guest co-host, DDS Dodson-Smith, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Together, we delve into the groundbreaking ideas and themes from the book "Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture" by Sherronda Brown. Brown's work challenges conventional definitions of asexuality, highlighting the complexity and fluidity of the ace spectrum.We begin by exploring Brown's perspective that asexuality is not about a "lack" but rather a relationship to sex that deviates from society's normative views. During the episode, we have the privilege of interviewing two remarkable individuals at different stages of their Ace journey. Through candid and heartfelt conversations, we delve into their identities within the Ace spectrum, how they navigate cultural experiences in a sex-obsessed world, and their unique perspectives on seeking relationships and handling family dynamics. We also address the realities of traumas experienced by individuals on the ace spectrum, exploring the intricacies of vulnerability and resilience.This episode challenges preconceived notions, encourages empathy, and invites listeners to engage with a diverse array of experiences within the Ace spectrum. Together, we can create a world where everyone's identity is embraced and celebrated.