We start with a listener question…“Are ball gags meant to make you gag?”(Inspired by episode 52)Some about ball gags… purpose and safety. Stormy Daniel’s warning on the safe word that is NOT “safe” with a ball gag. Our relationship to... Read moreEpisode 54 – Mind, Body, Spirit – Our Relationship to Sex – A Chat. – And a Bit About Ball Gags
Nov 29, 2020
50 min
Judy and Patricia came to this conversation with VERY different directions. The what. the why. the ego? Why do you ask to have sex with your ex? Why do you say yes if asked? What do you get out of... Read moreEpisode 53 – Sex With an Ex
Nov 20, 2020
30 min
A conversation Patricia had about gagging during a blow job sparked some interesting conversations… SO, we continued the conversation here… Take a listen and chime in. Hear the responses and where people weighed in… and our added conversation. We’d love... Read moreEpisode 52 – To Gag or Not To Gag… That is A Question!
Oct 23, 2020
54 min
Today we explore…. Patricia’s inspiration… The Way off the Superior Man.   Patricia pulled out an intriguing section in said book… Tolerating her leads to resentment. (Written in 1997… this is the 20 year anniversary addition.) The whys… the hows. We... Read moreEpisode 51 – Why you should not tolerate “your women’s” bitchy, moody and complaining ways… and how
Oct 2, 2020
50 min
IT IS OUT!!! So is Episode 50 And so it is Patricia’s 50th Birthday! Half way to being a centurion! YOU GO GIRL! CELEBRATE WITH US! And hear more about WHO should get “Embrace Your Sexual Energy”… Patricia’s new book.... Read moreEpisode 50 – Patricia’s 50th B-Day – and Book Release – A BIG DAY!
Sep 15, 2020
51 min
Check THIS out!… (Oh Patricia… ya big tease!) Patricia treats us to a sneak peak read of the introduction of her new book Embrace Your Sexual Energy.   It is a lovely invitation and explanation of the book’s inspiration and her... Read moreEpisode 49 – Patricia Teases Us With Her Upcoming Book
Sep 11, 2020
39 min
Judy and Patricia are taking a bit of a sabbatical from releasing podcast episodes as we both make some huge life shifts, focus on additional projects, education, regrouping and opening the door to possibilities. Please feel free to continue sending... Read moreEpisode 48 – Judy and Patricia Pause for an Experimental Phase
Jun 21, 2020
6 min
It is summer and there are a lot of shift and changes for everyone it seems.  They are also happening for Patricia and Judy.  Good changes!  We want to share one with you now! Patricia has broadened her work and... Read moreEpisode 47 – Patricia Engelking – Relationship Doula through Sexual Authenticity – An Updated Throwback
Jun 13, 2020
1 hr 35 min
Mark is a 68 year old, healthy man who has a high sex drive.   His wife is choosing the grandmother role over that of his sex partner and intimate connection.  They have been married for over 40 years.  He still... Read moreEpisode 46 – Listener Question – What Do I Do When My Wife Chooses Grandmother Role Over Intimate Lover
Jun 5, 2020
50 min