Self Management
Self Management
Jay Kihiu
How great would it be if we came with a user manual? If our moods and actions and the best paths for us weren’t such a mystery? / Alas, we were tossed into this life left to grow and survive without much guidance other than the knowledge passed down before us from whichever random assortment of adults were tasked with our survival and schooling (people who are also very much struggling to figure things out btw). / This is the podcast where we take an evidence-based dive into topics that help build our internal skills and construct lives that feels fuller, more satisfying, and are led by our strengths and values. / The main site: [email protected] / You can't manage the universe. So you'll have to learn to manage yourself.
Reason #1 to Improve our Emotional Intelligence/Regulation [Blog Piece Read-A-Loud]
An audio reading and discussion of the first post under the Emotional Intelligence and Regulation section of the blog called "Reason #1 to Improve our Emotional Intelligence and Regulation"!The main site/blogs: SoftnCentered.comInstagram: @softncenteredFacebook: @softncenteredTik Tok: @Softncentered
Mar 7, 2023
8 min
Letting Go of Outcomes
An open segment about the rarely discussed drawbacks of being too attached to a specific end-goal.Annie Duke was the mentioned author, former top professional poker player and prominent decision-strategist.The main site/blogs: SoftnCentered.comInstagram: @softncenteredFacebook: @softncenteredTik Tok: @Softncentered
Feb 28, 2023
34 min
AIL: Reasons People Are Mean
Welcome to another "Articles I Love" segment, where I share some of my favorite articles and studies I've read over the years. My mission here is to highlight writing and research that’s constructive, thoughtful, aims for the truth, and is designed to help us enjoy life, others, and meet the challenges we face in life more successfully.Read the article here: Why Are People Mean? Don't Take It Personally! By Monica A. Frank, Ph.D.NICAMB mentioned-- a resource for neurobiology training geared towards mental health practitioners, but also useful for engaged enthusiastsThe main site/blogs: SoftnCentered.comInstagram: @softncenteredFacebook: @softncenteredTik Tok: @SoftncenteredNOTE: This is not meant to be in place of professional mental health help and I always encourage you to seek it in times of crisis or contact your local emergency services.
Feb 21, 2023
34 min
Reason #1 to Improve Our Decision-making Skills[Blog Read-A-Loud]
Welcome to the segment where I read out-loud a blog post for you PLUS a discussion portion about some of the ideas behind it and applications afterwards. Join the discussion and email/message me your thoughts about it (socials posted at the end of this description)!This is the first ever post published in the decision-making portion of the blog that goes over Reason #1 its worthwhile to deliberately improve our decision-making abilities. It feels obvious, but it's never a bad time to really re-center ourselves into the basics.Books Mentioned: Atomic Habits (James Clear), Misbehaving (Richard Thaler) The main site/blogs: SoftnCentered.comInstagram: @softncenteredFacebook: @softncenteredTik Tok: @Softncentered
Feb 14, 2023
16 min
AIL: When You're Feeling Insecure About Your Path
Welcome to another "Articles I Love" segment, where I share some of my favorite studies and articles I've read over the years. There’s a lot of content and news out there and quite a bit is created to make you fearful or unproductively distracted or spend money on things that ultimately do not bring you closer to inner satisfaction or your highest goals. My goal here is to highlight writing and research that’s constructive, thoughtful, aims for the truth, and is designed to help us enjoy life, others, and meet the challenges we face in life more successfully.In this episode, we dive into an article that reminds us to own our actions and decisions in life in the face of pressure (Learn Not to Explain Yourself to Others and Win by John Kreiter) The main site/blogs: SoftnCentered.comInstagram: @softncenteredFacebook: @softncenteredTik Tok: @SoftncenteredNOTE: This is not meant to be in place of professional mental health help and I always encourage you to seek it in times of crisis or contact your local emergency services.
Feb 9, 2023
16 min
Welcome to the Self- Management Podcast
Glad to have you here! Take just a few minutes to listen to the short (but powerful) introduction to the podcast designed to build our internal skills (decision-making, and emotional intelligence/regulation, relaxation, learning and more) so we can design well-lived, satisfying lives for ourselves and help those around us.Visit the main site/blog: [email protected]
Feb 7, 2023
4 min
1- The Life (and World) Changing Benefits of Doing this Work
The internal work we do here has consequences for us personally and for all of humanity... promise I'm not even being dramatic! Listen to hear about the far-reaching effects building (or failing to build) these skills has for us all.The main site/blogs: SoftnCentered.comInstagram: @softncenteredFacebook: @softncenteredTik Tok: @Softncentered
Feb 7, 2023
15 min