A client had been told throughout his life that he was the black sheep and then a therapist confirmed 'maybe you can't changed' and so he didn't. For many years he desteoyed relationships, he lived in a bubble and believed he was bad and couldn't change, he lived up to the opinions of others. He did what he believed he was best at, self destruction.

Please consider that other peoples words, opinions and actions are not fact and that you can change if you want to and you know how. And consider how you speak to others, what you tell them and how it influences the way someone thinks about themselves. Words are powerful, actions are powerful so use them wisely.