FREE APPLIED ASTROLOGY WORKSHOP: LEARN HOW TO USE ASTROLOGY AS A TOOL FOR PERSONAL GROWTH⁠FREE RESOURCES⁠Birth chart blueprint⁠⁠Self care through the signs⁠⁠WEBSITE⁠EPISODE CHAPTERSABOUT THIS EPISODEWhen it comes to destructive habits and dispositions, I would argue people pleasing is at the top of the list. 🙅🏻‍♀️ By definition, people pleasing is making choices based on what you perceive other people's values, needs, and desires are rather than your own – so it directly interferes with having a happy, fulfilling life.🙅🏻‍♀️People pleasing also undermines your ability to have real relationships with people, because it predicates that relationship on false pretenses. In other words, the person you’re presenting yourself as? Not really you.🙅🏻‍♀️ Maybe the most insidious thing about people pleasing is that a lot of people who are actually people pleasing don't even know it. Pleasing often looks like “just being nice”. It might even look and feel like empathy.But what it actually is, is a negation of yourself with a capital S: your needs, your values, your desires.When we sacrifice ourselves for external approval, we will end up resentful, angry, frustrated and unclear in every regard in our lives.The good news? There are solutions – of the simple, accessible, and astrological sort. 😊--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/selfhelpwitch/message