Secret Habit
Secret Habit
Shawn Bonneteau; Helena Bonneteau
18. Rebuilding Trust In Marriage After Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma
23 minutes Posted May 10, 2022 at 5:00 am.
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Rebuilding trust in relationships is not a simple thing to understand. Maybe you have tried different things and feel completely stuck? Hopeless? Burned out? We get it... we felt so lost and unsure of what actually helps when trust has been damaged, especially by porn addiction that has led to betrayal trauma.

In this episode, Shawn shares about this beautiful, practical, and helpful picture Helena gave him to better understand her trust... We see Jesus reference farming and gardening ALOT in His teachings and believe there is something special about this analogy Helena offers. The imagery Helena shares is something we call "The Garden" and we hope it impacts you as much as it has impacted us. 

We see rebuilding trust in your marriage as an opportunity. One that calls the past addict to remorse, honesty, nurture, hard work, and a long term mindset, much like someone growing a garden


We reference the sexual template in this episode and want to encourage you to design your own "garden" as we call it here.

Listen to episode 11 - How to create a sexual template

Purchase the "sexual template" course


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