Don't fumble your blessing thinking you have to do what you're called to do the way other people are doing it. You have a personal touch that no one else can replicate. Be yourself.If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:97. What are you doing with your pain?JOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When I felt like people were against me and my experiences were weighing heavy on me, I turned to God and it changed my life.If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:91. Revenge Success - Wanting success to prove a point to other peopleJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I've always been delusional so I'm so happy it's more mainstream now LOL. Let's talk about how being delusional gets you what you want.EPISODES MENTIONED:EP #51: Lady in public but bum in privateJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/Suggest an episode: secludedthoughts.com/suggestionsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is what it really feels like when you're a self proclaimed "strong independent woman."If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:92. Honor your emotions and stop gaslighting yourselfJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

You're not stuck in the job, relationship, or country you're in right now. The new life you want is just a decision away. Are you brave enough to take the leap of faith?If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:95. But what if it DOES work out?JOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sweetheart, how long will you allow yourself to feel miserable, dreading plans you agreed to when you knew you didn't want to do? Why say yes to go and then constantly hope that they'll cancel or something crazy will happen to ruin the plans? Must you suffer every day leading up to that dreadful thing you committed to or is it time to start saying no? People pleasing isn't suiting you well; it's time to phase out of that.EPISODES MENTIONED:EP #120: Honor your commitmentsJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/Suggest an episode: secludedthoughts.com/suggestionsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I used to wait for others to validate me and when I didn't get it it literally reflected in my performance because I stopped caring because no one was clapping. It was a tough lesson to learn so young.If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:91. Revenge Success - Wanting success to prove a point to other peopleJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Stop explaining your non-negotiables and entertaining people who want you to compromise and accept the bare minimum. You give people the blueprint on how to treat you. Stop allowing people who don't care about you to make you explain yourself.If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:99. Stop nagging and justifying your NON-NEGOTIABLESJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sis, how long are you going to keep these things on your checklist undone? How long are you going to have the same fears or the same goals? Don't you think it's time you get these things out of the way? Stop going into every new year with the same goals.LEAVE A COMMENT ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/cIdK4oiCKVIEPISODES MENTIONED:EP #86 - Don't settle for "what if.."JOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/Suggest an episode: secludedthoughts.com/suggestionsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sometimes when we get hurt after loving we close ourselves off to protect ourselves but that only lets you have shallow experiences with people.If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode:92. Honor your emotions and stop gaslighting yourselfJOURNALSSelf Reflection Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/selfRelationship Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/relationshipsVision Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/visionHealing Journal: https://secludedthoughts.com/healingLET'S STAY CONNECTED!TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@secludedthoughtsYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SecludedThoughtsPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/secluded.thoughts/ Business Inquiries: [email protected] this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secluded-thoughts/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy