What do friendship , historical conflicts, and human relationships have in common? More than you might think.In this episode of Scenic Reality with our Guest “Milez” , we explore the marks people leave on one another, whether through friendship, shared experiences, tattoos, or moments that shape history. From symbols of loyalty etched onto the skin to bonds tested during times of civil war, we examine how people express commitment, preserve memories, and navigate the complexities of allegiance.Through personal reflections, historical examples, and thoughtful conversation, we ask: What makes loyalty endure? What happens when relationships are challenged by differing beliefs? And why do humans feel compelled to leave lasting reminders of the people and moments that matter most?It’s honest, it’s layered, and it’s one of those conversations that lingers long after it ends.This is the article link : https://the20snewsletter.substack.com/p/should-you-sleep-with-your-friends?r=l20w5&utm_medium=ios&triedRedirect=trueDon't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This week on Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise are joined by Rukayat and Wonuola for a conversation that starts casually but quickly spirals into something deeper, sharper, and unexpectedly revealing.From the streets to the systems, we take a hard look at design in Nigeria how something so creative has started to feel repetitive, almost monopolized, with everyone chasing the same aesthetic while truly local, meaningful design gets overlooked. It raises a bigger question: are we creating for expression or just for acceptance?That thought flows into the curious case of churches why do so many exist side by side, almost like competitors in the same space? Is it community, or quiet rivalry? And somewhere in the middle of all this, we touch on a heavier reality: bail. Who it really serves, who it leaves behind, and why fairness sometimes feels like a luxury.Wonuola brings a strong perspective on communication or the lack of it and how it silently fuels many of these issues. That opens the floor to a deeper introspection: where do these problems actually begin?But the heart of the episode settles on something even more personal manipulation, deceit, and dishonesty. We unpack the real impact of people who twist truth, especially when it comes from those who claim to care about us. How dangerous can they be? And how much damage do they leave behind?Then comes the twist: is manipulation always negative, or can it be a tool especially in business? What starts as a simple question turns into a full dissection, with perspectives clashing, aligning, and evolving in real time.It’s honest, it’s layered, and it’s one of those conversations that lingers long after it ends.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This episode of Scenic Reality is a chaotic but honest reflection of what it really feels like to exist right now. From the unbearable heat and everyday frustrations to deeper conversations about how we cope, we unpack the different ways people try to survive the pressure.We talk about crowd behavior, individualism, and the subtle ways society pushes us into survival mode. The conversation also takes a turn into coping mechanisms both harmless and harmful including sex, escapism, and drug use. We share real-life encounters, question the normalization of certain habits, and challenge the idea that substances enhance creativity or make life easier.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Guess who’s back? Temi and Ise have dusted off the microphones and reopened the famous kobo notebook for a brand new season of Scenic Reality and yes, there are plenty of cases inside.In this episode, the duo returns with unfiltered conversations about Nigeria and the strange way we seem to be moving backwards instead of forward… even though we clearly have the power to change things. They also get into serious conversations about rape, molestation, and how society keeps sexualizing almost everything these days.And of course, the conversation somehow finds its way to the growing BBL era—beauty standards, pressure, and the things people are doing to keep up. Expect honest opinions, a few laughs, some “wait… what?” moments, and the kind of chaotic conversation you’ve probably missed.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

December is not just a season in Lagos, it’s a lifestyle, and on this episode, Ise and Temi spoke head-first into all the madness we love! From non-stop music blasting everywhere, back-to-back parties, sparkling decorations, and food that refuses to let you diet, we relive what Christmas in Lagos truly feels like.We talk about the joy (and drama) of traveling to the village, family gatherings that start calm and end loud, and the beautiful chaos that makes the holidays unforgettable. We also take a moment to reflect, celebrating our accomplishments, and acknowledging how far we’ve come this year.Most importantly, this episode is filled with gratitude. We’re thankful for you — every listener who tuned in, shared an episode, laughed with us, and kept this podcast alive. Your love and support mean everything, and we don’t take it for granted at all.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

On this episode of Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise reflect on the unpredictable rhythm of life in Nigeria, from the playful idea of buying a boat to prepare for rainy days, to the curious way people feel entitled to correct others simply because they disagree. They talked on how emotions shape our reactions, and why it’s perfectly human to feel vulnerable sometimes. It’s not every day you have to be tough; sometimes, what we really need is a gentle word and a bit of understanding.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

DESCRIPTION This week on Scenic Reality, Temi and Ise talk about that strange phase after finishing your B.Sc. Where everyone suddenly expects you to have life figured out. From the quiet pressure of “when are you getting married?” to the chaos of trying to make money and actually use it wisely, it’s a lot to take in.They also reflect on how government taxes and the weight of black tax keep shaping how young Nigerians think about success, family, and the future.It’s one of those conversations that remind you we’re all just trying to make sense of adulthood — one bill, one decision, and one reality check at a time.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

This week on Scenic Reality, Ise and Temmy had the joy of hosting their very first guest, the amazing,hilarious and famous Mankind! Together, we opened up conversations most people shy away from: those uncomfortable moments in communication where saying the truth feels harder than keeping quiet. We also laughed our way through the reality of seeing money in bulk but having no plans for it (because, let’s be honest, it happens to the best of us). And of course, we couldn’t resist sharing our takes on the impressions people leave behind and how those first vibes sometimes mislead us.Mankind were nothing short of amazing, and the episode was too real and it will be unforgettable.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise unpacked the complicated culture of gifting and the growing "billing mentality" in Nigerian society. From babes billing at the end of the month to the pressure on men to constantly provide and how financial expectations have blurred the lines between thoughtfulness and entitlement. A few gym agenda were spoken about, let us know about yours too. In light of this, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of your ears to your heart.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Temi and Ise sat with comfort and leaned into the tension of opposing beliefs, and chatted on what it really means to coexist. From differing values and identity rights like the debate on queer people and bathroom access to how our systems, like driving schools, fail to teach us the basics of navigation and awareness… it’s all connected. So, grab your headphones, settle in, and let Scenic Reality guide you through the scenic routes of your ears to your heart.Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to get a piece of our heart and leave a comment after listening and also use the #scenicrealitypodcast.Make sure to follow us and subscribe to our podcast listening on various platforms.Instagram: @scenicrealitywithtemmypodTiklok: @sr_podYouTube: @scenicrealitypodTwitter: @sr_podYou can also use the link below to access all the information you will be needing.https://linktr.ee/Scenic_reality_podcast?utm_source=linktree_profile_share