Sari Swears
Sari Swears
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Sari Swears Podcast: How to Actually Get What You Want This Year
21 minutes Posted Jan 2, 2026 at 10:30 am.
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This year will look EXACTLY like last year unless something deeper changes.

MOST people don't fail because they lack discipline or ambition.

They fail because they're chasing results instead of identity.

You don't want the verdict.

You want the feeling you think comes with it.

And here's the part no one wants to admit: Willpower is trash. It runs out. Every time.

In this week's podcast, I break down:

⚡ Why goals alone don't work
⚡ Why "doing more" keeps you stuck
⚡ Why everything shifts when you decide who you are first

If you want different results this year, don't write a longer to-do list…

Decide who the hell you are.

Then act like it.

The rest follows.

Tune in NOW! 🎧

Love,
Sari

 

Resource: 

jamesclear.com/identity-based-habits

Quote: 

"We think we have to have the thing before we can do the things and then finally be the person. It has never worked that way. You decide who you are first. Then you do the things. Then you get the results."

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