Same Difference Podcast KE
Same Difference Podcast KE
Same Difference Podcast KE
Join Dee and Skinny on this wild ride where we explore the thread of humanity that connects us as two women in their 30's living in Nairobi after having also lived abroad for a significant number of years; and also watch that thread unravel at the intersection of our very different lived experiences as a heterosexual and homosexual duo. It's gonna be fun and nothing but good vibes!
Fetishisation of Gay People in Kenya
Are gay and lesbian people fetishised in Kenya? Is being queer some form of clout chasing? Join Dee and Skinny on the final episode of Season 1...oh they're in their complete feelings on this one!
Oct 13, 2021
54 min
What Even Is Toxic Femininity? Let's Break It Down
This week, Dee and Skinny discuss toxic femininity in relationships, friendships and family.
Oct 6, 2021
41 min
Friends With The Ex: No Benefits, Just Friends...Can It Work?
Can you REALLY be friends with your ex? No crossing lines? No benefits, just friends? Join Dee and Skinny as they discuss their personal experiences being friends with exes.
Sep 29, 2021
39 min
Where Are You Going? What Time Will You Be Home? Who Are You Meeting and What Do Their Parents Do?
Dee and Skinny haven't lived at home with their parents and siblings in decades in each case. What happens when you move back home and are now suddenly forced to answer questions like  "What time will you be home?" "Who are you going with?"
Sep 22, 2021
35 min
I Get A Pass, You Get A Pass, Everybody Gets A Pass: Discussing Free Passes In Monogamous Relationships - Can They Really Work?
Have you ever given your partner a free pass in your relationship? Have you received one? This week, Dee and Skinny discuss their views on whether a free pass can actually be a good thing for a relationship and what it would entail.
Sep 15, 2021
38 min
No Sex For 7 Years and Killing Expectations: The Difference Between Dating In Our 20's vs. Our 30's
If you had a time machine and could go back to your first relationship, would you still make the decisions you made? In today's episode we discuss the dating mistakes we made in our teens and 20's, what we've learned in our 30's and what kind of relationships we can tolerate now.
Sep 8, 2021
48 min
Free Pass In Marriage, No Options Available For Same Sex Couples in Kenya Who Want To Marry Traditionally and More...
If you're a heterosexual girl, you have probably always dreamed of one day getting married...probably down to the most intricate detail, because society allows and pre-empts the marriage of heterosexual individuals. What happens when you're in a same sex relationship and these options are not available to you because your country not only refuses to acknowledge your choice, but also criminalises that very choice? Also, would you give your partner a free pass in marriage? Have you? Let us know!
Sep 1, 2021
43 min
A Cheater By Any Other Name...
Modern relationships have expanded the purview of what it means to cheat on someone. It used to be that infidelity was when a person had sex with another person outside of a committed relationship. Nowadays, infidelity includes emotions, finances and even attention - it's no longer considered just physical. On this episode, we discuss whether we've cheated or been cheated on and the impact that has had on us as individuals.
Aug 25, 2021
47 min
Being Gay Is The Best Contraception?
Skinny and Dee have vastly different experiences as women. Heterosexual women who are sexually active will have experienced the side effects of contraception at one point. So how is it possible that Skinny once got a pregnancy scare?? 
Aug 18, 2021
32 min
How Do You Know English? Glorifying Western Countries and Reverse Culture Shock
Skinny moved between America and Kenya from age 2. Dee moved to Australia at 19 where she lived for thirteen years. Neither one of them could have foreseen how life would turn out and that they would eventually find themselves back in Kenya, but with an omnipresent feeling of being neither here nor there - neither fully Kenyan nor fully Western. 
Aug 10, 2021
36 min
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