It's our 20th episode! In our Golden Jubilee, we have a listener's audio question: what to do about physical affection & sexual desire imbalances in a relationship. Then we dive into what's fucked about "The Secret" thinking, Tai rants about Pitbull, and did we tell you how infuriating our neighbor is? But it might not be entirely her fault. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

Nathan and Tai address a listener question about distinguishing valid relationship needs from just... neediness. Are you trying to get milk from the hardware store? How do you know if you're just looking for some sweet, sweet - but ultimately ineffective - external validation?  Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

Nathan and Tai do baby feet and talk trauma, therapy, incest, rape, and cutting.  Trigger warning: trauma, incest, rape, and cutting. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

Nathan calls in from the road to discuss negative body image and caller questions about adult makers of adult art. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

After trying not to swear so Nathan's mom can give Tai gardening tips, we answer questions on whether life is worth it after age 18 and what to do about a spying boyfriend. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

This week, Nathan and Tai cover questions about relationships red flags, coping with clinginess, and college vs career. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

This week, we answer questions on how to be done with a creative piece, standing up to a rude boss, and finding motivation for mundane and thankless tasks...  Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

Nathan and Tai discuss misogyny in podcasting and try their hand at solving questions sent to advice columnist Carolyn Hax. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

We take on questions about creepy neighbors, dealing with criticism, and making sober friends. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod

Nathan and Tai solve many different kettles of fish this week! How to stop self-sabotage, reclaim "lazy," make kinky connections, and more. Follow us on Instagram at @rudderlesspod