In this episode, Matt Markins and Mike Handler tackle a provocative idea: what if the church needs to move from a children’s ministry mindset to a child discipleship mindset? Matt explains that after years of Awana research, one of the clearest insights is that many churches are still building ministry around activities and methods rather than around the deeper objectives that actually form lasting faith. Programs like VBS, Sunday school, small groups, and midweek ministry are not the problem. The real question is what those methods are designed to produce. Matt argues that “children’s ministry” often becomes shorthand for tactics, programming, and logistics, while “child discipleship” focuses on outcomes, theology, and philosophy. He uses the example of Awana Clubs and VBS to show that the same curriculum or ministry model can produce very different fruit depending on the underlying culture and objectives. In other words, the issue is not merely what a church does, but why and how it does it. To illustrate this, Matt introduces the metaphor of the old map and the new map. He describes seeing a sixteenth-century map and imagining how grateful we would be for what those mapmakers accomplished with limited tools and knowledge. At the same time, no one would use that map for modern navigation. In the same way, churches should honor the ministries of the past while also asking whether some of the assumptions behind children’s ministry need to be updated in light of new research and clearer biblical-philosophical insight. That leads to the heart of the episode: Awana’s child discipleship philosophy. Matt summarizes the findings this way: child discipleship is a biblical practice designed to form lasting faith by helping kids belong to God and His kingdom, believe in Jesus Christ as Savior, and become like Him and walk in His ways through the power of the Holy Spirit. These three dimensions, often called the 3Bs—belong, believe, become—are presented as the three primary factors that tend to form lasting faith when they are all present over time in the life of a child. Mike helps unpack this by comparing the 3Bs to NASA’s moon mission. Just as NASA had to focus on a few critical objectives rather than many scattered priorities, churches also need clear disciple-making objectives. The conversation makes the case that belonging is highly relational, believing is deeply scriptural, and becoming is experiential and life-on-life. The goal is not just a busy children’s ministry, but a ministry that helps children root their identity and faith in Jesus. The episode closes with a pastoral challenge. Children are always being formed by something—social media, peers, cultural narratives, or other communities—so the church must be equally intentional. Matt and Mike urge parents, pastors, and church leaders not to abandon ministry activities, but to align them around the larger work of disciple-making. Their conclusion is clear: the church should not settle for activity-driven ministry when it can build toward lasting faith through belonging, believing, and becoming. Show Notes Main themeMove from an activity-centered view of children’s ministry to an outcome-centered, disciple-making vision of child discipleship. Key ideas from the episode Awana’s research raised a crucial question: what if we changed our thinking from children’s ministry to child discipleship? Programs like VBS, Sunday school, youth group, and volunteer systems are valuable methods, but they are not the end goal. The same ministry model can produce different results depending on the culture and objectives underneath it. The “old map/new map” metaphor challenges churches to evaluate whether inherited ministry assumptions are still sufficient. Awana’s core child discipleship philosophy centers on three objectives: belong, believe, become. Belonging is relational, believing is scriptural, and becoming is experiential. Lasting faith is most likely to grow when all three are present over time in a child’s life. Children are already being formed by culture, so the church must be intentional in its own formative work. Memorable ideas Children’s ministry is not wrong, but it can become too method-driven if it loses sight of outcomes. The goal is not fewer ministry activities, but better ministry alignment. “Belong, believe, become” gives churches a framework for evaluating every program and practice. The post It Might Be Time to End Children’s Ministry appeared first on Child Discipleship.

Episode Summary In this episode of the Child Discipleship Podcast by Awana, hosts Matt Markins and Mike Handler dig into one of the most important — and often overlooked — realities in children’s ministry: the deadline of worldview formation. Drawing on research from the Barna Group, they unpack the striking finding that a person’s worldview is largely set by age 13, and explore what that means practically for parents, church leaders, and anyone invested in the spiritual formation of children. Show Notes Hosts: Matt Markins & Mike Handler — Awana Topics Covered: A university president’s candid confession: “By the time kids get to us, it’s too late. Investors need to think age 4, not age 18.” Defining worldview — the six spheres of formation: nature of reality, knowledge and truth, human nature, ethics/values, meaning and destiny, and methodology/action The mundane → miraculous → mysterious framework for understanding spiritual formation Key Barna Group research: What you believe by age 13 is what you will die believing Why the church tends to operate as if the deadline is age 18 — and why that’s too late The critical formation window: preschool through age 8–13 Why the church nursery is not childcare — it’s active discipleship How to cast this vision to a spouse or pastor who hasn’t seen it yet Resources Mentioned: The Story We Tell Our Children — Matt Markins & Mike Handler (Awana) Transforming Children into Spiritual Champions — George Barna Key Takeaways The real deadline is 13, not 18. Research shows that by age 13, the vast majority of people have a firmly established worldview. Churches and parents who wait until high school to get serious about formation are working against the clock. Formation is happening whether you’re intentional or not. The question was never if your child is being formed — it’s what or who is forming them. Culture, media, and peers are always at work. The early years are the most powerful. The preschool-to-age-8 window is the most open, formative season for spiritual development. These are the years when the foundational “Lego bricks” of worldview are being laid. Worldview is more caught than taught. Especially in early childhood, children absorb truth through relationships, environment, and repeated experience — not lectures. How you live in front of them matters as much as what you say. The mundane is the ministry. Diaper changes, car rides, bedtime prayers, and daily routines are not interruptions to discipleship — they are discipleship. The Holy Spirit works through the ordinary. Your church nursery is a discipleship room. Volunteers who hold, smile at, and whisper God’s love over infants are doing some of the most strategic kingdom work in the building. Reverse engineer from the vision. Start with the question: Who do we want this child to become? Then work backwards to identify what needs to be happening now — at age 2, 4, 6, 8. Cast the vision in the right language. When talking to a spouse, find out how they best receive information — story, data, conversation. When talking to a pastor, lead with research. The Barna stats are a powerful door-opener. Children’s ministry is the most important work on the planet. As Matt and Mike wrote: “When you stoop so low to disciple a child in Jesus’ name, you cannot attain a higher virtue.” The post The Discipleship Deadline Is Sooner Than We Think appeared first on Child Discipleship.

Episode Summary In this episode, Matt Markins and Mike Handler explore what it means to raise children and disciple the next generation in today’s rapidly shifting cultural landscape — a world they liken to raising kids on Mars. Inspired by a lyric from Elton John’s Rocket Man, Matt shares the moment the metaphor crystallized for him: an environment that feels unsustainable, isolating, and disorienting — yet one our kids are breathing as normal air. The hosts walk through a vocabulary quiz of modern cultural concepts (transhumanism, the metaverse, the splinternet, metamodernity) to illustrate just how foreign today’s world feels to parents and church leaders. They then introduce the Awana leadership framework — define reality, then give hope — as a foundation for responding wisely. The core of the conversation centers on two responsibilities every parent and church leader carries: protect and prepare. Protection is the baseline, but preparation — rooted in deep relationship — is what equips kids to thrive as they grow in independence. The episode closes by challenging church leaders to resist underestimating the power of a single moment in a child’s life and to hold a long-term vision for every child in their care. Next Steps For Parents: Identify the key spheres of influence shaping your child (friends, school, home, church, media/screens) and evaluate each one honestly. Have a conversation with your spouse or co-parent about where you are on the protect vs. prepare spectrum — and whether you’re leaning too heavily on one side. Ask yourself: When my child is 37, what do I most want for them? Let that vision shape decisions you make today. Evaluate whether your relationship with your child is deepening over time, recognizing that relationship outlasts authority as kids grow older. For Church & Kids Ministry Leaders: Resist the temptation to disempower your own impact by over-emphasizing how little time you have with kids. Every moment matters. Develop a long-term vision for the children in your ministry — not just what you want to teach them this Sunday, but who you want them to be at 17, 37, and 70. Consider hosting a child discipleship conversation with your team around the “protect and prepare” framework. Look into Awana’s Child Discipleship Forum — a resource for conversations at the crossroads of culture, church, and children. Show Notes Episode Theme Inspired by the Elton John lyric: “Mars ain’t the kind of place to raise your kids / In fact it’s cold as hell / And there’s no one there to raise them if you did.” — Bernie Taupin, Rocket Man (1972) Modernity Timeline (Quick Reference) Modernity — Concerned with defining truth; the age of Enlightenment Postmodernity — Questioned whether absolute truth exists Metamodernity — Holds hope for truth and cynicism about it simultaneously; lives in irony Pop culture analogy used in episode: Christopher Reeve’s Superman = Modern (clear good vs. evil) Zack Snyder’s Man of Steel = Postmodern (morally complex, kills the villain) James Gunn’s Superman = Metamodern (whimsical, virtuous, tongue-in-cheek — saves a squirrel mid-battle) Key Framework: Protect & Prepare Protect = Table stakes; necessary but diminishes over time as kids grow Prepare = Intentional, forward-looking; powered by deepening relationship Authority decreases as children age; relationship can and should grow richer Goal: raise kids who want to come back and talk to you — not because they have to, but because the relationship is real Referenced Resources The Anxious Generation — book on the influence of screens and social media on youth The Social Dilemma — Netflix documentary on tech and youth mental health Awana Child Discipleship Forum — conversations at the crossroads of culture, church, and children The post Discipling Kids on Mars appeared first on Child Discipleship.

The Child Discipleship Podcast is built around one central burden: lasting faith in Jesus for every child. This opening episode introduces Matt Markins and Mike Handler as hosts for the new season and sets the direction for the conversations ahead. The podcast itself is designed to equip parents, pastors, ministry leaders, and anyone else who cares about helping the next generation form a durable faith in Christ. In this episode, Matt and Mike frame child discipleship through the image of “fire carriers.” Drawing on the idea of carrying fire from one camp to another, they describe discipleship as the work of passing along the light, warmth, truth, and life of Jesus from one generation to the next. In the transcript, they use this picture to show that faithful adults do more than manage programs. They nurture faith. They protect embers. They help flame catch in the life of a child. That image becomes even more powerful when tied to Scripture. The episode points to John 1, where Jesus is revealed as the eternal Word and the light shining in the darkness. That biblical language gives theological weight to the metaphor. The fire being carried is not merely inspiration or tradition. It is the life and light of Christ himself. What makes this episode especially compelling is that it is not abstract. Both Matt and Mike tell personal stories about adults who shaped their lives when they were young. Mike reflects on a childhood marked by brokenness and how caring leaders in the church helped him see himself differently. Matt shares how a woman in his church wrote him notes of encouragement that challenged the false identity he had absorbed as a child. In both stories, the pattern is the same: a loving, attentive adult became a fire carrier. They spoke truth. They nurtured faith. They helped reframe identity. That is what this episode does so well. It reminds us that child discipleship is deeply relational. Lasting faith is not formed by accident, and it is not sustained by activity alone. It grows through time, care, truth, encouragement, prayer, and embodied example. The hosts argue that if the church wants to shape faith that lasts into adulthood, it must take child discipleship seriously at the earliest stages. This emphasis is consistent with Awana’s wider child discipleship vision. Awana describes its mission as “lasting faith in Jesus for every child,” and its child discipleship resources are aimed at helping churches and families disciple children both at home and in ministry contexts. The book Resilient: Child Discipleship and the Fearless Future of the Church, which the episode references, was written to equip leaders with a biblical and practical child discipleship philosophy. The episode also previews where the season is headed. Matt and Mike promise deeper conversations about the timing of discipleship, the difference between children’s ministry and child discipleship, relevance versus relationship, entertainment versus engagement, prayer, and the partnership between church and home. In other words, this episode is both an introduction and an invitation. It asks listeners to see themselves as part of the work of carrying the fire. Key takeaways Child discipleship is about helping children develop faith that lasts, not simply creating meaningful moments in childhood. Faith is often passed on through ordinary, loving, attentive adults who speak truth and nurture identity over time. The metaphor of “fire carriers” captures both the fragility and the urgency of discipleship. Fire must be protected, tended, and passed along. The goal is not short-term engagement but long-term faithfulness to Jesus. Action steps Ask yourself who God has placed in your life for you to disciple. The episode presses listeners to see themselves as fire carriers in their homes, churches, and communities. Encourage a child specifically this week. A note, a prayer, a conversation, or a word of affirmation may do more than you realize. Matt’s story shows how those moments can reshape identity. Evaluate your ministry through the lens of lasting faith. Are you merely filling time, or are you helping form a durable trust in Jesus? That question sits underneath the whole episode. Pray with a long horizon. The hosts frame success not as immediate response but as children still walking with Jesus decades from now. Show notes Matt Markins and Mike Handler introduce the new season of the Child Discipleship Podcast and explain that this season will go deeper into the “what” and “why” of child discipleship. The episode centers on the image of “fire carriers,” a metaphor for passing the truth and life of Jesus from one generation to another. Mike reflects on the adults who brought light into his life during a difficult childhood. Matt shares how encouragement from a woman in his church helped replace a false identity with a more truthful and hope-filled one. The hosts compare discipleship to nurturing a real fire: it requires care, patience, tenderness, and the right environment for growth. The episode closes by emphasizing that child discipleship is the work of shaping lasting faith in Jesus and previewing future conversations on key tensions and priorities in ministry. Resources mentioned The Child Discipleship Podcast is the official podcast from ChildDiscipleship.com for leaders, parents, and anyone who wants to help children form lasting faith in Jesus. Childdiscipleship.com – Awana’s child discipleship hub gathers resources for churches and parents, including training, articles, and podcast content. Resilient: Child Discipleship and the Fearless Future of the Church is the book referenced in the episode, co-written by Matt Markins, Mike Handler, Valerie Bell, and Chris Marchand. The post Carrying the Fire: Why Child Discipleship Matters More Than Ever appeared first on Child Discipleship.

In this episode, recorded live at the 2024 Child Discipleship Forum, Glenn Packiam emphasizes the importance of nurturing faith in children. He reflects on his own experiences growing up in Malaysia and the impact of early faith encounters. The conversation explores the challenges faced by church leaders in times of crisis, the need for resilience in discipleship, and the significance of seeking God consistently. Glenn highlights the distinction between relying on programs (carts) versus personal engagement (carriers) in ministry, and concludes with a call to consecrate oneself for God’s purpose.   SHOW NOTES See the video of Glenn Packiam’s 2024 CDF talk. Find more Child Discipleship resources at ChildDiscipleship.com. Learn more about the 2025 Child Discipleship Forum. The post Resilience in Discipleship, with Glenn Packiam appeared first on Child Discipleship.

In this episode, recorded live at the 2024 Child Discipleship Forum, Trevin Wax emphasizes the importance of imparting old truths to awaken the hearts of the next generation. Drawing from his experiences and biblical teachings, he discusses how the gospel can transform young minds and hearts, urging listeners to raise their expectations of what children can understand. Trevin highlights the need for consistent discipleship in everyday life, the significance of repetition in teaching, and the connection between knowledge and love for God. SHOW NOTES See the video of Trevin Wax’s 2024 CDF talk. Find more Child Discipleship resources at ChildDiscipleship.com. Learn more about the 2025 Child Discipleship Forum. The post Transforming Young Hearts Through the Gospel, with Trevin Wax appeared first on Child Discipleship.

In this episode, recorded live at the 2024 Child Discipleship Forum, Blair Linne discusses the profound impact of fatherlessness on children and families. Drawing from her personal experiences and statistics, she highlights the importance of fatherhood in shaping lives and communities. Blair emphasizes the church’s role in supporting fatherless children and encourages listeners to see and serve these children through the lens of God’s love. The conversation culminates in practical steps for individuals and communities to take action in caring for the fatherless, ultimately pointing to the hope found in God as the perfect Father. SHOW NOTES See the video of Blair Linne’s 2024 CDF talk. Find more Child Discipleship resources at ChildDiscipleship.com. Learn more about the 2025 Child Discipleship Forum. The post Understanding the Role of Fathers in Discipleship, with Blair Linne appeared first on Child Discipleship.

In this episode, recorded live at the 2024 Child Discipleship Forum, Jay Kim discusses the challenges and opportunities presented by technology in ministry, particularly for emerging generations. Drawing parallels between the evolution of art and the digital age, he emphasizes the need for church leaders to resist resignation and reimagine their approach to discipleship. Jay highlights the importance of forming gospel-centered desires, cultivating wisdom, and fostering strength and skill in ministry. SHOW NOTES See the video of Jay Kim’s 2024 CDF talk. Find more Child Discipleship resources at ChildDiscipleship.com. Learn more about the 2025 Child Discipleship Forum. The post Navigating Child Discipleship in a Digital World, with Jay Kim appeared first on Child Discipleship.

In this episode, recorded live at the 2024 Child Discipleship Forum, Sean McDowell discusses the critical role of apologetics in children’s ministry, emphasizing the need to equip kids with the ability to understand and defend their faith. He highlights the cultural shifts and challenges that today’s youth face, including increased secularism, the rise of Islam, and the impact of technology on relationships and beliefs. McDowell argues that while timely questions evolve, the fundamental inquiries about faith remain constant. He encourages creating an environment where questions are welcomed and emphasizes the importance of parental involvement in faith transmission.   SHOW NOTES See the video of Sean McDowell’s 2024 CDF talk. Find more Child Discipleship resources at ChildDiscipleship.com. Learn more about the 2025 Child Discipleship Forum. The post Empowering the Next Generation: The Role of Apologetics with Sean McDowell appeared first on Child Discipleship.

In this episode of the Child Discipleship Podcast, Melanie Hester and Dee Dee Meyer discuss the importance of family connection and the challenges faced by today’s parents. They explore the role of the Boone Center for the Family in supporting families, the impact of social media and technology on parenting, and the need for resilience and responsibility in children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empowering parents and children to navigate a complex world while fostering healthy relationships and spiritual growth. Ultimately, they advocate for a community approach to parenting, where families support one another in raising purpose-driven children who can navigate the complexities of modern life with faith and resilience. SHOW NOTES The Formational Home Event Kit The post Empowering Families for a Resilient Future appeared first on Child Discipleship.