Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
What Our Withdrawer Spouse Can Teach Us
54 minutes Posted Jun 27, 2026 at 9:00 am.
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In this episode, we explore what pursuers can learn from withdrawer partners instead of seeing them as the “problem” in the relationship. Withdrawers often bring steadiness, pacing, self-regulation, and a needed reminder that not every issue has to be solved immediately. When pursuers can appreciate these differences, couples can move out of blame and into a more balanced, secure connection.
Main Talking Points:
Slowing Down
Self Regulation
Energy Conservation
Selective Needs
Healthy Individuation
Grounded Stability
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