The title of this episode is a direct quote from Faith Stowers, regarding Lisa Vanderpump.  Faith Stowers, a former Vanderpump Rules cast member and former Sur employee, discusses her experience on this show- as the only black cast member.   She talks racism and gives specific examples.  We discuss the lack of diversity in the cast members of the show and the employees of the Vanderpump establishments that we do not see on television.  We discuss how passionate and supportive Lisa Vanderpump is when it comes to LGBTQ and animal rights, but her seemingly lack of involvement when it comes to the Black Lives Matter movement.   Faith accuses Kristin Doute and Stassi Schroeder of being guilty of using their white privilege to ruin her reputation, her career, and even her life. If you do not care about Vanderpump Rules, fast forward 30 minutes and listen to the rest of what she has to say.  This speaks volumes about what is going on in our world now and in Hollywood today.  We invite anyone that was mentioned in this podcast to respond to anything that was said.  Please be part of the conversation. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

The Real Housewives of Potomac is back!!  We are sooo excited.  Paul, aka, The Real Reality Homo, and I dive right into this premiere episode.  He gives knowledgable insight while I defend Gizelle based only on the fact that I like pretty things.  We agree that she deserves better than a Mini Cooper.  We are both excited to see The Grand Dame and disappointed to see a cash bar.  If you are not excited about this episode, then you are a "Hamster Faced Ho."  Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

We are here with another new Love After Lockup cast member from season three,  John Miller.  John tells us some behind the scenes scoop on how filming is going and answers my questions about that impressive chapel on wheels.  We also discuss why he did not carry Kristianna's box to the limo.  We talk about how his background and why he thinks that it is a good idea for convicts to date other convicts.  Enjoy meeting John Miller everybody! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

The Real Reality Homo aka Paul and I have a delightful conversation about all Real Housewives franchises, his Twitter, ummm feud, with Camille Meyer, formerly Camille Gramer, and of course we speculate wildly on the Brand Glandville and Denise Richards situation.  We talk about much more- including his predictions for the Real Housewives of Dallas this season and how if you are not watching Dallas and Potomac you should be.  We recap RHONY and Ramona’s birthday party too....wow Leah wow. Thanks Paul! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

We are so excited to welcome David Yontef.  David has an all access pass to our favorite Real Housewives and all other Bravolebrities.  He is the host of the podcast "Behind the Velvet Rope" and he took time to talk to us and give us a glimpse of what it is like to travel in the same circles as the ladies we are fascinated by on Bravo.  This is an exciting interview, David names names and tells us about some of his favorite and not so favorite encounters over the years.  He tells us how he got behind that velvet rope and what he found once he got there.   Disclaimer* There is an audio issue on my end, but it gets better, you can hear David perfectly.   Thank you to David and thank you to everyone who listens!  Enjoy and stay safe! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

Love After Lockup is back for season 3!  We talked to one of the new stars, Jessica, 30 minutes after her television debut.  She gives us some inside scoop on what it was like to be married to her husband, Maurice, while he was incarcerated at San Quentin and tells us the two things he immediately wanted when he was released.  We also know all four places where Maurice's name is tattooed on her body and a little bit about the mother of his child.  We get some inside scoop on her relationship with her sister and what we might see coming up this season.  She tells us what she does to relax before the interview portions of the show and more.  Enjoy this first glimpse of the new cast and new season! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

Lisa Vanderpump's former best friend and house guest, Cedric Martinez, tells us all about his very personal relationship with the Vanderpumps.  The former boyfriend of Lance Bass tells us what Lisa and Ken are like when the cameras are not rolling and the lies and manipulation he experienced behind the scenes of Season 1 of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.  He answers questions about Lisa Vanderpump's character, personality, marriage, and weighs in on whether or not Lisa Vanderpump is really the "puppet master."  He shares with us what Russell Armstrong told him in a confidential conversation prior to taking his life and why watching the women discuss Russell's suicide makes him sick to this day.  He even weighs in on the recent accusations of racism in the Vanderpump empire.   Was Cedric cancelled because he knew too much?  Was how Cedric was treated by Lisa Vanderpump and Bravo a foreshadowing of what has recently come to light? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

Ashley and Jay tell us about racist and degrading comments that Jax from Vanderpump Rules made to them directly.  They discuss why some of his fellow cast mates were fired from Bravo for racist behavior, yet Jax Taylor was spared.  We invite Jax to come on this podcast and respond to anything that was said and we thank Ashley and Jay for talking to us.  We apologize for a brief audio issue at the beginning.  Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

Y'all I have heard your feedback.  I have received that when I try to record anything except an interview, I drive you crazy with my disorganization and my random thoughts.  I wrote an outline this time and y'all are right, I needed to do that.   I think you will enjoy this episode (that turned out to be a deep dive into this season of "Before the 90 Days") with Samantha.  Sam has produced most of my interviews with the cast of Love After Lockup, but this is the first time she is out from behind the scenes.  Stay safe and enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support

Y'all we are just talking some Real Housewives.  New York and Beverly Hills- current Wives and those who have left us, in other words we ramble.  D'Boom drops his bottle of Fireball at some point.  Stay Safe! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/red-flags-make-cute-scarves/support