Reclaimed & Unashamed
Reclaimed & Unashamed
Kolton Thomas
Are you tired of struggling with porn and want to quit, but don't know where to start? Have you tried everything and wondered if anything will ever escape the cycle? Welcome to the Reclaimed & Unashamed podcast, where we help men break the shame and rewire their brains so they can start living a porn-free life. In this podcast your host and licensed counselor Kolton Thomas will share science, stories, and strategies to help you grow in self-awareness and self-control over your life and your habits online. We invite you to listen to our weekly episodes and join our community of men who can honestly say they've been RECLAIMED from the struggle with pornography. 
Clay's Triumph Over Porn: Don't Ever Give Up (With Clay Brown)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. At 66, Clay Brown's story is a testament to the power of faith and community in overcoming life's toughest battles. From a childhood marked by early exposure to alcohol, drugs, and pornography, to a tumultuous period in the Marine Corps, Clay's journey has been anything but easy. In our latest episode, Clay opens up about his struggles with addiction, particularly to alcohol and sexual sin, and how he found ...
Oct 18, 2024
38 min
Why Men Struggle to Love: How Childhood Experiences Shape Struggles with Intimacy (With Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. In this episode with Dr. Eddie Capparucci, we discuss how men can unlock deeper emotional connections by reconnecting with their childhood experiences. Dr. Eddie Capparucci is the author of several books on healing from sex and pornography addiction, including Going Deeper and Why Men Struggle to Love. As you listen, you will gain insights into how emotional underdevelopment during childhood fosters a fear...
Jun 20, 2024
46 min
AI and the Future of Intimacy: The Struggle for Authentic Connection in a Digital World (With Dustin Freeman)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. Imagine a future where artificial intelligence is aimed at our deepest connections and desires. This is the potentially unsettling reality that Dustin Freeman and I wrestle with in this episode centered around AI and its impact on intimacy and sexuality. As technology seeps further into our lives, we confront the jarring reality that AI's role in intimacy could lead to a seismic shift in how we perceive huma...
May 22, 2024
38 min
Fear Unmasked: Decoding the Relationship Between Rejection and Unwanted Behaviors (With Allan Stanford)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. Are you hungry for a deeper exploration of your story when it comes to overcoming shame and pornography addiction? With our returning guest, Allan Standford, we examine how pornography use is actually a misguided strategy for working out our struggles and life stories. The episode drives even deeper into the dark corridors of fear- the fear of rejection, and its intertwined relationship with unwanted ...
Nov 24, 2023
34 min
The Unseen Influence: How Culture Shapes Our Views on Sexuality (With Jonathan Storment)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. What if I told you that the way you understand sex and sexuality is influenced more by culture than you realize? In this episode, we venture through the history of Christian sexual ethics with our guest, Jonathan Storment, who talks about how the perception and treatment of women, sex, and children have evolved over the years. Jonathan illuminates why this understanding is pivotal to our modern culture, and ...
Nov 4, 2023
23 min
Andrew's Redemption: How Andrew Rekindled the Flame of His Marriage After Years of Unwanted Porn Use
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. Have you ever grappled with the claws of addiction and found yourself at the point of giving up? In this moving conversation with Andrew, we unravel his journey of battling with porn, his search for acceptance, and eventually reclaiming his identity. Andrew bares his soul about his struggle with pornography and how it began from a place of low self-esteem and marital dissatisfaction. He walks us through his ...
Sep 12, 2023
21 min
From Attachment Wounds to Freedom: Overcoming Pornography Addiction (With Allan Stanford)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. Imagine a world where you're confident in yourself, free from the shackles of shame and guilt associated with unwanted pornography use. A world where understanding your attachments can lead to a healthier, more fulfilling life. Join me, Kolton Thomas, as I sit down with one of my mentors, Allan Stanford, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. As we journey together, we explore Allan's unique insights on the sh...
Sep 6, 2023
30 min
Theology of the Body: Rediscovering Dignity in the Face of Sexual Depravity (With Jonathan Storment)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. Get ready to embark on a transformative journey as we welcome an accomplished speaker, church leader, and scholar, Jonathan Stormant, to shed light on the profound teachings of Pope John Paul II's work titled Theology of the Body. Transformed himself by these writings, Jonathan dissects the complex intersection of faith, culture, and sexuality, emphasizing the divine origins of our deepest romantic impulses ...
Aug 14, 2023
29 min
Unveiling the Isolation: Men's Hidden Battle with Pornography (With Dustin Freeman)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. In episode 15 of the Reclaimed Recovery Podcast, we interview special guest Dustin Freeman of the St Anglican Church in Little Rock, Arkansas. This episode is designed to help men think deeply about the silent, cultural struggle men face with addictions like pornography, and how we can find strength and healing through community (in spite of our culture). The episode calls us to be more aware of how culture ...
Jul 10, 2023
54 min
Mastering Your Addictive Brain With Inner Child Techniques (With Eddie Capparucci)
Send us a text with feedback about the show or questions you'd like to see addressed. Are you struggling to understand why you keep returning to certain behaviors like porn? Are you subconsciously avoiding the moment when you have to face your genuine fears and emotions? Do you keep distracting yourself so you don't have to face the little boy or girl that you still carry inside you all these years later? In this episode, we hear from a special guest, Dr. Eddie Capparucci, who helps us unders...
Jun 13, 2023
54 min
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