
What if the reason you're struggling with food in menopause isn't actually hunger? In this episode of The Real Dish, I sit down with Dr. Deb Butler, Certified Master Weight Loss and Life Coach and host of the ThINNER Peace in Menopause and Beyond podcast, to talk about something so many women experience after 40 and 50: emotional eating, weight gain, yo-yo dieting, and feeling like we can no longer trust our own bodies. Before becoming a coach, Dr. Deb spent 30 years as a board-certified chiropractor, nutritionist, and acupuncturist—and decades fighting her own battle with weight and dieting. At age 50, she went on what would become her last diet and began developing a completely different approach to food, hunger, and her body. Dr. Deb explains why the heightened emotions that can accompany perimenopause and menopause are so easily confused with physical hunger—and why another restrictive eating plan may not be the answer. In this episode, we talk about: How to tell the difference between physical hunger and emotional hunger Why menopause can change your relationship with food How decades of dieting disconnect us from our natural hunger and fullness cues Why willpower and restriction often backfire Learning to eat when you're hungry and stop when you're satisfied Emotional eating, boundaries, and learning to actually feel your feelings How to finally step off the yo-yo dieting roller coaster What true food freedom can look like after 40, 50 and beyond Because your Power Era shouldn't be spent counting every bite, fighting your body, or starting another Monday morning diet. It's time to learn how to listen to your body instead of trying to control it.
Aug 14
44 min

Have you been waiting for the "right time" to finally chase your dreams? Waiting until the kids are grown... Until work slows down... Until menopause is over... Until you lose the weight... Until someone tells you it's okay? In this empowering episode of The Real Dish, Chef Mareya—your Internet Auntie—shares a heartfelt conversation about why the greatest transformations in life don't begin with permission from others. They begin the moment you decide you're ready to write your own next chapter. Drawing from her own journey of selling her family home, becoming an empty nester, traveling solo, caring for her aging father, competing in bodybuilding in her 50s, reinventing her career, and embracing life's unexpected plot twists, Mareya explores why courage isn't something you're born with—it's something you build. If you're navigating midlife, menopause, an empty nest, career changes, divorce, retirement, or simply feeling called to something more, this episode is your reminder that your best years are still ahead of you. In this episode, you'll learn: Why waiting for permission keeps us stuck The invisible "rules" women are taught to follow—and how to break them Why reinvention is messy, uncomfortable, and completely worth it What strength training, nutrition, and brain health teach us about personal growth Simple ways to build confidence through small, brave decisions How to embrace your next chapter with intention instead of fear Whether you're looking for motivation, personal growth, healthy aging inspiration, or practical encouragement to reinvent yourself after 40 or 50, this episode will remind you that it's never too late to become the person you're meant to be. If this episode inspires you, please subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share it with a friend who may need a little encouragement today. Ready to design your next chapter? Learn more about the FOUNDATIONS coaching program, recipes, wellness resources, travel inspiration, and more at TheRealDish.com. Favorite Products & Exclusive Community Discounts Visit TheRealDish.com/shop for my favorite wellness, kitchen, travel, and healthy living products. Lineage Provisions — Save 15% with code THEREALDISH LumeBox — Use code CHEFMAREYA for up to $260 off HexClad — Save up to 30% off Plus all of my latest exclusive partner discounts, favorite products, and travel essentials at TheRealDish.com/shop.
Aug 8
31 min

What if your next vacation could change more than your scenery? In this episode of The Real Dish, Chef Mareya explores why travel in midlife isn't just about seeing the world—it's about rediscovering yourself. Whether you're dreaming of your first solo trip, considering a self-guided adventure, or curious about the connection and ease of small group travel, this episode will help you choose the experience that's right for your next chapter. Drawing from her own transformational journeys—from exploring Portugal at her own pace on a self-guided walking adventure to the profound connections she's made through small-group travel—Mareya shares why stepping outside your comfort zone can be one of the most powerful investments you make in your health, confidence, and personal growth. You'll learn the unique benefits of solo travel, how self-guided itineraries offer the perfect balance of freedom and support, why small hosted groups create lifelong friendships, and the essential questions to ask before booking your next trip. If you're navigating an empty nest, entering retirement, celebrating a milestone birthday, or simply craving more purpose and adventure, this episode is your guide to traveling with intention. In this episode, you'll discover: Why midlife is the ideal season for transformational travel The pros and cons of solo travel, self-guided travel, and small-group adventures Lessons from Mareya's self-guided Portugal journey and why it changed the way she travels How to choose a travel experience that aligns with your goals, fitness level, interests, and budget What to look for in a hosted retreat or guided tour before you book Why the right journey can transform your confidence, perspective, and outlook on life Plus, Mareya shares an exciting preview of her upcoming hosted wellness and cultural retreats—including a once-in-a-lifetime journey to her birthplace of Egypt, where food, culture, history, and meaningful connection come together in an unforgettable experience. Because the best souvenir you'll ever bring home isn't something you can fit in your suitcase—it's the person you become along the way. Subscribe to The Real Dish for weekly conversations on healthy aging, nutrition, travel, longevity, and living your most vibrant life after 40. If this episode inspires you, leave a review and share it with a friend who's ready to stamp their passport—and transform their life.
Jul 30
41 min

Peptides seem to be everywhere—from conversations about muscle and metabolism to skin health, recovery, hormones, and longevity. But what are they, really? Are they the breakthrough everyone claims they are, or just the latest wellness buzzword? In this episode of The Real Dish, Chef Mareya sits down with Dr. Aleksandra Gajer, an internal medicine physician specializing in hormone optimization, metabolic health, medical weight loss, and performance medicine. Known for her science-first, patient-centered approach, Dr. Gajer helps women cut through the noise to make informed decisions about their health at every stage of life. Together, they unpack what peptides are, how they work, and why they're generating so much excitement in the worlds of longevity and functional medicine. From muscle preservation and recovery to healthy aging and hormone optimization, this conversation explores the potential benefits, the limitations, and the questions every woman should ask before considering peptide therapy. Because throughout this season of The Real Dish, we've been redefining what it means to thrive in midlife—not chasing quick fixes, but building strength, confidence, and vitality for the long haul. Peptides may be one tool in the toolbox, but they're never a substitute for the foundations of great health. In this episode, you'll learn: What peptides are and how they communicate within the body The difference between peptides, hormones, and GLP-1 medications Which peptides are being used for muscle, recovery, metabolism, skin health, and longevity Who may benefit from peptide therapy—and who should be cautious What to look for in a qualified medical provider Why strength training, protein, sleep, and lifestyle remain the true cornerstones of healthy aging Whether you're peptide-curious or simply trying to separate science from social media, this episode will leave you with practical, evidence-based insights to help you make confident decisions about your health. Because your Power Era deserves more than hype—it deserves the truth.
Jul 24
33 min

What if midlife isn't the beginning of the end—but the beginning of the most meaningful chapter of your life? In this episode of The Real Dish, Mareya invites you to pick up the pen and become the author of your next chapter. Whether you're navigating menopause, an empty nest, a career pivot, divorce, caregiving, or simply feeling the pull toward something more, this conversation will help you stop living on autopilot and start intentionally designing a life that reflects who you've become. You'll discover why so many women feel stuck in midlife, how the stories we've been telling ourselves shape our future, and why this season isn't a crisis—it's an invitation to reinvent yourself with clarity, confidence, and purpose. In this episode, you'll learn: Why midlife is a plot twist—not the final chapter. How your identity and self-talk may be keeping you stuck. The difference between drifting through life and designing it with intention. The FOUNDATION framework for creating your next best chapter. Simple, practical steps to build momentum and embrace change with confidence. If today's conversation resonates with you and you're ready to stop wondering what's next and start creating it, I'd love to invite you to join FOUNDATION: Write Your Next Best Chapter—my six-week guided coaching experience designed to help you gain clarity, create a vision, and build a roadmap for your next season of life. Learn more and reserve your spot at TheRealDish.com. Because your story isn't over. In fact, the best chapter may still be waiting to be written and I look forward to guiding you through it, together.
Jul 16
43 min

What if heartbreak isn't something to avoid—but proof that you've truly loved something? After Egypt's unforgettable World Cup run, I found myself experiencing every emotion imaginable: pride, hope, joy... and ultimately, heartbreak. As an Egyptian living thousands of miles from where I was born, watching my country unite reminded me that some connections never fade. Home has a way of living inside you, no matter where life takes you. In this episode, I'm sharing why sports are never just sports, why millions of Egyptians—and immigrants around the world—felt every kick, save, and goal so deeply, and what this experience taught me about identity, community, resilience, and the courage to care. Because the opposite of heartbreak isn't happiness. It's indifference. And if your heart breaks, it means you showed up. You hoped. You believed. You loved something bigger than yourself. Whether you've ever cheered for your country, left home in search of another life, or simply cared enough to risk disappointment, this conversation is for you. In this episode you'll discover: Why sports can unite people across generations and continents The unique experience of loving two places at once as an immigrant What Egypt's World Cup journey taught me about resilience and hope Why heartbreak is often evidence of a life fully lived How choosing to care—even when it hurts—is one of the bravest things we can do Because a heart that's never broken... is probably a heart that's never been fully alive. ______ You can get 15% off with my code THEREALDISH at checkout. Go to lineageprovisions.com/THEREALDISH and use code THEREALDISH.
Jul 10
21 min

What if the secret to healthy aging isn't another supplement, expensive gadget, or restrictive diet—but the small, consistent habits you practice every day? In this episode of The Real Dish, Mareya Ibrahim sits down with wellness entrepreneur, bestselling author, and founder of SUPERWELL and Well Inspired Travels, Lauren Pronger, to explore the eight pillars of wellness that support longevity, energy, resilience, and vibrant aging. Inspired by the principles in her book SUPERWELL, Lauren shares a holistic roadmap for improving your health from the inside out. Together, they unpack practical strategies for optimizing sleep, reducing stress, supporting hormone health, nourishing your body, moving with purpose, connecting with nature, strengthening relationships, and creating daily rituals that help you feel your best—at every age. If you're a woman navigating midlife, menopause, burnout, or simply looking for evidence-informed wellness habits that actually fit into real life, this conversation is filled with practical takeaways you can begin using today. In this episode, you'll discover: • The eight pillars of the SUPERWELL lifestyle and why they work together—not in isolation • The surprising habits that have the greatest impact on longevity and healthy aging • Why quality sleep is one of the most powerful anti-aging tools available • How movement, nutrition, and stress management influence hormone health and energy • The connection between nature, community, and emotional well-being • Simple wellness habits that improve resilience without overwhelming your schedule • How travel and immersive wellness experiences can become catalysts for lasting lifestyle change Whether your goal is to build muscle after 40, improve metabolic health, manage menopause symptoms, increase energy, or simply age with greater strength and vitality, Lauren's approach offers an achievable blueprint grounded in consistency—not perfection. Because healthy aging isn't about turning back the clock. It's about building a life that allows you to thrive for decades to come. healthy aging, longevity, women's health, wellness after 40, menopause, hormone health, sleep optimization, stress management, nutrition, movement, biohacking, wellness travel, healthy habits, resilience, midlife wellness, longevity lifestyle.
Jul 1
46 min

What is going on with the return of the super-skinny celebrity trend we thought we left back in the '90s? From red carpets to social media feeds, a new wave of dramatic weight loss has many women wondering if we're headed back to the era of heroin chic, crash diets, and impossible beauty standards. For those of us who grew up during the Kate Moss years, it feels eerily familiar—and frankly, a little alarming. In this episode of The Real Dish, Mareya takes a closer look at the cultural obsession with being thin and asks a more important question: What is it costing us? As celebrities grow visibly smaller, women everywhere are being sold the same old message in a new package—that thinner is better. But science tells a different story. Muscle, not skinniness, is one of the greatest predictors of longevity, independence, metabolic health, and quality of life as we age. Mareya shares her personal journey from growing up in the age of diet culture to becoming a passionate advocate for strength, resilience, and healthy aging. She also tackles the rise of GLP-1 medications, what happens when appetite disappears but nutritional needs don't, and why so many women are unknowingly sacrificing muscle in pursuit of a smaller number on the scale. If you're tired of shrinking yourself and ready to build a body that supports the life you want to live, this episode is for you. Because the goal was never to be skinny. The goal is to be strong. In this episode: Why the return of extreme thinness should concern women How the Kate Moss era shaped a generation's relationship with food and body image The surprising link between muscle and longevity What women need to know about GLP-1 medications and muscle loss Why protein becomes more important after 40 Strength training strategies for every age and fitness level How to measure progress beyond the scale What it means to age with power, not fear It's time to stop chasing smaller and start building stronger. Your future self will thank you.
Jun 24
30 min

What happens when you stop waiting for someone to join you and simply say yes to the adventure? In this inspiring episode of The Real Dish, Mareya explores the transformative power of solo travel with 74-year-old fitness competitor, adventurer, and vibrant ager Renee Landers (@reneefitat70). After spending much of her life putting others first, Renee began traveling the world on her own in her seventies—and it changed everything. Together, they discuss how solo travel builds confidence, expands your world, creates meaningful connections, and reminds you that it's never too late to reinvent yourself. Renee shares how embracing the "Power of Yes" opened doors to new experiences, friendships, and a level of freedom she never imagined possible. Whether you're dreaming of your first solo getaway or your next great adventure, this conversation is your invitation to stop waiting and start living. Because sometimes the best travel companion is you.
Jun 18
54 min

Welcome to the season of life where you stop living on autopilot. In this episode of The Real Dish, Mareya dives into the Midlife Audit—a simple but transformative process for evaluating where you are, where you've been, and where you want to go next. We'll unpack the signs that it's time for a reset, why change often feels uncomfortable before it feels liberating, and how to embrace reinvention as a natural part of growth. Whether you're navigating menopause, an empty nest, a career shift, or simply a desire for something more, this conversation will help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of possibility. A midlife audit isn't about judging the life you've built. It's about making sure the life you're feeding next still fits who you've become. Because your most powerful era isn't behind you - it's right now.
Jun 9
40 min
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