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Latex, Throwing Bacon and Bad Corpse Makeup with Anna Holmes
56 minutes Posted Aug 12, 2026 at 7:30 am.
The Feeld App & Latex Story
Apple Watch Tracked Heart Rate During Loss
Writing the New Yorker Piece & Middle-Aged Celibacy
Processing Divorce & Ex-Husband’s Sudden Death
High Career Achievement vs Internal Insecurity
Facing Parental Illness & Emotional Avoidance
Grief, Family Tension, & Attending End-of-Life
Final Moments With Mom & The Physiology of Loss
The Apple Watch Alert at the Moment of Death
Holding Grudges, Resentment, & Anger at Self
Accessing Joy, Gratitude, & Curiosity
Overcoming Writer's Block & Writing The Power of No
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Anna Holmes could walk into any newsroom and immediately run the show. She created and ran Jezebel while I was at Gawker and her writing has appeared in The Atlantic, The New Yorker and The New York Times, where she formerly wrote the weekly “Work Friend” column for the Sunday Business Section. But as we discuss in this interview, she still struggles with feelings of inadequacy. In this conversation, we discuss Anna’s foray into dating apps and the ways that later-in-life sexual exploration helped her grieve both the death of her ex-husband and the loss of her mother, including the bizarre moment her Apple Watch recorded the moment of her mother’s death. Plus, rage bacon, corpse makeup and learning lessons from other peoples’ kids. Anna’s new book The Power of No is out September 15.
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Topics:
Living a double life in media
Trashing 300 pages of a book
High accomplishment vs low worth
Unlearning adolescent insecurity
Overcoming fear of being a phony
Shame, divorce, and self-worth
Breaking destructive habit loops
Finding freedom through truth
Navigating grief and tech data
Cutting tethers and moving on
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