Today’s topic The reality of perception/ What you see is what you get 02:38 How you see is what you get/how you interpret reality 03:33 Culture. Arranged marriage. Relationship legitimacy 05:31 Marriage in society now and arranged vs free will 06:55 Ahmed be great to have you on show! 08:01 How you’re best mate doesn’t like your girlfriend! Outside perspective. 09:30 Relationships and learning from them 09:56 Relationship example, why are you in one? 10:56 What you deserve? We can have anything we want vs entitlement and privilege 12:51 What we deserve is what we allow ourselves 13:15 Things aren’t always what they seem. Priests. Catholic school girls. 14:19 Bill Cosby as an example being one thing and saying another thing 15:35 People represented in costume or uniform etc presenting one thing 16:30 Facade and perception of people portrayal 17:22 Balance and anti vs something, the duality of it all, anti anything you are into it 19:21 Division in life and opposites 20:15 Anglican school boy story, rebellion, rules, restrictions, control, being human 22:11 Programmes in life, “doesn’t like to be told story” about a woman Steve met on set while filming, Steve’s advice 25:30 Programme of stubborness and reactive response 26:30 Be aware of your programming, tuning into your inner guidance and wisdom, heart, soul 27:49 You are the experiencer of your reality, creating your reality, your diet is not just your food, what are you consuming 29:10 Job not satisfying? 29:49 What you judge is what you need to heal, this reality is like a mirror, what is within you dislike, how can heal and overcome the things we don’t like about ourselves 31:40 Judgement story when you don’t like someone or something, instagram story 33:37 Steve’s childhood story and bullying story, we pick on people because they represent something within ourself we don’t like 36:40 Realisation, people are expressing the inability to love themselves 38:00 Tough place to be growing up, bullies are cowardly and have fear and pick on weaker individuals 39:39 What did the school do about it? Fight back!! 40:25 George St Pierre story about bullying, confronting his bully many years later 42:45 We are all fighting our own battles, your shadow side, your darkness 44:28 The midlife transition, Jaqui thanks for getting in touch 45:04 Friend who doesn’t like their job story, let’s be honest, the right thing to say, needing a break. 46:40 Job job that doesn’t inspire, pay the mortgage, stress, pills, distraction 47:31 The rat race, passion, Simon Sinek quote, stress 48:41 Bottom line job, survival, the transaction of time as energy, inspiration, finding your passion, what makes you feel alive. 50:30 Changing lanes, is it too lat to follow your dreams, get out of the comfort zone, pull the trigger. 51:20 Dancing the Tango, you can’t always make money from your passion? Nothing wrong with a job as long as it doesn’t stress you, health etc 53:30 Balance and job helps your passion, material possessions start owning you, consumerist society. Cultural programming. 55:00 The life you thought you’d live as opposed to reality 56:23 Life is what happens while you’re making other plans 57:40 Are you stuck? Create your way out, empowerment, your not victim, choices 59:05 The change and power is the responsibility within you, the path you chose 1:00:00 What’s the next best step for you? 1:00:55 Finding that inspiration, allow space and guidance, take a step back, perspective 1:02:00 Closing comments, see you next week!  1:02:20 Long Form Outro music. 1:04:58 End