My girls sleep through the night now. They dress themselves. They eat on their own. So why am I more stressed than ever?Because the worry didn't go away. It just changed shape.I went from checking if they were breathing to checking if they're okay. Like really okay. The kind of okay you can't measure with a thermometer.My girls are 5 and 6 and I'm already losing sleep over friendships, mean girls, and the fact that I can't follow them into the playground and fix everything anymore.This one's honest. Maybe too honest. But if you're a mum lying awake at 2am worrying about stuff that hasn't even happened yet — this one's for you.