Why do single mothers who remarry behave like their life depends on the marriage, they don’t want their children in quote spoil their marriage or break their marriage.. I don’t understand how you will turn your back on your child because you are with a new man .. So there is this young girl someone brought to live with me .. she is about 17yrs . She told me her mother was married to another man and the man didn’t want to see her.. and the mom already has children for him..There is one thing I need to let a lot of you parents know!! When you love a child , it’s hard to influence that child outside, because the love you have given to that child will bring trust and confidence and if anyone tries to influence them , you will be the first to hear because they trust you..But when you push a child away, the wickedness of the world is waiting to show the child other options.. Do you know why I say this? Because I want you to understand from this story ..Some months after she resumed she said she was going for her grandpa’s burial.. I said no problem, gave her transport and she left.. She stayed one week in the village and came back.. I travelled to Italy for a while and while I was away I had a neighbor who I actually begged to help me look over my apartment.When she called me she told me the girl who works for me said she wanted to leave.. I was shocked , so I called her mr told her to be patient I will soon return Me she said okI returned about a week later and immediately I saw her I noticed her face was chubby and she was bloated .. so I asked her if she had her period she said yes… I didn’t say anything the next morning immediately I woke up I went to her room and told her to dress up that we needed to pick something, she did and I took her straight to the lab. They did a pregnancy test and this little girl was pregnant.. so she wanted to leave before I returned so I won’t know she was pregnant Anyway I took her back home and called her family that brought her to me, so we can find out how she got pregnant.. and who was responsible So I got the mothers number from her so I cal talk to her woman to woman, but I got the shock of my life ..I put a call through to the mother of the pregnant young girl, I introduce myself and told her the situation her daughter is in..And all this woman would say is MADAM PLEASE my husband must not hear about something like this he is a pastor ..😱 like What???? You mean that is more important? I was so angry and I told her to stop talking like that, but this woman continued .. I lost it at that point , like how can you not even be interested in who did this yo your daughter instead you are talking about your husband and his church.. I really felt disappointed because this and many more is what children suffer , they suffer neglect, the suffer rape and all sorts of abuse .. and a single mother would rather face her new man.. I gave her a piece of my mind .. that she is not worthy of the title MY NAMNY IS PREGNANT Mind you when she came I took her for medial screening so she was ok health wise and not pregnant..After she got back from that buy