What has become of marriage and commitment, how do judge a case like this? I will take 'THIS' to my GRAVE!!!I will take this to my grave , is a series of different stories of people who had died and something they hid came up after their death.A man secretly built a house and his wife didn’t know till he died , now the question is why will a man hide his possession from his wife and family? Why will a man who has children now disclose it to even his children We see stories like this every day when a man dies and the family finds out a life the man was living that they didn’t know about Imagine this man eats the food his wife cooks at home and probably have sexual pleasure with his wife and still hides something like this from his wife.Like Ese said the relationship was flawed in all ramification and if you dig deeper you might see what will shock you .So now this boils down to the younger generation, there is more to marriage than just the wedding day , there are things to look out for before you say I DO .If something like this happened to you how would you handle it? Would you be glad he is even dead or wished he was alive to explain why he would do something like that. May we not fall victim of such relationship of lies , a relationship where a man will hide his progress from his household, such a man can kill .