Ways to Mess Up Your Kids from REAL LIFE TALK WITH BLESSING

I went to the salon, there was a lady who came with her daughters, one of the girls went to wee in the bathroom , when she got back , she was trying to talk to her mum,

She was like mummy, the mother said please keep quiet , the child started again, mummy she was dragging the mum by her too, and the mum was upset and hit her hand and told the child my friend can u keep quiet?? Or I will smack your bombom now, I had to tell her not to do that, that she should find out what the child wants, we are in a public place you never know what happened when she went to wee wee.

You see I have to let you understand that, those are some of the things that makes a child keep shut even when something bad had happened to them , a child who was raped or molested ..

Please parents don’t shut your children down, this can make a child hide things from you ,

It makes a child see you as unapproachable

And that is not a good relationship to build with your child.

Parents pay attention to your child’s mental, emotional needs,

There was a counseling session I had, and the girl of about 12yrs old said, she did not tell her mother that she was raped, because her mother will blame her, that is because she was always blamed for everything that happens in the house, if a cup breaks the mum blames her, if something is not done right the mother blames her , so you see what I am talking about.

So please parents, take note, don’t shut your child down when they want to tell you something, it might not make sense , but give them the audience, you might just find out something.

You should be the first person your child runs to if there is something happening to them, or if they need someone to talk to..

This is one parenting 101 😂 please use it and build a better relationship with your children

Much love 💕 from real life talk with blessing

And I am ur host KingB

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