REAL LIFE TALK WITH BLESSING
REAL LIFE TALK WITH BLESSING
King B
A Single mother’s struggle
12 minutes Posted Oct 19, 2021 at 8:34 am.
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A Single mother’s struggle
Hello everyone welcome to another episode with me on real life talk with blessing
Today I am talking to single mothers, and maybe my next edition I will talk to single fathers
There seems to be this stigma that goes with being a single mother, some people make it look like a plaque, OH SHE DIDNT MARRY, na wa ooo, are you sure she even knows the father of the child?
Can the society stop this ? Can people stop this
Being a single mother is a choice , a choice she had to make for herself and her child or children
Some of this women were raped and they ended up pregnant and still decided not to abort the child despite the pain they had to go through, they saw something good in their situation and embraced it.
I have to say this , There is a lady I know who is a single mother, she was married and the husband left her immediately she had a child who had Down syndrome, and she always complains to me me BLESSING PEOPLE BLAME ME FOR BEING A SINGLE MOM, and she said sometimes she wonders how is this my fault..
Please we all as humans need to do better and stop this castigating, stop the discrimination. Especially our fellow women na we do am pass
Stop it .
So today I am talking to single mothers and I want them to give us an insight to how the world see being a single mother
Welcome to the show my dear , first I am gonna
say how did you become a single mother?
Do you get any emotional support from family and friends?
What’s your biggest struggle about being a single mother?
What do you think is some of the misconception people have about being a mother, a young single mom for that matter
What are the things you think people should stop saying about single mothers?
What advice do you have single mothers who are struggling to make ends meet ?
Single mothers pls take care of yourself, stay positive always , don’t feel guilty for anything
Remember to praise your child and help your child know what to expect on the journey of life
Give the single mother or father a break, mind ur own life and mind ur business, how they got to that point isn’t your business.. and to every single mother I applaud you, I know it’s not easy doing the job of two parents, may God keep you to enjoy the fruit of your labour
What a single parent want to hear is
You are doing great
Your kids will be fine
You will be ok
You are enough
Single moms are often faced with tough challenges, specific to raising a child on their own
But study has shown that single moms are just as happy and married women or even better than married woman , that’s after research was done , no be me talk am ooo