This thing called marriage Man want’s his wife back after he divorced her, This thing called marriage If you don’t do anything in this life Always pray to marry right, marriage now seem like the weapon of destruction for a lot of men and women, families torn apart , children’s life destroyed, hearts broken .. and you will ask your self how did we get to this , how did we get to this level.. you will wonder how a man who was doting over you and was trying to win your attention and love when you were single now doesn’t give a damn about you.. It still surprises me how marriages get to that level, did the love die? Did he stop seeing the things that used to be there? Was there really love in the first place? How will a man marry a woman and decide to torture her emotionally and make her go thru so much pain… I know people say men suffer emotionally in marriages too, but I can categorically say it is more for women.. is marriage ever gonna be a joyful thing like a lot of ppl dream it should be?I say this because I went to see my friend who is a barrister, I went to do an affidavit and she took me round the secretariat , and we talked and I realized more and more marriages are breaking daily Do you know when she took me to the screen where they displayed cases , out of 10 cases 6 were divorce cases.. my heart broke.. this took me to a friend whose husband woke up after more than 20yrs of marriage with 4 kids he said he wanted a divorce cos he met a young girl of 22yrs … oh how my friend cried and wept , she was heart broken, she said blessing this man took my youth where do I start from.. but I am so grateful because the court ruled in her favor and she was handsomely rewarded for the wasted years… And after years the man has spent with his new young wife he is begging my friend to accept him back, that it was a mistake !who does that ? She went through hell to get her heart back in one Piece and now u want to come and destroy the one she has put together because now she looks better than she was when he left herListen a woman is not a dumping ground for badly behaved men.. Hello woman have you be heart broken, are u still putting the pieces of your heart together from the betrayal and lies , from the emotional torture and the cheating and disappointment he put you thru..In all sincerity I know how heartbreaking it is for the one who promised to be there for you, to love you and treat you right to be the one who stabbed you the most .. trust me you will heal just give yourself time, you are stronger than you think and believe me it is not the end of the world .. I know the years you wasted is never gonna come back but remember it was for a lesson and experience of life .. be strong my queen ..And to the men, you can’t be married and single at the same time, if you can’t be a husband please leave the woman alone for the right man to see her and treat her like the queen that she is , don’t go into someone’s life with the intention to damage them.. Thanks for your time with me here do have an amazing week ahead Talk to you again on real life talk with blessing The voice with a purpose, you can check out more of my podcast on purposefulvoice.com and listen to many more interesting stories..