When you get into a relationship there are a few really important conversations you need to have.

The big ones are what are your wants in the relationship.

1. Marriage
2. Kids YES or NO (if yes how many) 
3. Family Values 
4. Religion Values
   

Then what are your expectations.

1. Mutual trust in each other.
2. Equal commitment to the relationship.
3. Shared affection and appreciation.
4. Empathy towards experiences and emotions.
5. Friendship and admiration in the relationship.
6. A satisfying sexual connection.
7. Mutual understanding and compromise.
8. Respect for differences.
9. Quality time.
10. Shared kindness and generosity.