AITA?

Ladies and Gents, stay strong, no one will hate on you harder than your ex's family.

Get ready for some tea... Coming soon

Family first <3 thank you for understanding 

Every day we wake up and we go through the motions. Sometimes we are just caught up in our routines that we are so accustomed too, but if we start making small changes we can start making big impacts in our life!

Nothing will make me more upset than seeing a child hurting, mentally, physically, or emotionally. So here is a RANT about people who choose to ignore their significant others children.  If you're one of these people... don't let the door hit you on the way our. 

How can we set boundries with ourselves?  1. Saying I am not staying in this argument. (That's a boundary for both people involved) 2. Leaving the room or house allowing things to cool off 3. Setting HEALTHY stipulations in a relationship  4. Letting them know I don't have to anticipate what your issue is, because you know how to talk so you need to tell me. 

7 Life Lessons I wish I knew sooner 1. Its impossible to please everyone 2. Healthy is Wealthy 3. Tomorrow is not a guarantee 4. Own your mistakes 5. Don't regret things that you didn't do 6. Money Cannot solve everything 7. Give yourself grace   

Caring for yourself is probably one of the best things you can do for yourself and yes we over look it so often.  Well it is time we take that back and start filling are cups (spiritually) so we can be the best version  of our selves. 

This is a little insight to my once marriage and when I realized it was build out of convenience.  When I first entered my marriage, as many of us do, I never thought I would be getting a divorce.  However, my whole marriage was built on convenience and the thing about convenience is that it is like a nice guy. It is looking for the fastest and easiest reward without doing any work. So here are 8 signs you are in a relationship only for the convenience of having one.  1. You’re scared to be alone 2. You love your life with them more than you love them (should have been my first clue because I loved our life but felt lonely constantly) 3. There is always a not quite right feeling lingering   4. You’re more friends than lovers   5. Cheating doesn’t seem so bad ( for me this is always a no no) 6. You rather be alone than with them 7. They treat you poorly and you tolerate it because its just easier   8. They don’t add anything to your life. They don’t push you to be better and you don’t want to grow with them. <- I've said how important this is and will say it over and over.