So I wanted to dive in fully about the story of me going out to the show and this woman felt sorry for me but turned out to be a part of the show no one wants!   The state I Iive in has two major cities on the dull list of cities in the USA, no wonder I can't find anything to do lol. 40 is the new 20 when your kid is gone, moms lose themselves while raising kids in a good way, but empty nest syndrome is real. What is fun for adults anyway? Third wheel or go out alone? Glad I listened to my gut.  Queens go out when they want.