Random Ish w Sonja
Random Ish w Sonja
Sonja Denyse
Just like it sounds! This podcast is random-ish inspired by my life. Ish I’m going through or Ish I like. Chatting w guests about Life, Love, Trending topics, Conspiracies, Ish we dream about, Ish we complain about. We also talk energy, Randomly. Our truth with a laugh. Available on Most Platforms.
Damn it they got to me!
Checking in with Andre, it’s been so long since we recorded! We’re getting used to the new normal, are we okay with expressing happiness now? Some folks are still uber cautious and we should be careful, but are we getting programmed to be apart? Are we getting programmed into fear? I saw a few hundred people in the mall and I was not feeling being there, I normally really only like crowds when I’m behind the booth or on a stage, BUT I felt like I had been programmed. So many issues are being brought to our attention and then just disappear… Is there a sinister plot going on? Is there a conspiracy going on? This is the time to exercise our faith and keep our human rights!!! There seems to be a spiritual fight going on for what is right and wrong in the world. Speaking of the World, how is the rest of the World dealing with covid? A neighbor told me we may have it better than we think. Cardi B, so everyone was talking about her divorce we weigh in as well why not?? Is it a stunt just to be talked about? Is it real? Marriage vs Dating, when you marry someone you know who they are, or you at least should know who they are. When taking vows are couples giving up too quickly? If you are wanting to see a change in a person, doesn’t that take real-time or are people just looking for behavior modification? We touch on her chat with Joe Biden, should more non-expected people speak more on politics? Since Obama, are politicians trying to be more “relatable?” Are we racist in the vote? Does being black mean you’re automatically a Democrat? The Republican party WAS ALL BLACK. People are assuming young people will all vote Democrat- I am registered as a Democrat, but to automatically assume I am isn’t that racist? Dream time!! Our show is getting a new platform yay! Just wondering will entertainment go back to auditions and giving people a chance? Social media is not entertainment!!! I miss scripted TV, rom coms and silly shows, bring back our imagination!!!! Social media fame vs paying dues and talent. Social media is beneficial but can be too instant. Never doubt hard work Lizzo, Alicia Keys really playing instruments vs machine learning we still like to see human talent. Inspiration vs doing what is popular. Our new platform coming I want to do it well, create a show I would watch because I love TV vs doing what I think would generate a lot of watchers. Looking forward to the future which is right now. IG: @randomishwithsonja @sonjadenyse @derells.style
Sep 25, 2020
38 min
The Signs of the Times
I couldn’t stay away!!! We’re on hiatus as we prep for this new platform the show will be on. Coming soon this fall! BUT, with so much going on I had to chime in with my two cents! With voting season right around the corner, This is turning out to be a very important election. I’m getting emails from the GOP, always good to know what both sides are doing. Have you Heard the rumors that Trump is the only person who can stop the New World Order from happening. WTF!?! In some other WTF news Cardi B has filed for divorce, are we finally getting tired of the worldwide accepted notion that men are just going to cheat? Women are supposed to deal with it. I really believe it takes a special person to be in a monogamous relationship. Is it possible that women can turn the tide on bringing monogamy back? Or is she just trying to not get her bluff called on?  Is it the D that makes women stay? There is a picture of Fabulous the rapper floating around that will make you think so. 😂 I have reasons you should re think being with a big big man Imjustsayin!!! Next time we’ll check in with Andre!! Be sure to check out the old episodes of random-ish as we get ready for the next l Never stop dreaming!!! IG: @randomishwithsonja
Sep 17, 2020
27 min
So what had happened was...
Introducing our newest family member…Andre! Today's episode is all about breaking the ice, us getting to know each other better… Drinks anyone?!?!? It was crazy hot in my lil living room with no air while we were recording. I happened to be wearing a long ponytail, I had gotten so many compliments earlier that day I needed an impromptu photo shoot when I was out at a fast food place and sent those pics to some dudes. Feeling myself. We all are now getting some long ponytails because it makes you feel like a goddess!! We share what we did for the 4th..do we celebrate or Nah? What is with everyone moving to the Carolina’s??? Them laws will have you moving BACK up North!! Back to the hair really I’m am about to let my hair grow just so I can get a natural 24’ in pony. We seem to be a lil obsessed with long hair, so long we can trip on it, it wouldn’t be embarrassing to trip on long hair, but it would be funny. So, we are putting our pride to the side and sharing some of our most embarrassing moments; mine involves a subway, too much time, and unfortunate timing, Shanel’s story involves the body, a man and privacy invasion. Andre’s story involves glass, a crowd, and starbux. Sorry, you gotta listen for this tea!!  Then I wrap it up with another two for one embarrassing story that leads into the next topic. I have lived some crazy ish... We also chat up the fact that women peak sexually later than men, so maybe nature is saying that older women should date younger men too! I saw a dating app for cougars, so it must be a thing. May December relationships, we talk about dating older men with heart issues, it can be beneficial? I ask everyone's opinion about the statues being removed, I have a suggested solution. Fine you want to keep around the history I can respect that, but keep them in a museum. The way of doing things is changing keep up. Thanks for Listening!! Instagram @randomishwithsonja
Jul 13, 2020
50 min
So this is what happened with that let me see your face guy...
We made it to the end of June!! Even though social media is slowing down on BLM still make calls to the reps of Kentucky to punish the cops for not making sure they were at the correct address when they shot Brianna Taylor. The number is 502-595-2300. On a lighter note I have some hot ass tea for you! The let me see your face guy…new developments have happened and I’m sharing with y’all!!! As folks are saying get in here friend~ oooooooooooohhhhh!!! The Tea The Tea The Tea!! Also, we’ve been talking dating apps I did sign up for one… research time! I mean even during the pre rona time I hardly go anywhere, If Mr. right knocked on my door I’d ignore him. Commit, or not to commit that is the question. We have some ideas on relationships, single, mingle or monogamous. Rona Dating is this causing exes to get back????  Cuz we all see that Koko and Trist have been quarantining together, Plus her BDAY just passed so did mine!!! Nobody wants to really go out, we chat up what we would do for our bday if we had Kardashian money. Fantasy Time!!! I have a wish for Khloe, in case she did get a lil Bday D. Girl I hope you handle that n**^ & here are a few ideas that you need to do to him, we’re just saying, to keep him in his place while he has to make it up to you. Heels, wax, a lil DOM and more. Put it on him girl make him lick your shoe. We love you girl! So we wanted to watch the BET awards to talk about the performances, scheduled a recording started to watch to see it was Daddy’s lil girls by Tyler Perry. C’mon!!! Anyway, folks are mad about Beyonce.. Beyonce has the spell check as I wrote this two times that I have spelled her name wrong because it’s really Beyoncé, which I don’t know How to get that accent there without a right-click. She doesn’t need an award. She’s a legend. We gotta give props to new folks too, are we too sensitive or just getting bored and wanna fight? I feel like this whole rona season got us all changing… is it good is it bad?  This time is showing me you better shoot your shot whatever it is. Unless you are spoken for! We go in one more time on how you need to act, I am not trying to be a hypocrite, I have been the dj at some interesting places/parties, I’ve dated more than one person at a time so I’mma tell you how to approach us. Be open from the jump, everything and everyone is out there, we’re sure you’ll find someone who is down with your situation. Is dating the older guy the way to go? But what about the stamina and spontaneity of the younger guys? Our age ranges we’d be cool with the ’30s are the new teens, 40’s the new 20’s, and the sexy 60’s. There is a cougar dating app, breaking down how we definitely want to be fit and with it, as we age, I’ve heard about those senior living apartments! We are gonna have fun when we get old, look at Betty White, we bet she still gets it in every now and again. We're on Instagram Just started our podcast page!   @RandomIshwithSonja @SonjaDenyse @Bronx_ny24
Jul 3, 2020
54 min
Lost episode of Random Ish_ Quarantine smoney
In the middle of the quarantine I recorded some thoughts on how the world went off on Justin Timberlake about the 24 hr parenting in his big ol' 2nd house, nobody felt for him. 24 hr parenting in a mansion is way different than a 1000 sq ft place the mommy mommy mommy look at me is no joke. Bet he wouldn’t say that now! Also, I may be wrong but I thought Ellen’s comment was funny, how are comics gonna do their job if we’re so sensitive?I get it it’s real out here but we need laughter. I don’t know about you but I wasn’t ready…I only had a month worth of being okay but I have hope… The world is healing itself, the birds I’ve been hearing like crazy, New Delhi, Los Angeles, Venice cleared up, now we are going back to work, we need to WANT to work with our planet. The changes we’ve seen will we keep them up? Always looking for the silver lining. Being a manifesting beauty person doesn’t mean completely ignoring what’s going on but using what’s going on as a catalyst. My current catalyst finances. For the past couple of years, I’ve been noticing you gotta go online and build new income. I have been working on streams they are in the baby phase and growing. I have been in radio for nearly 20 years but there is nothing tangible to show for my efforts. I was given the advice to create something I own, and I have started, first I got into dj’ing but that is kinda canceled this year.  Radio doesn’t even pay as it used to now you gotta go on tour aka appearances. If you’re not syndicated, you’re not making that skrilla. I know I am not alone in thinking about finances ways to start investing or saving, I started using Acorn which takes money out and uses AI to invest, I use Robinhood for stocks, that can be scary but you can learn, Also, Digit takes money out automatically and goes into an account. We have always known there is the Have’s and Have nots, right now it is affecting all of us. All of us who make fast cash because we work directly with people are directly affected. Waiting for someone to take care of me is not my bag. I have been disappointed, but as far as the Law of manifesting go we have to realize its never about them its always just about us. I tend to do for myself, but this time in history a lot of us are having to cope with relying on help. That is not a bad thing. We do need to take care of ourselves and right now take care of others. When thinking of world-wide needs, let’s pray these leaders get in the right vibration to make these decisions out of love and not fear. There is so much going on right now, have you seen the articles about the parallel universe? Could we be leaving the dark ages and heading towards a new golden era? For us creators it’s important we remember these laws and use our knowledge in the area of finance. This time period is making me feel like those in the entertainment/personal care are being punished.  We are not being punished, perhaps we are being given time to reevaluate and make new choices? Looking back, see I’ve been moving into this new direction for quite a while now. Maybe a lot of us have been being called, but we were ignoring? Let’s stop doing that. Appreciation to the states and governors and those working to make sure we will get through this together, I know you will do the right thing for the next few months. Here’s to us really receiving our money from all of our passions. I needed this reset. I had a belief that I would rather be broke and free than be chained to a schedule and unhappy. My belief now I’d rather be happy creative and fulfilled and prosperous rather than working super hard just to keep afloat. I hope you are taking care of yourself and getting ready for the new you too, here is to us expanding and getting more streams of satisfaction.
Jun 23, 2020
17 min
A Whole New World Pt 2
The girls are back together!! Discussing the reopening, our state opens June 20th, the new normal, it seems we are creating a new better world.  In the wake of the protests and the murder of George Floyd, damn the looters,  we peaceful protesters are making a point. Police officers are supposed to be seen as heroes, they do have a dangerous job, but the systematic racism has clouded their judgment. Looting not the answer, but why do humans only respond to violence? Kaepernick was kneeling and that was a problem. Why are we mad at Jay Z? Is it possible people are clout chasing talking smack to keep the BS going? Crab mentality my take on his comment, past kneeling, wasn’t a dig at Kaepernick, he was saying at this time we are past that, it’s time for real change. Speaking of change, George Clooney wrote an essay that touched us, stood up for us, and now we need a George Clooney in our lives!  No disrespect Amal, your man is everything. All we want is Equality. It’s 2020 it is time to fight for human rights period. Black lives matter. The world has allowed POC to be seen and thought of as animals, thugs, murderers, addicts. WE ARE HUMAN. Thinking of George Clooney has us thinking of dating in 2020 so many people feel like this year is a waste but it’s all about doing things new…I got hit on at the store, which was weird but funny. Should we go online to date? Dating Apps vs meeting in person, I have the hardest time describing myself in a few words, but we have a few online date stories. The dating apps have seen an increase in usage, can you trust it? Have you heard of coronazone? Speaking of just flirting for the quarantine how many couples have split during the rona? We name some couples who have split, one couple from the bachelor….we have a message for you ABC get some diversity yo. The other couples, Scott and Sofia, Brian Austin Green and Megan FOX and more Mary Kate’s break up sparked a debate, May-December romance, you down? We chat up some older fine ass dudes, these guys could get it.. Clooney, Washington, Connery.  Speaking of sex, Shanel missed our conversation about the NY guidelines on how to have safer sex during the rona. I love how real NY keeps it. Keep it in the house or close circle of people. So basically, NO Kissing and wear a mask. Get a lil kinky they say and put a wall in-between? 3 and 4 is a crowd, take your business online apparently, a lot of folks have done just that even Beyoncé mentions the Only Fanz. Are we now being controlled on how we can have sex? I personally think we ain’t having it, we will keep getting down its one of the original medicines. Question: will those who broke up will they get back together for sex? Even tho we are tired of the rona, we do still have to take precautions and use our faith to get thru all of this. Thru the protests, we are showing our spirit! I think it is perfect timing, keep your foot on the gas but keep your distance. We ain’t going out out yet and keeping the circle tight, we’ll watch you all and see what happens. We're all about having fun, having faith, 2020 is teaching us a lesson, we needed the time to deal with the old BS that holds us back. Aliens are next. Navy released old footage, we have talked about that before, full disclosure is coming this is why we are being faced with the fact WE are brothers and sisters and other folks from other planets are our cousins. Things aren’t the same it’s been 100 years since the last pandemic, but we are going to get through this. Even though all of us are at risk, we came together to unite worldwide about the fact it’s time, Equal Rights for everyone!
Jun 15, 2020
56 min
A whole new world
As the country staggers its reopening, this weekend proved some folks just wanna party! According to Slate magazine’s survey, more republicans are ready to get back to work than democrats. The pics from parties over the weekend Have me realizing it really will be a new normal. How will dating be??? Many of us were ready to get out and live our best single life and now???? Will we rub elbows? Either way, ladies don’t put all your eggs in his basket till he says and shows he’s wanting them eggs. Girl until then play play play. Maybe this new world will bring back courting and actual dating not DTF? I thought I’d be one of the first to get back out Yea, No. To work or not to work in public that is the question. Have you seen the video of the animals trying to escape? Us.  Should we party with masks? Is it possible the internet pics are old? You do you imma do me. But I do feel like we are being dumb in front of the world. Keeping my eyes on me what I’ve been working on,  and learning these past few weeks I have been productive in my own way. Self-love is key, but if we all look alike even the non-conformists then are we really loving self? I mean the non-conformists all have the same badges… come down the rabbit hole for just a bit. Are you, You? Am I me? Or we just reflections of light bouncing around? Learning how to love self and be in a society without losing self is a topic for another time.  I’ve been thinking about individuality, how some strive to be seen as different the ambition, the clothes we look at them and get inspired so are we really even us or collection of things we’ve seen? The rabbit hole. Anyone else noticing that in some aspects we are going back to the nineties kids playing outside, neighbors talking, people walking around it’s beautiful. I feel like we have to look for the beauty and good in this situation so those who were lost, cannot be in vain. It seems to me this is a faith battle that gives us an opportunity to Manifest Beauty. Moving thru chaos with our mind, heart, body in alignment with the source of it all. Feeling like Mr. Rogers over here.
May 27, 2020
31 min
Captain Save a Hoe, Is not Always a Man.
This episode: The light at the end of the tunnel of lockdown 2020?  Staying Safe at home.  Speaking of staying safe, I want to talk about women's safety, this topic is hitting close to home so it's time to maybe speak on some experience.  Independent women are not exempt from finding themselves in some serious shit.  Did our periods set us up to deal with pain in life? Even Expect it? I'mjustsaying we was born to deal with shit but not this! Love vs That Ain't love Hunny for women and men! Red Flags, Social media realistic points of view.  No love is worth giving yourself away, but do you realize you gave yourself away? Avoiding THAT TYPE Syndrome your path to new happiness.  THE GET OUT GAME PLAN if you're stuck and don't know how to leave this is how I did it 20 years ago and I have NOT attracted that since.  New Life New You.
May 12, 2020
34 min
Manifest at Home
Day 1 million 500 thousand of lockdown 2020, how are you doing?? Me, I'm doing alright finding things to appreciate in the face of fear,  which is NOT always easy! This whole thing is not a hoax we need to focus on wanted not unwanted.  What I want, to be able to manifest wanted no matter what is going on around me, No matter who is around me. This is a time when we want to be very confident in the advice or words we share.   I was wondering how do we manifest when you have to spend the majority of your time inside?  Well, the universe/God showed up and showed out in the lil ways that matter the most. Sharing some manifest stories from last week.  Intention or satisfaction is the manifestation game?  
Apr 22, 2020
23 min
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