We are below our own standards which are standards that we clearly don’t have to begin with. You don’t know why you can’t get it together. When you don’t know something you seek info, you get help. You don’t just let it go. We get that concept on everything except when it comes to us. You don’t know something at work, you figure it out…you ask. You don’t know why your kid has been squinting, you seek prof help. You don’t know why there is a water spot on your ceiling, you call a plumber or contractor.