Dr. Money is back for the final QueerWOC episode of 2021! Money talks things that happened this year that she appreciates, how to share with a friend without overwhelming them, and queer femme fashion. Khadija Mbowe is QueerPOC of the week.Intro by @truthizmagicTransition and outro by @abundanc3beats https://songwhip.com/abundanc3beats/lotus-tape-vol-1https://songwhip.com/abundanc3beats/drift-woodWhere to find us:IG & Twitter - @queerwocpod FB - https://www.facebook.com/QueerWOCpod/Tumblr - www.QueerWOC.comContribute to QueerWOC via CashApp: $QueerWOCPodBecome a Patron: https://www.patreon.com/queerwocpodUse the hashtag #QueerWOC to talk all things the podcastSend us an email or submit your Curved Chronicles: [email protected]QueerWOC of the Week Khadija MboweYouTube video essayist and cultural critic link here: https://youtu.be/Rf3zj1qVbcoMental Moment with Money That's not what trauma bonding means! A trauma bond - also known as a bond of trauma, abusive bonding,, traumatic love, traumatic bonding, or Stockholm syndrome is a dynamic that occurs in the context of abusive relationships. It happens when the person inflicting exploitation, violence, or another type of trauma becomes an essential part of the persons life who is experiencing this trauma. So what are people trying to get at by misusing the term?How to share without "dumping" on someone: ACTIONAsk consent - I would like to share something hard with you, do you have the capacity to hear it? Check in as you share - I know this is hard to hear, are you okay?Tell them what you need or how you are healing- Inquire about them - so I just shared a lot but I would love to hear about youOpen up about other things- I also love potteryNotice how you feel sharing - were you ready to share?https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/trauma/what-abusers-hope-we-never-learn-about-traumatic-bonding/Topic Things I’m thankful happened this yearCurved Chronicles Queer femmes jus different!Community Contributors Now Credits This episode of QueerWOC the podcast was made possible thanks to the monetary contributions of Maya W who became a new patron, REVIEWS BY CAMERAQT, YVACREE, and zeeezeeeThis episode was also made possible by the listeners in Luton, UK; Moscow, Russia; and Douglasville, GA